Date women from United States / California / Millbrae, 37 year old

Date a woman from United States. Im funny, dorky, different, quirky at times and rare.
Im not boring or predictable.
I'm set in my own ways and stubborn, but I'm loyal, I cook good, I'm healthy, thick, voluptuous -
I train hard 3x's a week, to get where I want to be.
Cardio and I are still trying to work our relationship out, but still a tad rocky. I don't wear makeup all the time, and prefer a laid back look. I dress for the occasion, but I clean up nice when necessary.
Don't be surprised is you see me one day with blonde hair, and or light brown the next.
I have many styles to me, I am consistently changing - from Gym gear, to High heels, Boyfriend baggy jeans look, Retro Chick sorta PinUp Style, and casual or Gypsy Spiritual even - B-Girl style.
Many layers to me, several possibilities.
I get along well with most people, but only vibe off certain special individuals.
I am looking to find the one that gets me, my humor, my emotions, sarcasm and all my thought processes.
I work a lot and so my time is limited, but hoping to change that at some point.
I own 3 separate small businesses - I just opened a small space near where I live, and I also work out in the field.
I work weeknights until 9:30, and some Saturdays. It is hard to do something late during the week due to work and training at the gym in the am.
Would prefer to hang out during the day on the weekends.
Prefer a man who has not been married or has children, but will consider dating a single man with children -depends on the person/situation.
I don't play games and I am very single. I don't date several people at a time, I barely get out due to work. With my hectic work schedule, it is very hard for me to date at all, but will make time for someone that I am interested in.
I would like to eventually marry, enjoy life working, traveling the world, and do fun things with mate.
Many men ask me how and why I am single.
The answer to that is this;
I had a man back in '10 - we split up. I tried reconciling after several months but was unsuccessful. Unbeknownst to me, he was ill, and kept it from me so that I would not be affected by his illness and passing. Found that out the hard way.
I am taking things slow but still hopeful.
Its a bit late in my life to have kids, but would try with the right person or situation. I can accept it, if it's just not in the cards for me to have them.
I really dont like to watch football- just boxing and MMA
I dislike; the hyphy movement, saggy pants, cigarettes, str8 slang all the time, unhealthy food (occasional splurging is fine) tequila, American beer, not knowing the difference between- their, there, and they're! (yes it matters because I am attracted to man by his intellect and wit)
Listening to only one or 2 genres of music-
Love : Virgos- Virgo/Leo's - Tuarus - Sag's, Cap's & Pisces- some Cancers-
Bump heads with Leo's - Aries - Gemini
I'd prefer a man that's taller than 5'10.
I'm at least that tall in my heels. I dont like feeling like I'm towering over a man.
I like movies, staying home cooking, hosting parties, and just relaxing with a glass of wine and apps-
Tats (waiting to 1/4 sleeve my arm)- motorcycles- Slash- Guns n' Roses, New Age music, classical, Tupac, Adele, Kings of Leon, Pearl Jam- Biggie, Mos Def, Talib, Afro Cuban Latin Jazz... I can go on n on here.... I love good sounding music.
Love a man in nice shoes and one who knows how to dress- even if it's not daily- a balance is always nice-
Love a man who works with his hands and or builds stuff.
Me; Sleeping in on the weekends, museums, art fairs, Chavelle's, Cigars, festivals, jazz trios, painting, sculpting, writing raps, making music, studio time, visiting family, shooting skeet, target practice, camping is fun- boating and
500 Smith & Wessons-(with a scope), Browning 45's, M4, renegade rows, dead lifts, lunges, sumo squats, 45•(lunges), Skiing,
Tapas, book stores, Rome, Egypt, & Greece- massages, facials, hot tubs