Date men and women from United States / California / Manteca, 37 year old

Date a man from Manteca, United States. I was born on the east coast, but grew up in Stockton, CA. I like to go out on the town as much as having a blockbuster night. I like anything techy and love music and sports. I started off in the engineering field, but now work in the regulatory field. I enjoy what I do, because I get to see the world and help people along with the environment.
Im an huge watersports and camping person. I try to find at least one new campground to go to each year.
Perfect date:
Someone who isn't afraid to speak her mind and has a mind of her own. I like someone who can carry an intelligent conversation, but still be funny and outgoing.
This is what I consider a perfect first date:
Look me up to see what's instore. Everybody is different, and I like to customize the experience accordingly.
My perception of an ideal relationship:
Unblocked communication lines. A stable but spontaneous, mentally healthy relationship
This is what I've learned from my past relationships:
Be yourself and don't settle if you are not happy

Meet single man from Manteca, United States. I'm a total goof ball. I love to make people laugh. Laughter is key in any relationship. I'm the typical guy when it comes to guy stuff. And I would like my partner to have some interests in what I do. As far as the perfect match. Well I guess I haven't met her yet, because I'm on here filling out this...

Date a woman from Manteca, United States. Oh how to describe myself... I am first and foremost a mom to 4 of the most amazingly handsome and intelligent boys on this planet! (Yes they all have the same dad! :-)) They are my world, priority and happiness! I am a business professional as well as a business owner. I believe I can do anything I put my mind to, even when mentally or physically it seems impossible. Example: I just completed my first half marathon! I love to play softball, I play on a co-ed team pretty much year round. I love the SF Giants, I enjoy all sports but baseball is my #1! I am strong minded, not easily intimidated, not really the quiet reserved type. I love to hang out with my friends and sisters either around the house, or out in the city. I enjoy dancing, movies, LOVE the beach and just sight seeing.
Disclaimer that my divorce is not final yet, but the paperwork has been filed. My ex and I are still very close friends and always will be as we raise our boys together. There is NO drama... We were just lucky enough to have a marriage built on friendship... so even though the romance was gone, our friendship remains.
When it comes to relationships I feel I am a very giving person. I always look for those little things that mean the most! As a mom, friend, sister, daughter, I always put others needs before my own. Although I am learning to do more for myself as well! I know that I am a very affectionate person, and I am looking for someone who shares that trait! I am hoping to find a man that knows what unconditional love is, and can apply it! I love to laugh and have fun so easy going personality and sense of humor are a must! I am a true believer in beauty is in the eye of the beholder! I may not be the most "athletic, toned" woman here on match.... But I can run 1/2 marathons, crack a softball to deep center field!
What I am looking for physically in a man isn't set in stone. I feel I don't look my age, and look for the same in a man. If you are 45 and look 38 awesome... if you are 35 and look 45, not so much! I am only 5'1" so pretty much everyone is taller than me, I DO love to wear heels, and own over 40 pair so a little taller is awesome! I do like tattoo's, I have a couple myself. It is obvious that physical attraction is a must for pretty much anyone. If you catch my eye awesome... if I catch yours even better.
Just a little inside to me... I am not a rough it kind of camping girl. Give me an RV and a nice RV park and I am a "happy camper". Not into fishing, hunting etc. Don't mind hiking, biking, running and other outdoor stuff. But not one to be "one with nature" :) I love being outdoors, but enjoy the sight seeing part, the beach, river, lake etc.
I am not looking for a man to take care of me, I take care of myself just fine. I am not looking for a father for my kids, they have a great one already.
***7/26/12 ADDITION*** I hate that I even have to say this on here..... Please be honest!! If we meet and things are not what you expected, say it!! I am a grown woman, I can take it! My time is precious! I don't need to waste it on men who do not have the "cajones" to speak up. I won't BS you... don't BS me!!

Meet someone special from Manteca, United States. I'm a down to earth girl. I try to find humor in life even when it's difficult. I love to laugh and find a man with a great sense of humor very attractive. I enjoy camping, traveling, wine tasting, and just hanging out with friends/family. I'm very athletic and enjoy trying new activities. My kids are my top priority, but love to have adult time. I'm not into games, just honesty.
My profile is short because I would rather meet or chat to see if we have a connection.