Date men and women from United States / California / Lake Forest, 54 year old

Date people from Lake Forest, United States. Like so many others, I never imagined that I would find myself here on match.com, trying to describe myself to an audience unknown, hoping to meet someone to kindle a relationship. But Ilife is a journey full of many twists and turns, and so here I am.
I am a single father living with my two adult children, ages 20 and 22. I am very happy with my life, but now that they are grown, I'd like to find a woman to enjoy the things in life that make living worth while. I believe that joy shared is doubled; hardship shared is halved.
Working in technology, I've had to spend a lot of my life re-inventing myself to avoid obsolescence in my career. I try to take the same attitude towards the rest of my life as well, always learning something new and striving to become a better person. My friends describe me as funny, smart, and interesting, but of course they are my friends, so what else would they say?
I am an easy going guy who likes to laugh and doesn't take things (including myself) too seriously. I am a very honest person, but I don't ever use that as an excuse just to be mean.
I like to travel, especially long driving trips with no particular destination in mind, just to see where we wind up. The road traveled is the adventure itself. Also Hawaii, Mexico, New York, England. I can be happy going out to a candlelit dinner at an elegant restaurant or just sitting around the table at home eating mac and cheese. The specific activity I am engaged in is never as important as the person I'm doing it with. What we are doing is simply a backdrop to enjoying each other's company. I enjoy spending time with my family and friends and meeting new people.

Meet someone special from Lake Forest, United States. You know, this whole process sucks. It reminds me of high school. You put yourself out there, and someone cuts you off without the courtesy of a response. The whole process is wrong and a bit degrading. So, for you women out there that just ignore the guys who expose themselves and send and email and don't get the courtesy of a response, even a computer generated response, shame on you. That being said . . .
I am an incureable romantic and enjoy, on occasion, a romantic comedy. However, I prefer the testosterone driven action/fantasy movies, while always looking for the underlying love story. I am physically fit, and competitive. I'm a certified diver, I run, work out and am looking to spend more time in the outdoors. I enjoy working in my yard and relaxing in front of the t.v. My favorite place on earth is Catalina and enjoy spending a week over there every year doing absolutely nothing. Although I work long hours and sometimes on weekends, I enjoy relaxing evenings, a good meal and a good bottle of wine. I have four grown kids (yes, four - my youngest is 18, the oldest is 25) with whom I try to spend as much time as possible. I yearn to travel abroad (never done it) and am looking for a good travel partner. I am a child at heart yet know when a moment calls for me to be serious (I'm a trial lawyer). I have a huge library of useless trivia filling my head, and I tap into it frequently and sporadically. I enjoy a lot of different types of music but prefer country. I dabble in playing a 5 string banjo and fantasize about playing in a small band some day. I love old movies and can occasionally enjoy lounging the day away in bed, drinking coffee, watching t.v., and reading the paper. I am looking for someone who can enjoy all of the above, and also bring other interests into play. Expect from me soft touches, lots of kisses (long slow kisses that last 3 days), goofy comments, useless trivia, lots of talking, coffee in bed, playfulness, and passion. From you, you need to be someone who likes to reach out to just touch to let me know you're there, to kiss without pulling away, hug without patting, and enjoy playful teasing. The rest . . . it will just come to us.
P.S. You women who "require" more than a wink or a short email . . . please give us the courtesy of a response if we go through the effort of putting ourselves out there and open up even more to you. It's only fair . . . and polite. Thank you!

Date someone special from Lake Forest, United States. I could sit here and tell you that I like to work out, and travel and go to the beach, etc. And all of that is true. However, speaking from experience, all these details about me would become a moot point if when we meet face-to-face there is no chemistry. Chemistry is one of those things that either "is" or "isn't."
I'd like you to consider this scenario. After you've viewed my photos and maybe other info you find on my profile, pretend you're out at a social gathering and you see me across the room and are attracted to me. You then find a way to come introduce yourself and have a conversation with me (the planned face to face meeting.) If after meeting and talking there is mutual chemistry we can continue. If not, pretend you move on through the party meeting and talking with other people. A little more like "real life" as opposed to internet dating.
There really is no sense in me telling you all my interests, likes and dislikes, etc. prior to meeting because it could all be useless information and a waste of time if there is no connection. Life is short and time is precious.
However, I will say that I'm looking for a guy who is the male version of me. One who is honest and trustworthy, has an awesome sense of humor, likes to banter, and who doesn't take life or himself too seriously, has good family values and is respected by his friends and family. If you can make me laugh and smile most of the time, you're off to a good start.
If this makes sense to you and you feel any sense of attraction, I'm game. If not, my best wishes to you in your search.
A few more things:
-I am NOT a Harley girl so if you're really into your Harley I'm probably not a match for you.
-I'm an optimist by nature and not attracted to negative people. I'm looking for a Tigger kind of guy as opposed to an Eeyore
Some guys say they're intimidated by strong, confident, independent women. I say you're the only one who sets your limits. Drop me a note. I'd love to hear from you.

Meet a soulmate from Lake Forest, United States. I'm a positive, upbeat and caring lady, who likes to laugh and enjoy life. I'm grateful for my three children, who are now grown and are amazing adults. I'm looking to find a man who not only wants to share my interests, but I want to be a part of his life too. I have a passion for my faith, my family, "my" L.A. Kings. My friends tell me I'm easy going and can always make them laugh. Is there such thing as a "soul mate"? I have heard that's true, and I'd love to find him.
And why "OCHockeyLover"? I'm definitely a romantic woman, but I don't always "put myself out there" and write too forward of emails until I get to know someone. I see some of the names women come up with and they just seem too much. With me, what you read is what you get. A down-to-earth person who likes to have fun, but also affectionate and romantic.
Please contact me if you'd like to chat!

Date men and women from Lake Forest, United States. I enjoy romantic getaways to the beach or mountains and everything in between. I like going to outdoor concerts...shooting pool...staying home and watching movies...hangin' out with friends...going out to dinner...or cooking at home...a cold drink on a hot day...picnics...good company and riding on the back of a bike enjoying the sun on my skin and the wind in my hair. My favorite place to be is outdoors. I'm the kind of woman that wants to be kissed in the rain, leave footprints along the shore at sunset and lay in the grass at night watching the stars.
I am spontaneous, fun, adventurous and a cuddler and don't act my age. I welcome a challenge! I am passionate and enjoy life to its fullest. My favorite color is "red"...and am comfortable in leather andor lace.
It's the simple things that make me happy. I have a lot of positive energy.
I'm up for almost anything as long as it is NOT illegal ;)
Looking for my partner in crime...must be sensitive, but a little rough around the edges... and someone that wouldn't mind having my knees in the breeze right behind them and someone with a sense of humor.
My favorite quote...
“Life is not a journey to the grave with intentions of arriving safely in a pretty, well-preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out and loudly proclaiming ... WOW! What a ride!”
Sense of humor...eyes...nice smile...honesty...respect...a good heart...sincerity...when he walks into a room, he takes my breath away just by the sight of him...

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