Date a soulmate from California, United States. I come from a literally crazy family... they are part of me. I need someone that can laugh, love, be strong, caring, helpful, a pillar, full of love. I am grateful for being alive, I want someone who feels the same. Times are tough nowadays and even so there is still alot to be grateful for. I know from my friends I am crazy funny outgoing once I get to know someone. I don't need crap in my life. Life's too short and when I lost my husband I thought I lost myself. It has taken me a really long time to gain confidence to get on ANY program but it's truly hard to meet people and I don't do the bar scene maybe with a group of friends to watch a sports game...that's about it. I adore my nieces and they are a huge part of my life. I want someone who I can bond with and hopefully they will like my sister and her family. It would be fun to be back in to some groove. Also someone to share life with. Not hid away like I have been doing. Staying distant because I am a chicken getting out there looking like "girls looking like "meat" at a bar! I just can't do it. So here I am on this program and maybe someone good will come out of this. So if you are looking for a Barbie or Arm Candy...well move on to the next applicant. I'm looking for the real deal! Okay enough about me, read my 'ideal match' and if you think we could do some serious stuff, travel, bond, laugh, have fun and more fun... let's do it!