Date women from United States / Arizona / Phoenix, 45 year old

Date a soulmate from Arizona, United States. looking for genuine man that is kind and giving. willing to put in what you expect to get back. I am an honest and a dependable friend. I am at a time in my life where my kids are not so needy and I would like a companion to enjoy the good days and the not so good days.

Meet someone special from Arizona, United States. I want all the drama of an 8th grade dance and more BS than a rodeo
I'm not your typical woman in her mid 40's, especially since I still feel like I'm in my 30's. I didn't turn the radio to the adult contemporary station and start wearing mom jeans when I hit 40. I listen to alternative music, love Social Distortion and Jane's Addiction and still go to concerts. I'm a girlie girl, but also not afraid to get dirty and far from high maintenance. I'm most comfortable in shorts/jeans and t-shirts, but can dress to impress when needed. I'm down to earth, easy going and have a great sense of humor. The Jackass movies crack me up, so I guess my sense of humor is a little off at times. One of my biggest pet peeves is not using proper grammar and spelling. If you can't write a proper email, don't waste your time. I can cook, but am a much better baker. I love creating my niece's birthday cakes and seeing the expressions on their faces when they see their cakes. I don't like how match describes me as a "wine connoisseur" because I'm not. I like wine, but I like craft beers more. I'm also a little on the shy side.
It's hard to imagine a perfect match, but I know what I do and don't like. I like a man who is a guy, not one who has more hair product than me or takes longer to get ready. Someone who knows what I'm talking about when I say "The Pixies" who likes to go to concerts, eat good food, drink good beer. If you have nice things, that's great, but I don't need to see them in your profile pictures...it kind of douchey. I don't fish...worms freak me out. I'm not opposed to camping, but it's not my first choice, I much prefer the beach.

Date a woman from Arizona, United States. My perfect person would be someone who is himself and knows what he wants. Me, i'm looking for the Mr. Right. That person who is ready to have that Mrs. Right. That final relationship, someone i can grow old with. I don't want someone who isn't ready to just talk every now and then. I've had those days, done with the games and drama. I'm a really good person. I very passionite and loving. I'm a person who loves to hold hands and kiss in public, not afraid to show my love around friends talk to me. I'm a wonderful person. So, if you someone that is ready for a loving woman to spend your life with let see what we can do together.

Meet a soulmate from Phoenix, United States. Hi (smile!):
I have a warm heart, I am loyal and trustworthy, confident, a great listener, caring, with a nice figure and have lot of smiles. I want to spend time with someone who is kind, has a fun loving outlook and personality, loves chemistry, financially secure and has a touch of simple romance. Optimistic view's are innate for me, even on the most challenging day.
We are compatible if you are health conscious and desire to try to keep active into our 90's (High goals take us a long way with good intention and direction). I enjoy cooking together and sharing healthy meals and yet can't resist the occasional deep dish pizza.
We would spend time together and still enjoy our individual personal time (such as your cave man time; my lady pampering outings if or when needed). Listening to various music/bands, occasionally traveling (been oversees a couple times), getting away for the weekend etc. I am lots of fun and enjoy a good time and I do enjoy my some down time to refocus.
More about you (smile!): I find an Intelligent man very sexy and find thought provoking conversation stimulating yet I really enjoy letting my hair down and simply being in the moment.
Lastly and very important. I was raised with wonderful parents, a loving brother and a traditional environment. Even though I do not have children (I adore children and still on the fence "sometimes" about the topic) I have great respect for parents. If you have children and have that *sparkle* in your eye that means to me that there is a lot of sunshine in your life and you've learned patience, appreciate tender moments and have some unforgettable stories to share with me.
I will only respond to profiles with a picture, I want to see your eyes and smile! Also, I prefer to find someone in the North Valley due to proximity. I am aware that I am putting a lot of my "preferred standards" down, I am simply being clear.
I am looking forward to hearing from you!

