Date men and women from United States / California / Port Hueneme, 47 year old

Date someone special from Port Hueneme, United States. I am relaxed, easygoing and love to have a good time. I love to have fun and don't like to take myself too seriously. Given a choice, I will always see the bright side. Beleive it or not, but despite the pink hair, I am very down to earth ;-)
I would really like to meet someone who I not only shared common interests with but was also a glass half full kind of guy with a great sense of humor, adventure and fun.
I've spent most of the past 25 years married, so rather than working on a career, I've mostly been concentrating on being a good wife and mother (haha- at least my kids are turning out great!) so yes, I am just a waitress. I am in school for something else now, but I do really love my job. I love it so much that it has been difficult to motivate myself to do something else but I know I can't be a waitress forever.
I'm not looking for someone to complete me or to complete someone else. I am already complete. I would really like to find someone who was my friend though. Someone to share the small joys as well as the large and who wanted to share those joys with me as well.
My oldest daughter is 23 and out of the house, but I have my daughter who is almost 13 with me full time and my 11 year old son with me 40%. When I am with my kids, that is the most important thing and whomever I am with needs to understand that.
Also- I'd really like to learn to drive a motorcycle, if you want to teach me :)