Date women from United States / Alabama / Birmingham, 43 year old

Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. There is nothing "average or slender" about me, so if that is your preference...stop reading and skip the pics! ;)... I learn from every experience, good or bad and release the negative parts. I am kind, confident and I am very flirty and playful (with my man...ONE MAN ONLY!) I think that is the key to keeping the fun alive. I am open minded about most things. I can dress up and attend the opera or throw on jeans and go for a beer and a good football game.
I am not looking for the love of my life. It would be nice, but that is something one should never "look" for on the journey. When we look, we are likely to focus on the wrong things and miss what is real. If you are a good dad, secure and interesting...those are the three key things I find attractive in a man.
Just relax, talk, hang out...if we mesh, we mesh...if we don't, we don't...
I am a proud Mom and love spending time with my kids. They are almost grown (teens) but still need Mommy at times. They are special in my world!
I take care of myself and family. I work hard and want to unwind in my off time. Are you interesting?... I am very picky about that, more so than about physical attributes. Unlike many women, I don't care what you drive or your net worth. Again, that is too much focus on the wrong things....
At our age, we all have past relationships, I try to learn from them and be better because of them. :) I believe in acceptance and encouragement within a relationship.
I exercise when I can, usually walk/jog...hit the gym when possible. I was introduced to physical goal setting by my best friend and I am trying my best to keep with the program. I have lost a huge amount of weight very slowly over three years and I will continue doing so at my own pace. I do this for me (my health) and my family.
I like confidence in a man, but not over confidence. I like a man who is secure! I do NOT like cheaters, players or liars!

Meet a woman from Alabama, United States. I am a kind-hearted, honest, loyal person, who values my friends and family. I would consider myself to be career-oriented, but I'm always ready to leave work behind on Friday afternoons and have fun! I am passionate about traveling to new places and trying new things. I love eating out and trying new dishes, as well as cooking new recipes. I like to live an active lifestyle including skiing, hiking, playing tennis, and running.
I would love to find someone special that has similiar interests, ie, likes to travel to interesting places, trying new restaurants and foods, enjoys engaging in meaningful discussions, and has a love for the outdoors. Chemistry is important in a relationship, but mutual respect, communication, and a sense of humor are equally important to me.

Date someone special from Alabama, United States. OK, here we go...
I'm pretty easy going and enjoy having a good time whether that is cuddling on the couch watching a good movie, cooking out with friends and family or being out on the town with that someone special. I grew up playing sports and have been pretty active all my life so if given the choice to watch a sporting event on TV or how to care for ferns in the humid southern regions, I will choose the sporting event 9 out of 10 times:) LOL (Don't judge, one day I might need to know how to care for ferns in the south:) Knowledge is power after all!
As I said, I love sports of any kind, all kinds of music, a good workout, being outdoors, and trying new things (at least once anyway!) However, my hard limits are anything to do with sharks, snakes, or hurling myself out of a perfectly good airplane. Will never happen I don't care how good looking or sexy you are :)
I love to travel and enjoy seeing new places. I have been fortunate enough to visit some pretty amazing places so far and eventhough I really haven't had much time for travel lately, hopefully that will change in the near future. I have some big trips I want to cross off my bucket list and some small trips that throwing a bag in a car on Friday afternoon will handle:)
I love Italian food, seafood and a great steak on the grill. My ideal date would be sitting on the beach as the sun goes down with a six pack of beer (for both of course:) scheming about what to get into later in the evening or jumping in the car for great conversation and stopping when the feeling hits us. I love to be spontaneous and like someone who can just go with the flow as well.:)
While I love getting dressed up for a fancy night on the town, because let's face it, date night is important at any stage of a relationship. I really enjoy being casual and in the moment because that's when all the great things happen! I like to keep things real and know where I stand with someone, that's when I'm at my best! I love to laugh and love making that someone special laugh too, life is too short for anything else!
My perfect guy: Obviously the one still reading this...LOL!
Anyway, if any of this appeals to you and you would like to get to know each other better, just shoot me an email and let's see where things go from there!

