Date a soulmate from California, United States. A very old friend recently told me that there are just four things men want: 1) sex, 2) food, 3) sleep and 4) to be left alone. Is this an oversimplification? Or is there a grain of truth in this? Actually, as I sit here and contemplate this, I would probably have to admit that the aforementioned list isn’t all that different for women, or at least for the women I know. The only difference would probably be the priority order, and you would have to substitute #4)“to be left alone” with “to have someone to really talk to”. Hmmm…it’s that #4) that probably screws everything up between the sexes. What do you think?
This old friend also told me that there isnРІР‚в„ўt any problem in the world that canРІР‚в„ўt be solved over a glass good wine. I would have to agree with this. I have also been lectured that if I expect to find my version of a good mate (eg. Male, height/weight proportionate, takes care of himself, dresses well, hasnРІР‚в„ўt shown up on AmericaРІР‚в„ўs Most Wanted any time in the recent past, doesnРІР‚в„ўt need financial counseling, can tell the difference between a lunatic Republican and a cheesy Democrat, had a mum who taught him why exactly he should leave the seat down, also had a mum who taught him that a wife wasnРІР‚в„ўt just a substitute for a mother, speaks in more than just a grunt) that I need to start including gay men in my list of whom I would like to date. Say it isnРІР‚в„ўt so!!! Are you the heterosexual exception to the rule???