Date men and women from United States / California / Ocean Hills, 54 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Hi...Thanks for stopping by.....
I grew up in the Midwest and have lived many places in between. I have been in North County for 12 years now and enjoy the lifestyle that SD offers.
I love to laugh, explore new places, entertain and yes I even enjoy cooking. Family values and friendships are very important to me.... I'm the middle of 5 so I learned to hold my own but as the middle child I am also the social coordinator. I generally "host" a few holiday meals and the table is surrounded with family and any "stray" friend(s) with no family in town. I have volunteered most of my life and find it truly rewarding to give back. I am also passionate about animals…and my dog in particular.
I am active and exercise most days (sometimes in the gym and other times just enjoying the outdoors)…I’m not a fanatic I just love how I feel after a work out. I eat a fairly health conscious diet but don’t worry about the occasional indulgence…After all you only live once!
I like sports, travel, music, fine dining or a hole in the wall can be just as enjoyable with the right company, the beach or mountains: I can be very flexible and comfortable most anywhere. I am very easy going for the most part and do not contribute to nor participate in drama! Sometimes I like to push myself beyond my comfort zone…… Zip lining on Catalina was the most recent, and believe me my fear of heights was challenged but what a feeling of accomplishment! What’s next???
I’m looking for someone confident, witty, successful yet down to earth, honest, happy and fun to be with. If the chemistry is there, who knows where it will go? Oh and by the way…There is nothing sexier than a guy that is playful and can make me laugh so hard my side hurts and our banter is a natural extension of “us”. I'm looking for the guy who makes me feel the magic. I don't want to "be his life" but rather enhance it. Lets explore the possibilities...it's a big world!
Thank you for reading my profile….. If you think we are a good fit I’d love to hear from you. If you are curious about the obvious feel free to ask......that's the only way you will know for sure.