Meet a soulmate from United States. Describe myself- where to start? It is difficult to put in writing what a stranger wants to hear about you & then want to know more.
Cooking is NOT my forte, I am a better assistant. I do like to bake. A good cold beer or drink at the end of the day with some music playing (out or at home) is always better when you have someone to share it with.
I do like to be active too- hiking, biking, walking, the occasional pick up basketball game with my kids. I have played pool & darts, albeit badly. I have just started training for a 5k, maybe a10k after that? I played racquetball what seems like a lifetime ago & would love to get back into it. I have always wanted to white water raft & deep sea fish- looking for someone to teach me or learn with me.
I have two great kids that I love to the moon and back. As much as I love them, I would like to have a man in my life that I can share everything with- good, great, bad & ugly. Quiet days, sporting events, going to see a good band play, movie nights, hanging with friends all are great times.
I work from home (I telecommute) which makes it hard to meet people. I like my job & love that I don't have to commute or "dress" for work, but my coworkers live all over the country- none in the Birmingham area. All of my family is in the north east, also making it hard to meet people.
Please, if you are interested let me know. But also, don't say your interested with a wink-email- or favorite & then block me. Is there even a point to that? I am not interested in attempting to juggle my dates- so far there has been no problem with that. I am also not a fan of lying or cheating. If any or all of that is what have to bring to the table, please move on.
Good luck in your search. I hope you find what, or who you are looking for. Maybe it's me...

Date a woman from United States. After being out of the dating arena for quite a while, I thought this may be the easiest way to meet people. I have to admit that I have no idea what to expect from an online dating site.

I am looking for friendship at this point in my life, but I am not opposed to something more if there is a real connection with someone. I hope to meet somebody that is funny and can make me laugh, but understands when it is time to be serious about things. A man that can actually express his feelings and isn't afraid of his emotions would be great. I would love to meet someone that is genuine, honest, compassionate, as well as passionate. Someone that is happy and confident with who they are, but willing to be open minded enough to listen to and respect different opinions.

I am passionate about reading, nature, animals, and my job as a nurse. I love to travel and experience new places, cultures, and people. I recently lived in Namibia in southern Africa for a couple of years and it was an amazing experience in so many different ways. Volunteer work has also been a big part of my life and I really have received so much more from volunteering than I have ever given.
I am a very genuine person and really see no need to hide who I am or what I have done in life. I am honest, sometimes a little too honest. I just don't believe in sugar coating things. This does not mean that I am uncaring though, after all I am a nurse for a reason. I love to laugh and at times I have a sarcastic sense of humor.
I could go on, but it would be better if you found out about me in person. So, send me message if you are interested! Please do not contact me if you are married.

Meet someone special from United States. ok...Someone that can laugh at himself, travel and have had the opportunity to see a part of the world most people only hear about, confident, passionate and loyal, emotionally stable...Thanks for reading

Date a soulmate from Birmingham, United States. I am reliable, active, outgoing, independent, adventurous, honest, hard working, family oriented and I love to laugh!
I have two boys (10 and 12) that keep me very busy and I enjoy every minute of it!
Family and friends are very important to me. I love going out to dinner and cooking with friends.
I like to stay active- I love to play tennis, bike, run-pretty much any kind of exercise, especially outdoors. But, I know how to sit back and relax- reading, cooking, having a glass of wine or beer, and lounging at the lake or beach .
Being an active person is a huge part of who I am so I need someone who understands that and hopefully is the same way. Communication is important- being active together is one thing, but being able to come home and actually enjoy each other's company is a must.
I'm looking for someone who is outgoing, active ,family oriented, honest, hard working, reliable, confident. Someone who doesn't like drama, knows what he wants, enjoys the outdoors, and can make me laugh. Someone I can respect and trust, talk openly about everything, share the good and the bad. I'm not about playing games- I am perfectly content with how my life is now but I would love to find someone to share it with. I am not one to rush into anything- I strongly believe in being friends first and if something is meant to be then it will happen.

