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Date single man from Thousand Oaks, United States. I’m going to be blunt and perhaps brash... but why beat around the bush? I’m not sure anyone even reads these anyway. It seems like people are only window shopping.
I’m 37 and a successful professional who happens to be tattooed. My look... though not for everyone, is not a lack of being held enough by mom as a child, but as a reflection and extension of my experiences. In fact, after looking at them you would get a really good sense of exactly who I am and what I hold important to me. So what is that?
First and foremost… my family. I CAN NOT EVER explain how hugely important they are to me. Even in disappointment they never stop loving and supporting me. A close second is my core group of friends. My iPhone is full of numbers, but my "Favorites" section has merely a few... if you've made it there, then you are as close to family as you could less the blood relation. There’s nothing I wouldn’t do for my family. Next, I work in the television industry to which I view as more of a lifestyle than a job. Nevertheless, it doesn't define me. I don't do the "Hollywood" thing nor the namedropping thing. I don't care about that stuff. I care about being creative and making a living doing so. (If your job is something you dread and don’t do it with love, what’s the point?) That is really the crux of it.
At this point, let me tell you why I’m here and what I hope to give the ONE woman I look to meet.
I view this process as necessary. I don't find being online and meeting someone as something shameful. I work a ton and unfortunately do not date people I have a working relationship with. I no longer do bars/clubs so I’m left with few ways to meet someone. My expectations are high in character and heart, not necessarily looks. I have met beautiful woman who inside are gray and thus unattractive. However, I’m VERY serious about finding someone who takes care of her body and mind. I really won't bend on this... as I try very hard to be active and really enjoy the gym.
Finally, I am not here for a "hook up." I believe in romance and I believe in a relationship, and most of all in LOVE. To have that, I believe 3 components must be cherished and intact for any relationship to stand the test of time. Here they are:
Honesty: This is key to any relationship. Why lie? Love should be forgiving unless you cheat, deceive or intentionally hurt the person you love. You should also be honest with oneself… you are now thinking for two, so being honest to yourself is paramount. To be brutal is cruel… but to be honest can be kind.
Respect: Most don’t know what this even means. Respect comes in many forms… most feel relationships are 50/50. I actually don’t. I find that on some days, you may be operating at 75% and need me to contribute 125% to cut the slack, and some days I may need you to do the same. I will never count who does more or who has more… we are partners. I also will be the one who will never chastise you in public, I may disagree with point or position, but I respect you enough to tell you in private. Respect also comes by way of feeling. So often we expect others to either read our mind or anticipate something… this almost always leads to disaster. If we respect one another we realize that this can be an unrealistic expectation.
Trust:
I compare Honesty, Respect, and Trust to the 3 legs of a stool. If you break any one of the 3 legs, the stool will collapse. Equate that to a relationship and the same will happen. By no means does this guarantee a relationship to be perfect… for that takes work and selflessness. But it’s a foundation and we often forget that when looking for love so vigorously.
Finally if you are still reading this… you might think I’m either an egocentric maniac or the greatest guy ever. Well, I will be honest… I’m neither. I am Chip! I take my relationships and life seriously, but not so much to where I can’t have fun. But the fun comes when you email me and respond in kind!!! :)

Meet men and women from Thousand Oaks, United States. Hello and thank you for checking out my profile. Looking for a partner and best friend who is funny, witty, outgoing and has a good head on his shoulders. He also knows what he wants and isn't afraid to go after it. If this sounds like you, take a chance and drop a line.
Please do not be offended if I do not respond to PROFILES WITHOUT PICTURES. I feel it is only fair if I post mine then you do the same. Thank you for be understanding.

Date people from Thousand Oaks, United States. Me = Fun. Honest. Athletic. Listener. Good cook. Camping. Fly Fishing. Blue. CSI. Country music. Classic Rock.
You = Outdoorsy. Honest. Caring. Funny. Travel. Sports.
As my title said; Are you my Red Solo Cup? I'd like to be yours....

Meet a soulmate from Thousand Oaks, United States. Single mother of five. They are no longer kids are getting older,but one and now im ready for the world and would like to share it with someone special. Its been many years since I last dated. I enjoy movies and dancing. I love music and love to sing aloud whike driving to work. I go to church on Sundays and love to cook.

Date a woman from Thousand Oaks, United States. I love fun and adventure and romance. Love to laugh and be silly. I am warm, caring, kind hearted, patient and very down to earth. I enjoy traveling to new places, romantic dinners on the beach or cozy nights at home by the fireplace. I am looking for someone amazing to enjoy my life with. Someone romantic, kind, caring, genuine, smart, and just a joy to be around.

Meet someone special from California, United States. I'm a genuine, down to earth, California girl. I’ve got a wicked sense of humor and a lust for adventure. I'm delightfully saucy. I take pleasure in simple things. I can dress up or dress down; my high heels and running shoes show the same amount of wear. I sing in the car—loudly and unapologetically. I’m a neat freak, but I don’t require medication for it. I secretly collect owl trinkets, but don’t tell anyone so my house doesn’t become overwhelmed with them. I’m extremely uncoordinated but not averse to torturing friends and relatives with my attempts to play group sports.
My friends would say IРІР‚в„ўm bold, fun, sassy, practical, retro, fairly intelligent and frequently analytical. But, if you ask me? Eh, IРІР‚в„ўm all right. Humility is my best quality, after all!
I stay very well attuned to the world around me. I believe there are lessons to be learned from personal and political histories, and so I consume politics at a level that "junkie" doesnРІР‚в„ўt even begin to describe. But beware! I can drop an original conspiracy theory of my own at a moment's notice like a current events ninja!
I am really good at making the best out of every situation and am extremely street savvy, which comes in handy when youРІР‚в„ўve got a penchant for venturing off the beaten path in foreign countries! In 2009, I took a solo 3-week trip to Italy and couldnРІР‚в„ўt get enough of the culture. Although I grew a lot from that experience, and love following my mind wherever it wanders, IРІР‚в„ўd love to have a travel companion.
My ideal match is an extroverted, easy going, honest, good communicator who knows who he is and likes it. He’s got no excuses for where he’s been and no hesitation to move forward in the future. He enjoys the beach and the mountains. Someone who embodies the word “tenacious”. Someone spontaneous enough to hop in the car on a Friday night and not get back until Sunday, destination unknown.
I am looking to connect with someone on a fundamental level, but I have to "feel it" from day one, so chemistry is important. But IРІР‚в„ўve got an open mind and am always happy to meet new people!

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