Date people from California, United States. I'm a quiet guy who isn't in love with the sound of his own voice and likes to listen to what other people have to say. I will go out there and say it, you probably will not be into me on the first date, I'm not Mr. Charismatic:) Don't take this for insecurity, the more you hang out with me the more you'll realize what I'm about, and I think it's not all that bad.... a normal guy with a good job who tells lame jokes and can't seem to get through a day without at least one awkward moment.... like writing this profile for instance.
A few more things about me,
I feel like I've focused to much on work and not enough on my social life this last year or so and would like to find someone who will challenge me to try new things.
I prefer spur of the moment vs planned activities and willing to try most things at least once...
If you want to get to know me a little more you know what to do....thanks for checking out my profile.
Meet a soulmate from California, United States. Looking for someone driven in life, knows what she wants. Also, love for politics and sports wouldn't hurt. My main interests are simple...I enjoy watching sports(on TV and attending events), increasing my knowledge of the business world, and of course, movies.
Date someone special from California, United States. soy una persona conprenciba,romantico megusta la musica me encantan las Armas mipreoridad las el respeto apersonas deedad abansada mipareja consentirla, chiquiarla,complaserla,icienpre pensar primero en ella.
Meet single man from California, United States. What I have learned from previous relationships is: that I'm a good catch. I am funny, quick witted, I don't drink or smoke and never have/never will. I'm edumacated. I absolutely love movies. I am a local independent filmmaker and I work for video transfer business that I own with my brother located near the Ventura Harbor. I see the world differently than most. My words are chosen very carefully and thoughtfully. I love watching movies and hold a higher standard to what I think determines what is a good movie. If you don't like critiquing movies; you may find me very boring and annoying. I over analyze everything and constantly make observations of psychological or physical behavior. I'll keep talking about movies even if your not listening. You can't stop me. lol. I like watching movies with kids and explaining the morals and back stories that tie into the characters actions. If you haven't guessed it by now, I am a nerd. I like talking about the mysteries of the Universe and theories of Quantum Mechanics and the Big Bang Theory is my favorite show.
I'm very mature yet I lived a real sheltered life as a child due to sickness and Asthma so, there is a lot of things I haven't experienced or done before so, bare with me because, I'm a quick learner. I sometimes come across something that appears alien to me or I often take the long way cause I know no other way. But I'm always willing to learn. lol. It's most noticeable in my driving skills. I learned about the world and human psychology through reading books and watching lots of good television. I am good at communicating with kids and animals. Didn't mean to group them up like that.lol
I currently take care of my mother at my house whom is currently going through Chemo therapy to fight her cancer.
I have a photographic memory (if you thought I wrote, pornographic memory, you just promoted yourself to the top of my list) and I can remember every detail of what is said or shown in a movie or in life. I am an artist and photographer. I'm a laid back individual. I like hiking and being out in nature. But my film career often keeps me in the house or office where I edit all night on my computer. I like to correct peoples grammar when they are still mid sentence. I do it with everyone. I take that back I'm not that great a catch. lol. I'm a good cook and I prefer to wash my own dishes. I'm good at remembering numbers but I often get lost when I need to drive somewhere new.lol
I love to over analyze things to death. I think its funny if we get stuck on a subject and we talk for hours on the tiniest minute details of human behavior. I love to hear a group of people debate on a subject or politics and I like to participate in the debates. So I'm looking for a lady that can talk about men/women and relationships and not assume that I'm trying make a comment about our own relationship. In debates I am usually speaking generally and not about any specific person.
So, I'm looking for some one out going, patient and funny that is also a good listener and is not afraid to speak her mind. Opinions Wanted!
Date people from California, United States. I'm pretty chill and laid-back - looking for someone with a good head on her shoulders and doesn't mind doing outdoor activities here and there. I can find my way around a big city but also enjoy relaxin' at the beach.
Meet a man from California, United States. Looking for a sweet kind girl that is loyal and understandable.I will give a girl a chance.I will respect the girl and show her a good time. I will show her the time me her life in the time of us. I'm loyal and like to go fishi,camping,bike riding and working out alo.
