Date a woman from Chula Vista, United States. First, I must say that I dislike the "cubby hole" method of creating a profile with drop down answers like the fields above although I do understand why it is necessary. That being said, please do not take those responses as absolutes, especially the "dating intent" and "what I'm looking for". People are all different and there may be as many possibilities as there are people who read and respond. I would hate to miss a great connection by limiting what I am looking for. Sooooo, now on to a narrative description that will tell you more about what makes me me.
It is said that life is a journey, not a destination... and I find that it just keeps getting more incredible. I now have the time to learn more about myself...and others. There's so much more to take in, absorb, experience and enjoy and life's journey is definitely better with the right partner. To paraphrase Jack Johnson, "it's better together". I'm very open, social, and playful and thoroughly enjoy people, yet I also enjoy quiet times and everyday things. My interests span an eclectic mix of things...from live music of most any genre, to watching sports, especially the Chargers. However, I have no musical aptitude whatsoever. Deep inside, I think there is a frustrated percussionist though. Lord help us if she ever gets out! I love street fairs, farmer's markets, dive bars and funky coffeeshops. I relish dining out and cooking and it's really fun to cook with someone...with a little wine perhaps, whether it goes into what we're cooking or not! I do some gardening in my small patio which now looks like my own private rainforest. I thrive on excess...of chocolate and massages! ha Family and friends are very important to me and they nourish my soul. I am fiercely loyal. Being a parent is a treasured gift and being a grandparent is even better.
Traits that are important to me are an open mind, a strong body (no addictions), a beautiful soul, and an ageless spirit. I thrive on open communication, honesty, appreciation of one another, sensuality, trust, togetherness, mutual respect for each other's individuality, laughter, and a great sense of humor. I believe kissing is the most tender and intimate form of communication and the eyes truly are the windows to the soul. The more I learn, the more I realize how much more there is to know and experience. Learning to just "be" is both challenging and oh so fulfilling.
Well, if you have read all of this and some of it resonates with you, perhaps I will hear back from you.
Meet people from Chula Vista, United States. I'm looking for a man who knows what he wants. I can get a little kinky at times in the bedroom, but hey! who doesn't like a heavy women in bed! More cushin for the pushin! I also wold like to travel and meet new friends. I'm a very easy going women and love to talk.
Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am a ONE man woman, faithful, loving,& fun .
I'm tired of being alone after 9 years. I miss the warmth,love,hugs, holding hands & all that goes with sharing my life with "the one". Lighthouses are one of my intrests. I love the mountains, beach, snow,( as long as I don't have to live in it), traveling, nascar,motorcycles, old cars, kayaking, camping, walking in the rain or not. I think age is a just another number, & a state of mind,so, don't look for me to be in a rocker anytime soon! Have too much living to do.
A boat??? Sure! I'm up for new things!
My family is my life. I enjoy teaching my grandson,(now 11) to cook & make gingerbread men, brownies, & most anything he wants to tackle! Lots of fun, & so eager to learn....
I raised my 2 sons alone for 12 years,then met my late husband. I am very proud of the men they have become. Have 4 grandchildren, youngest 3 mo's old....oldest will be 12 in Dec. We are a close knit,loving,respectful family. Must have done something right as the grandkids are being raised the way their dad was! :)
My dad lived to be 94.7 &; passed 2 yrs.ago, & I naturally plan to go beyond that, so be ready for the long haul!!!
I'm easy to get along with & believe there must be communication between us.
You must love lots of hugs, holding hands, & have a good sense humor. I can get "crazy"......
Would like to add, I am a very young 66, & look younger. I say, " any morning I wake up, is gonna be a great day!" Coffee is a start.........
Meet people from California, United States. I'm a christian and would look for the same in my friends. The man in my life should be a christian. It's so easy to be negative and it's contagious. I'm interested in someone who would be a positive person with those around him.
Date a woman from California, United States. I joined this site because of a promise....... knowing that there is someone on this planet who is my mate, my lover, my muse, and my best friend. Finding him is my new quest.
My time is spent restoring my old family home, organic gardening, painting, sculpting, barbecues, dinner parties, listening to live music, going to museums and art openings. I have an art collection, mostly 20th century European abstract paintings, prints, tapestries, and sculpture. I am hoping to meet someone who can enjoy my interests. Please have some new and stimulating interests to tantalize me with.
I love entertaining. We often have spontaneous gatherings at my house. Social interaction with family and friends is a great joy. I am longing to meet someone who likes to participate, who also has a full life to share. Someone who is sure of himself, not jealous, comfortable with his maturity and mine.I love male company, whether it be my 4 grown sons, my man, my two outrageous grandsons,or my many friends.