Date someone special from Phoenix, United States. I'm a glass half full beliver. Very optimistic,very positive (for every negative theres a positive). I laugh a lot but I also like to make others laugh as well. I'm very energetic and have no problem stricking up a converstion with anyone. I'm hoping to find my best friend. Chemistry is very important to me as is chivilary.

Meet a woman from Phoenix, United States. About me: Well...we can write whatever we want down on paper or through email, but its about meeting the person and finding out who is this person and do we have that special connection. There is a mystery about them that draws us to them! Words are words but actions is what tells the story!
Who am I looking for...I can list a hundred things that I would want in a man but these are the traits that I NEED in a man:
Mush love children,Honesty, loyalty, monogomy, unselfishness, spirituality, humor! A sense of humor to keep the zest in life! Spontaneity and patience!
Thank you for looking at my profile and I wish you all the best!

Date a soulmate from United States. I've got a great, happy life including family, friends and a career with a great company. My friends would describe me as warm, caring, intelligent, fun-loving, career-oriented and can find the humor in most situations. I have a wonderful teenage son (he is with me half the time) who is getting older and more independent, so I find myself with more time to explore new hobbies.
After a great day at work I enjoy a good work-out (Pilates is my new passion!), dinner out or cooking with family/friends, playing water volleyball with my dog Luna (a beautiful Goldendoodle :), and finally relaxing with a good book or an great TV show like Big Bang Theory, Dexter, Breaking Bad, and of course Seinfeld re-runs are always fun.
A great date might include a movie, a fun activity like putt-putt golf or Dave and Buster's, enjoying a favorite restaurant, a hike (when it's not 110 thousand degrees outside!), or seeing a comedy act (I love to laugh!). Frozen yogurt as desert is always a good thing!
A great trip for me could be a day trip to Sedona enjoying the West Fork Trail, a visit to the beach, a trip back to my home state of Michigan to ride horses or go boating with family, or even a trip enjoy the best gelato in Florence (Italy, not Arizona :).
As for that special someone to share all the joys in life... He might like to golf, bike or hike or whatever excites him, but he can also enjoy catching a new movie or a comedy act.. He would like taking long walks and holding hands. He would love it when I cook one of my specialties for him, but might also love to cook for me, be a master at the grill or enjoy checking out the local Mexican, Italian, or Greek place for dinner. He would be kind, funny, intelligent, happy and looking for that special someone.

Meet someone special from United States. Im looking to date and have fun but really want to find love and a future with someone. Im a really fun girl and I just havent found a fun guy to enjoy life with. I have a great sense of humor and like to find laughter in many different situations. Life hands us so many serious situations that can sometimes feel so stressed, and I would like to find a mate to go through lifes ups and downs.

Date a woman from United States. Me:
Fun
Outgoing
Great sense of humor
Enjoy cooking and attempting gourmet dishes (even better when cooking with a partner). Always up for trying new places to eat--- anything nonchain is cool, even little mom and pop places. Sometimes they are the best!
Love being outdoors doing just about anything
Like to trying new things
Major music lover--- everything from OMD to Bob Dylan to Shinedown. Neil Peart is the best drummer of all time!
Love dogs....I have a few.
I am a wine maker...I own land in New Mexico (family thing)and enjoy wine tasting
Avid hockey fan (Go Red Wings.....don't hate me....lol)
Can easily spend a couple of hours sitting in a cafe people watching
Few things are better than great conversation with someone who intrigues me
Not much of a TV junkie, but for some reason I love the show Dexter. But I wait until the season is over and watch the DVD's......
Not afraid to speak to strangers.....lol
I am a passionate person and am seeking that in a relationship. I tend to be attracted to guys that have a strong sense of who they are, know what they want and are able to express themselves well. Must like long, lingering kisses and be comfortable with public displays of affection..... :) :)
Not in a big rush to define things as I think that relationships unfold as they will-- it takes awhile to get to know someone and that is something that should be enjoyed and not rushed through. There is no "finish line" to get to.....LOL I am definitely dating to find someone I want to have a relationship with. I am not a serial dater, however, this means of meeting people does require a number of "meet and greet" dates to see if there is a connection. Having said that, I am hoping to find someone who feels the same and is willing to focus their attention on one person once there is mutual interest. Chemistry is a must!
My most recent pics (from July and October) are most accurate--- except my hair is probably 3 inches longer now...otherwise still the same.
Don't be shy-- get in touch if I have sparked your interest :) If not, happy fishing!
P.S. I shouldn't have to say this, but if you are married, please do not contact me. Thanks....

