Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. Where to begin? I am a career minded, christian male. I enjoy the great outdoors. Life is not supposed to be lived inside all of the time. I am settled financially, mature, and compassionate about everything that I do in life. I enjoy writing, photography, scuba diving, movies, music and a few other hobbies. Life is meant to be shared with everyone, but I am in search of that someone, only one. Humor is the spice of life, and a mirror is a reflection of that. The perfect woman? The one with me. She must have a sense of humor. I have been called a prude, borderline genius, heartless, generous, angry, loving, jaded, bold, opinionated, selfish and selfless. Pick one or come up with your own. I would like to just be called "friend" at the very worst. We are human, we have all of the above. I'm not into swinging, being your sugar daddy, paying off your debt, partying all night, raising your kids, or fighting with your ex. I don't have drama in my life, make sure you don't. I am no prize catch but you would still be proud to take me home to meet your parents. I am over weight and struggle with that on a daily basis. I do have all of my teeth, my hair is real too. I want a woman who is aggressive enough to ask for something, yet submissive enough to give. Willing to have something and thankful to have anything. Well, if you've made it this far, you are either bored, want to be humored or we actually may have a chance. My picture is not posted because I am a business man in a small community and I do not need ANY negative feedback. If you would like to know more you can email me, call me, etc.