Meet a woman from Birmingham, United States. Joining one of these dating sites is out of my comfort zone and uncharacterisitc of me but have many friends that suggested I give it a try.
I aim to live fully each day with thankfulness and eyes wide open to whatever God has for me. Have lived in Birmingham for the most part over the last 22 years and have worked professionally as a photostylist for editorial, lifestyle magazines. Also, do interior decorating,floral design. Am single mom of three children who have no relationship with their father and receive no support so I spend most of my time working or caring for them. If that means cleaning houses, I do that, too to make ends meet!
Not into partying, or the bar scene..........but am all the way through a people meeting new people, helping people, serving people, and just getting to know another person's story. I believe that love is what changes people and my heart seems to always have more love than time to give to others.
Many things bring me to life and I find I learn something new almost everyday.
If I had more time there are so many things I miss doing.....I must say, I am independent, having had to become so but glad for do also require and enjoy alone time......
Someone for me I think would be a man who has a passion for God and for others, has integrity, is at peace with himself and can manage his own inspired by beautiful and interesting things and people but not dictated by them....enjoys nature, books, the arts, photography, coffee, non-chain restaurants and knows good wine and who is positive and makes me laugh!
I would love to be treated well....that would be nice....and with respect and honor....that would be excellent....and be adored ....that would be incredible. :)

Date someone special from Birmingham, United States. I'm a down to earth person who enjoys the simple things in life. I like someone who has a great sense of humor. I'm so proud of my associates degree in accounting and in business. Something I totally earn on my earn with lots of hard work. I'm very grateful and my current job and my accomplishments. I love to meet someone who is down to earth person and knows what he wants. I consider myself to be conservative. I never consider myself to be a party person. I believe one can have just a good time without partying and drinking. I'm passionate about my family. If it was not for them. I would not be where I'm at today.

. I thought about just copying the "Adventurous and Humorous" example they give you here on Match, but I'll give it my best shot.
I am originally from Alabama, just relocated back to Birmingham after being in New York City for five years. Ok, random things about me: I thought The Hangover was hilarious, I know the words to almost every song (friends call me the human jukebox), and I will beat you at Trivial Pursuit!
I love to travel, love movies, old and new. I love the bookstore, the beach, and doing things that sometime make me nervous, keeps me on my toes. I'm very adventurous, my bags are always packed and ready for a last minute trip. I have two dogs that I'm crazy about, but I'm not crazy dog lady!
I hate that this sounds so generic, but I think you have to meet people in person to really get to know them. Yes, most folks like the beach, music, good food, don't know many who like bad :) I'm a big believer in first impressions.
I love children, not sure if it's in the cards for me, but I'd make an awesome stepmom!
If you are kind to old people, animals and waiters, don't wear your pants too high, and have never worn socks with sandals, and people tell you you're funny and cute with some regularity, we might have a match.

. I am lot's of fun to be around. I love going to the beach and playing golf with friends. I am a BIG college football fan and my team is the Georgia Bulldawgs!!!!! I grew up in Atlanta and love going home to see friends and family. On my days off, I love to relax and just hang out.

. Hello, I am very loving kind of person who is down to earth. person who likes the simple things in life. A little bit shy until I get to know you. I enjoy going to the movies, dining out, long walks and being with my family. I either enjoy watching or going to football games. (Alabama Football). I love all kinds of outdoor activities, I have a good sense of humor and try to be serious only when need be. I'm a professional lady, but I perfer a good pair of blue jean and a nice shirt. I'm a big animal lover. I enjoy traveling when I have the spare time especially to the mountains or the beach. I would love to meet someone who is down to earth and who is honest know what he wants with no temper. I have strong family values, which my family taught me, so please no games.

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