Date men and women from United States / California / Brentwood, 61 year old

Date someone special from Brentwood, United States. I love strong women and I AM SEEKING ONE. I do not mind giving up to a woman or following if she is strong in sex or great at,, for example, planning trips or weekends. I don't need to always drive. I am a calm guy with strong opinions about economics, politics, developmental psychology, ethics, freedom, taxation, and world peace. Logic rules, never loud arguements.
I give and respond to loving actions and suggestions. Equal partners, better at different things. Excellance will be recognized, supported and deffered to.

Meet someone special from Brentwood, United States. Outgoing and like to have a good time but also responsible. Love spending time with my grandchildren. Love to go on long or short rides on the back of your Harley but have to have a sissy bar (sorry) but if you do stupid things like showing off or pulling out to pass when the traffic is too close, then forget it. Overall, I'm pretty flexible and can deal with just about anything that comes my way. I prefer a casual life style but also do enjoy getting major dressed up. I am told I'm good looking / pretty, have incredible blue eyes, and don't look anywhere near my age.

Date a woman from Brentwood, United States. Honest, artistic sensibility and fun, but with a serious, considerate side. Usually always taken for much younger. I have a wonderful group of friends with many different interests.
Intelligence, a sense of humor, curiosity and being forthright are attractive traits in a man.

Meet people from Brentwood, United States. I could say I'm 45 and you'd never know until I told you my son's age. Neither my looks nor energy level would belie my claim. I know most people lie. It's just not me. It's counter productive, and well, just wrong.
Who am I? I'm an enigmatic, oxymoronic woman who is, at the same time, straightforward & self-evident. A down-home sophisticate, an optimistic realist, an adventuristic homebody...all that and more.
And less too!
From moment to moment I travel through a universe of varying traits but remain fully grounded. IРІР‚в„ўd say IРІР‚в„ўm just your average idiot who loves life, laughter and maintains an eternal sense of awe of human nature. I'm a serious-minded free spirit who is neither afraid nor too contrived to act goofy nor too frivolous to lack depth; serious and seriously goofy. I have a forward thinking mind that dwells in the land of my old world values. The 7 deadly virtues live inside me along with the 7 dwarfРІР‚в„ўs traits. I believe manners are a woefully underused virtue.
I run circles around half-my-age cohorts but kick back at home. No one has EVER guessed my age.
And, blah, blah. I bore myself.
Enough honey. In real life I'm a very direct woman so let's cut to the chase; I raised a son, had a few careers, blazed a few trails, had a wonderful fulfilling life and am at the threshold of the last round looking for someone to share it with. I'm looking for that kindred spirit who wants to make the most of the last legs of the fantastic race called life. I'm in decent shape and have held my own in the gravity dept., (see photos), but I also qualify for AARP so reserve your fantasies till AFTER we've met. I am a vibrant woman. Catch me if you can!
I've concentrated more on career achievements these last years than on relationships. It's been extremely rewarding but, as they say, “been there, done that”. I'm now in search of a more soulful union. And, as much as I'd love to get started on that ASAP, I intend to take my time getting to know my prospects and will afford them the same courtesy. Unfolding one's life history and its' results is a process and I want to go in with my eyes open, (to the extent that such a thing is possible, that is). We all have foibles and it will take time to see if ours mix well.
I'm not interested in serial daters, don't want Match as a way of life nor am I interested in being some man's mother. I am only interested in men who are truly in search of that uniquely qualified person who can savor and enrich their lives, moment by moment. Someone who can give as good as they get: stimulating conversation, inquisitive excursions, fierce explorations, playful dalliances, lazy-loving lolly-gagging and searching new vistas with a sense of wonder, humor and a holistic sense of a happy self. NO AGING PLAYBOYS on the never-ending search for the greenest, grass please. Life is too full for reruns.
I want to always stand on the threshold of a new & varied future with someone I will come to share a connected and penetrating past; a lifetime union. If you are not hoping to find same, PLEASE pick another flavor from the candy box!!
ALSO, PLEASE BE WHO YOU PORTRAY YOURSELF TO BE. I AM.
You? All things are negotiable but here's the wish list:
Be eager to shake up the world or at least open to it, (even at our age). Be honest and honorable. Be active, proactive, preferably a world traveler, energetic, well-rounded, passionate, in decent shape and hopefully a father of grown or nearly grown children. And most importantly, be someone who is fully present in your life. You are a generous, compassionate spirit who loves life. Life is too fleeting to dwell in drama & trauma. Those are things that get thrown our way, want them or not, and must be dealt with when they are. I do not want either as a way of life. Life is a happy privilege that commands us to actualize it as such. I do. I like to think of it as free, live entertainment.
Dislikes? Beards & Moustaches. Apathy.
Dat's all folks!!