. I am a kind, loving, and compassionate woman with a very relaxed personality. I am very laid back and do not entertain unnecessary drama in my life. I am looking to meet a gentleman that will accept and love me unconditionally. One who will allow me to be myself and not someone they would like me to be. Simple things make my eyes smile, like a kind gesture when someone knows I've had a hard day, or a flower 'just because', or remembering something I enjoy.....
I am looking for a respectable gentleman who is masculine and has integrity. I do appreciate a good sense of humor! I am attracted to shyness and nerdyness! I feel that communication is the key to a healthy relationship.
I am very thankful for the gifts in my life and hope to meet that special person to share them with me.

. I'm new to online dating.... so I guess I should elaborate on my profile a bit.
I'm an active person, I love doing anything outdoors (that's where I do most of my cardio), doing home improvement projects, pumping iron, cooking and baking (I've won every baking contest I've entered). I enjoy going to concerts, dancing, hanging out in lounge-y type places and also enjoy cooking at home with a movie or sitting on the patio with a glass of wine watching the sunset.
I enjoy traveling. Just went to SF, Napa, Carmel, the Redwoods, etc., for my b-day in April, and enjoyed a 2 week vacation in Maui last summer. I was a flight attendant back in the day so I got bit by the travel bug early on and enjoy going to new places.
I have an amazing job I love. I'm always expanding my awareness about people, myself and life and believe everything happens for a reason and every experience is a learning experience (sometimes we don't know what the lesson is until much, much later, sometimes it's an ah-ha moment). I had an amazing experience scuba diving in Maui last summer with the sea turtles and realized to really enjoy life, you have to live in the moment. No living in the past, no worrying about the future... just enjoying the now. I got a new tattoo my last day there to reflect that insight :)
I live by karma and really believe you treat people how you want to be treated. I was raised right with strong morals and values. I was born in Wisconsin (so I have Midwest parents, who are still married after 50 yrs!), raised in San Diego (so I'm a beach girl through and through) and have been out here for over 20 yrs now. Wow, how time flies. I don't look my age and don't feel it either.
I'm looking for a mutual physical, mental and emotional attraction/connection. I'm not a fan of the bar scene anymore, so am giving this a shot... we shall see.

. I am complex on inside in a good way, simple on outside. Can dress up when needed and dress down in t-shirt and jeans. Honesty, Integrity, and the Golden Rule are what I enjoy living by. I truly enjoy intellectual conversations and learning about new things. I enjoy trying new things and experiences as you only live once. I volunteer weekly and believe in giving back to the community. I would prefer to meet someone who did the same too...
I am a NO Drama person and DO NOT play games.
PLEASE pay attention to the "Age Range" of who I am looking for, so we don't waste my time or yours. I am NOT open to anyone OLDER than specified, please respect my requests...
I'm not on this site to date a ton of people...just hoping this may bring me more opportunities to meet people and possibly more...HOWEVER, with time spent together FIRST developing a friendship with lots of conversation, laughing, enjoying each other's company is required before anything further... If you have truly read this far and may be interested, please send me an email... ONLY serious inquires please...
NOTE: If you plan to ONLY wink, then DO NOT WASTE My Time or yours.... I will ONLY reply to emails. So many of you will wink, but that is not the best way to break the ice with me...give me some start of a conversation that truly can tell the kind of person you are, otherwise, I won't reply .... Thank you for hopefully reading this far and best of luck in your search...