Date men and women from United States / California / Lomita, 54 year old

Date people from Lomita, United States. I would like to meet someone i could talk to and go places with. i do not drink, (no bars), i like a simple life i do not want to compete with anyone i just want someone i can be with and treat her like a lady and not play any games. i was married for 18yrs, then my wife passed away , unsure if i will ever marry again but need someone to spend time with and enjoy life with. i have only been on this service for a couple of days and have learned a lot.
i have posted some pictures and because i am only average looking, ex jock (basketball, running and racing bicycles).
i'm just the guy who asked you to dance (and i can't) and you said no. the last women i asked to dance was my wife and
we were always to happy that she said yes. thank you for showing me i just need to be happy alone. sorry i wasted my time and yours

Meet men and women from Lomita, United States. What I am hoping to find here is a long term partner to share love, fun, and adventures with. I am a relative newcomer to San Diego, having recently re-located from Wyoming. It's taken a while to adjust to the pace here. Life in the city is not really my deal; what I really live for is time spent outdoors, and look for that in a partner as well. Sunrises and sunsets in the mountains, deserts, or on some remote stretch of Baja coastline are far more intriguing than cityscapes for me, and I escape to the desert almost every weekend.
My chronological age does not reflect my level of fitness or activity. I have been a professional athlete my entire life, and continue to push myself physically and mentally in a number of different areas. Rock climbing has been my main activity for most of my life. I have lived and worked in a number of well know climbing areas, and continue to consider climbing an important part of my life. Currently, I am forced to restrict my climbing activities to weekends, and devote most of my time to the study of classical medicine ("alternative medicine") and the practice of massage, but would like to explore some of the great climbing San Diego has to offer: Anyone interested?
In addition to rock climbing, I am a martial artist, ski mountaineer, kayaker, free-diver, archer and, in general, an adventurer. I have traveled extensively, both for work and for pleasure, and hope to do more. There are so many places to go, but it's not so much fun alone.
The partner I am looking for has, in addition to a great smile, a well toned body and a lively sense of humor combined with a deep and abiding love of wild places. An interest in climbing would be nice, but is not essential. What is essential is an appreciation of nature, and a desire to spend time in beautiful places. If you like wilderness, and enjoy good food, books and music, and enjoy self- propelled outdoor recreation we might be a good match.
No offense intended, but If football and golf are your thing, we probably have very little in common. I have no time for television, and will escape in a heartbeat when the crowd starts cheering. I prefer to think better of my fellow humans.

Date men and women from Lomita, United States. I don’t know about you but one thing is to share with others in conversation what we like, what makes us tick, and our inter feeling; but it’s another to write it down in this format. I must admit I am better in person or face to face but I will do my best…
I consider myself to be an easy going person with lots of energy. I am a caring and loving person who gives all of herself when in a relationship. I believe in being supportive to those that are close to me and love ones. I am passionate about all I do, whether it's my the love of my life, my career, my children, and family. I can be playful at times and know when to let my hair down. I am mother of three wonderful adult children, one lives with me [still going to college], the other two are on their own, and one awesome grandchild, who is the twinkle in my eyes. My children have left the nest and the youngest is gone so much that I have plenty of time to do my own things. I am content with my life, I have a wonderful career, an active life, and now it time for me to begin the next chapter in my life. Life is a journey and I would love to share it with some one who is willing to open and explore new things.
I believe in looking at tihings from a positive attitude. I feel that being able to communication one feelings and thoughts is a key element in any relationships as well as life. I can be serious and a professional when I have to but I prefer laughter and enjoy in my life. Life is really too short to dwell on negativity and it does no one any good. I believe that “When one door closes, another door opens”, life is full of possibilities if we are open to them. I must admit I love holding hands, kissing on the neck, soft touches, and cuddling. I can be the jean and t-shirt gal or dress in a nice evening dress; it all depends on the occasion. I am comfortable in most situations and I make friends easily. Through out my life I have been very active and lived a healthy life so I enjoy most sports and love to stay fit.
I am here in search of best friend, someone I can share my deepest thoughts with, someone to walk with me, hold each others hands, and share occaional kisses. somewhere in this universe you are there. Like so many of us we have been in relationships and each relationship is unique and special. One can only hope that each relationship has taught us something about ourselves so we can be a better person. In saying that, I realize that one needs to be open to new experiences and be ourselves in order to get to know each other. I do believe that chemistry is an important part of a relationship and that getting to know each other may take a little time, however; all good things do. I am here like so many of us looking for a soul mate, a best friend, and a lover; at this point in our lifes the kids are grown on their own and we are ready to enjoy, explore, and have new adventures. My mate is someone that is kind to other, understand that life has its ups and downs, someone that is open minded and has a good sense of self. I read in book once that “one really knows someone when they can claim their failure and moment of sadness"; life is not always easy but what matter is our attitude and how we deal with it.
Thanks for taking the time to read my profile, Best wishes to you in your search.