The man in my life will enjoy being appreciated for his unique self. Preparing delicious meals, replete with candlelight, music and fine wine will be one my gifts to him, I hope that a long and intriguing conversation would follow. My humble organic garden could be part of the repast. Men who cook are definitely on my A list, bringing the joy of sharing good food and hopefully good company to the table.
Day trips or very long ones will be exciting as long as we are together. and when one of us needs alone time it just makes our reunion sweeter.
I am as irreverent of the ordinary as I always was, choosing the life of an artist who speaks through her often provocative work. I miss having a muse to bounce sometimes outrageous ideas off of, someone who might tale pity on me and throw me a crumb, along with a glass of good wine when i'm doing a 12 hour painting marathon. I promise, the rewards will be worth the trouble, and the favor will be returned.
I love travel to beautiful places in search of that which sparks creativity.
My last international trip was to the French part of Switzerland. It was so enjoyable that I am going back soon.Paris is only 5 hours away by train...
I have noticed that a number of men on this site would like to be with a woman who is younger...... read the statistics guys! We usually outlive you.The other thing that has began to bug me is "My friends say" and also stating the obvious things , like sunsets, walks on the beach, holding hands, kissing, , etc., etc., etc. Part of the human condition is to like these things. Please tell us girls more about your unique self.......
I hope that you have enjoyed my profile. Either way I wish you luck in your quest for a soulmate.
Meet men and women from Chula Vista, United States. I am a down to earth gal. Prefer the outdoors, walks, hiking, picnics.........enjoying nature. Love to country dance. Casual dining over a fancy resturant.
I like men in jeans & a t-shirt with collar length hair. Like facial hair but not necessary. Like to be out exploring. Willing to be spontanious, do what comes naturally. Likes to dance, listen to music, watch sun sets, share a fish taco.
Date someone special from Chula Vista, United States. I am attractive, fun to be with and looking for a male companion, friend.. Me: fun-loving, active, energetic, loyal, honest, stylish, well-educated, funny, gracious and self-aware.. I am tender and kind. I am attentive and supportive. I am independent. I can be spontaneous, but planning works too. I tend to be shy in large groups but, warm up quickly. I am generally more comfortable one- to-one or in small groups. I like romance. I like to travel. I have a passion for the visual arts and work on my own art. Love my children. Adore my grandchildren. Believe there are always possibilites and new experiences around the corner.
You: A man who loves life and gets the most out of it. Someone who takes responsibility for his life and happiness. Please have a good sense of humor and appreciate my excellent, dry sense of humor . Intelligent, financially independent and "secure". Energetic, forward-looking/thinking. You have your own interests and maybe family, but would like to share some of my interests, family and friends. It would be nice if you connect with music and the visual arts, and could enjoy movies, concerts and theater. You like to explore locally and abroad. You are an attentive listener and have your own interests and opinions to share. I'd like to be with a person, who by this time in life knows himself well and is ready to take the time to know me. I want a man who is romantic as well as a good companion.
Meet people from Chula Vista, United States. I am looking for a companion, honesty is important - I enjoy life in what ever I do. I'm in sales so I keep my appearance presentable and casual. Since I became a widow 5 years ago my lifestyle has been low key I am ready for some adventure and fun times with the right person.
Date a woman from Chula Vista, United States. I am an animal lover (birds, dogs, horses, etc). I am Black and retired. I am a Republican and very Conservative. I am also a vegetarian. I like crossword puzzles, deserts, Mexican food, Old Town, the Padres, Chargers and watching Western movies. I am a Christian of the Pentecostal persuasion . My three adult children are living in other states, although one of them lives in LA. I appreciate art and dabble in it a little bit. I keep up with world events and enjoy quiet times at home. I like champagne, I don't like to go dancing, but I enjoy music - mainly country and classic. I don't smoke or chew (smiles). Enough for now.
Meet someone special from Chula Vista, United States. I'm creative, open minded, a sense of humor. always interested in personal growth. Good conversation about most subjects. I'm interested in someone who shares some of my interests but who also has his own. I think that good relationships work if each person has there own interests and than they can come together and have something to talk about. How many times have we seen couples in resturants just sitting there with nothing to talk about, that is sad to me..
Date men and women from United States. My friends and family would describe me as happy, healthy and always ready to help.
I'm hoping to meet someone who loves the outdoors, likes to travel, loves animals and likes spending time with their family.
Meet a soulmate from California, United States. I am a widow who was happily married for 34 years. I'm grateful for my two wonderful sons who serve their country in the military. My friends describe me as being charismatic, sweet and kind. The person I am looking for should be retired after serving his country in the military or still serving. He should be kind and enjoys a good laugh. He should enjoy life to the fullest. I am passionate about traveling. He should like to travel and experience other cultures with an open mind. I'm looking for someone that likes to drive all over the USA enjoy new adventures as well as traveling to foreign countries. Our relationship should be one of friendship to begin with and hopefully to grow from there to whatever we desire.