Date a soulmate from Oxnard, United States. I enjoy a little bit of everything life has to offer, willing to try new things. I enjoy the outdoors, traveling, restaurants, and socializing with friends. Its just better living and sharing life with someone else. I enjoy being active, healthy and staying fit. family and friends are important to me as well. I am also a huge sports fan: Raiders, Lakers, and Dodgers are my teams. I also love watching a variety of movies. I'm easy to get along with, and I am a very positive person. I'm looking for some one who is open minded and easy going like myself and likes to try new things.
Meet single man from Oxnard, United States. Alright, so what does one say to get your attention? I honestly have no clue. So let me get some of this stuff out first. I’m not rich, my body isn’t shredded (I’m definitely not fat), and I’m only 5’8”. If you can get past those three things, we’re in business. What I lack in those categories, I promise you I make up for with the size of my heart.
I was raised in the Midwest in Ohio in a log cabin that our family built log by log. I grew up hunting and fishing and working the farms like most kids where I came from. I came out here for the Navy in 1998 and bought myself a little house, but my Midwest values are still near and dear to my heart. You’ll hear me say yes ma’am no ma’am and yes sir no sir. Chivalry is not dead, and anyone who thinks so is probably selfish.
My parents met on a blind date and have been married for about 38 years now, talk about setting the right example. Love them dearly and talk to them daily even though I don’t get to see them as often as I’d like to. My sister met her match here on this website, so I’ve got hope.
As I stated before, I am in the Navy. For almost 15 years now, and just another 5 until I can retire. I’m not in the typical Navy like everyone thinks; I have never been on a ship or out to sea. Yes I deploy, but I fly everywhere I need to go. I am a builder for the Navy, so I do have my handyman skills.
Off time, well, you can catch me here at home with my dog relaxing, out on my boat fishing, ball games, cycling, and maybe just taking a little drive. There’s plenty more that I do, just giving you an idea.
I’ve been on and off of this site for long enough and never though it would be so hard to find someone to hug and hold, take out, spoil, and just generally want to be around. Am I asking for too much?
So, if you like what you hear or are curious, gimme a holler, send me a wink, IM me. You will never know unless you take a chance. And let me sum this up with a little quote from the man.
"....A simple I love you means more than money...." FRANK SINATRA
Date men and women from Oxnard, United States. Single parent, my daughter lives with me. Ain't got no babies mama drama. Just living life to the best of my ability, work m-f so I stay busy, love to go to the beach and bbq on the weekends. I aint asking for much really, just looking for a good girl, overall!!!
Meet someone special from Oxnard, United States. I am a father of 2 kids that mean the world to me. My social life when i dont have my kids right now at this time in my life is all about studying mixed with watching sports when i get a chance, im back in school trying to get my general contractors license so that my kids will always be taking care for the rest of there life. What im looking for is someone to spend time with n at the same time realize i have a 1 year old n 5year old that i love very much.
Date men and women from California, United States. Simple guy, who works hard, and likes to have fun.
I am looking for a smart and caring girl with a great smile
Meet people from California, United States. I'm always striving for more in terms of goals and believe that life is best lived when youre not afraid to make mistakes and learn from them in order to become a better person. I value qualities like honesty, loyalty, trust and empathy. I consider myself a good balance between idealism and realism. I strive to think independently and not let labels define who I am, or who other people think I should be. Everyone has their own meaning of life, my personal belief is to do what I can to leave the world a better place than when I got here. Life should never, ever be boring (especially in California, right?). I was raised in the south so I truly believe that chivalry is still alive and well. Im a great friend, a good listener, and will always have your back if you have mine. Last but definitely not least, Im an optimist who makes it a point (its part of my job ;) to see the positives in every situation regardless of the circumstance.
Since Im relatively new to Ventura County Im looking to meet people outside of work with similar interests. I don't have expectations set in stone with being on this site, so it would just be nice to meet casually and see if anything develops from there.
I'm looking for someone that's thoughtful, funny, smart, dedicated, beautiful, adventurous and confident.... who enjoys concerts, art galleries, long drives to wine country, hiking, lazy sundays, sushi happy hours, hitting the beach, sponteanous staycations, coffee and movie dates, dim lounges, football games, photography and exploring culture. If this sounds interesting to you or you want to know more, hit me up and drop me a line and I'll happily respond.
Ciao!