Date men and women from United States / California / Oxnard, 69 year old

Date a man from United States. After working most of my adult life as an electrical engineer for Northrop Grumman in the Washington D.C. area, I ended up in California working on a Navy contract at Pt. Mugu and decided to retire here.
I have been married twice..the second lasted 20 years and have one son, 34 years old and in the Navy.
Although I tend to be on the quiet side, my friends will tell you I can be outgoing when the occasion arises.
Most of my friends are women (platonic relationships) because men tend to bore me.
I have a witty sense of humor and not afraid to make fun of myself.
Some of the things I enjoy are dancing, dining out occasionally and live theatre. I am a sports fan (mainly football and baseball) but am not a "rah-rah" type (I follow the Washington Redskins and Los Angeles Dodgers). I also enjoy golf but haven't played in several years.
Except for Rap, I like almost all music but my favorites are Southern rock and "oldies but goodies". Although I am not a singer, I have, on occasion, sang at Karaoke.
I am very flexible and can adapt to almost anything (well..opera and ballet might be stretching it). Sharing time together is more important to me than wherever we are or whatever we do.
About the one I'm looking for...
I am looking for someone that is outgoing with a good sense of humor. Someone who is confident being her own person and independent. Since I am a good listener, I expect the same (conversation should be two-sided). I am looking for friendship first but if that leads to something more, so much the better.

Meet someone special from United States. Native Californian, live on the Gold Coast, yet still cosmopolitan enough to have fun.
I'm retired from a very fruitful, but demanding job. I'm still a worker bee so I don't like sitting around on my hands. I want to make one more mark before hanging up those reins, so I'm looking for some new interesting and rewarding endeaver to pursue. Oh! I forgot, I'm looking for someone to fill my parched lovelife too. Maybe first. She comes into the room and I feel my knees weaken; a little. She has charisma. She has eyes; they say things. She knows the Queens English, and doesn't mind using it; I hope I can understand. Oh, the kicker, she drives a Ferrari, and aeroplanes.... She sips from her crystal flute and mentions her place...Paleeese! It must be a teenage thing!
I have two kids, son 31, daughter 25, both still in school. I have cars, like sports (play and watch) and live at the beach, mostly similar to a bum; but, I do have a refined side: I was raised on classical music, performing arts and appreciating various artforms, I like culinary delights (food and drink) and can cook (I don't let that word out often.) I can listen to just about any music, except for sure Rap.
The person I'm looking for has just about the same eclectic, sometimes esoteric likes; or maybe, a great tolerance of the idiotic things I do; after all, I am just a man. She is intelligent, can understand a joke, and has no trouble laughing at a myrid of things. And, maybe she'll have fun with me when I have the refined side out. Although I've been stuck in the mud several times, I'm no "stick in the mud," and have no trouble mingling with the crowd at social gatherings. So you can take me out places without too many reservations.
That's enough for now. Call me.

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