Date women from United States / Arkansas / Benton, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from Arkansas, United States. I'm going into grad school soon, so I'm just a busy student right now. I'm also a single mom to my 11 yr old daughter. I'm tired of men that don't get my sense of humor. I'm dry and witty, and a bit of a smart ass. It comes from being in the military, and a background in law enforcement. I'm a sweet person, who cares a lot for people, so don't wipe your feet on me. I'm not a rug. I'm not looking to be your mama either. I'm not a hearts and flowers kinda girl, but surprises are nice. Just relax, go with the flow, and we'll see what happens.
I'm mentioning the above things because it's things that I don't want in a guy. I really am a laid back, easy going person that gets along with everyone
. I'm pretty witty too lol. I really hate drama, so anyone with ex-drama need not apply.
One more thing...Guys, it's really confusing when you put a picture of how you looked 10 years ago, and then a recent pic. I'm wondering, who the heck is this guy? Just recent pics are great. And, if you don't have a profile pic I'm not going to respond. Sorry, but I can only imagine bad things with no picture. If you're on here then I'd think you'd like to be looked at like the rest of us.
Did I mention I tend to say it like it is?? :)

Meet someone special from Arkansas, United States. First thing is that I am a single mother of a wonderful daughter. She is my life! I am involved in my church by working with the kids and cleaning once a quarter. I have friends that I have had for over 20 years; somethings they would say about me would be that I am very kind hearted, and loyal. I am always wanting to help someone else even if it means hurting myself. I have a passion for helping people that have been affected by domestic violence, or have had a friend or family member with a type of addiction. My friends would like me to find someone that I do not have to try to fix or feel like I can help them out.
I want someone that is self sufficiant, passionate about their career, but knows when it is time for friends and family. I am looking for a friend first , intellegent , romantic,honest, most of the time not-selfish. ( We all are at times) I also would like to meet someone that is really good to their mother, someone that is not a momma's boy, but loves and respect's her with all his heart. One thing about me my family is super important to me. I want to have a relationship that I am loved by the others family just as my own . I enjoy having my daughters friends over. I am a big kid and will start a whip cream war and bob for apples with them. I am very sensitive, and I believe words really do hurt. I love being outdoors, traveling, and seeing new things. I will eat almost anything except chocolate...I am done if you want to give me a chance not just a goodnight then maybe I will respond, if I have known you most of my life at least say hi. Don't lie to me honesty is very important.

Date a woman from Arkansas, United States. I am looking for someone who can make me laugh...that when I walk into the room, his smile tells it all. Someone that I can go hunting and fishing with or just lay in the bed and watch a movie...I want to feel safe and to never be lied to! With me, you are getting a handfull! I will be the first to admit this but if you get that privalege then you will be the happiest man alive...because with me comes honesty, emotion, a true friend, someone who doesn't judge your past and someone who loves harder than anything!

Meet a soulmate from Benton, United States. My friends say I'm fun to be around.. I go out with my girl friends frequently.
I hoping to find my best friend in life that I spend time with! Geezzzz it's hard to talking about yourself..........

Date someone special from Benton, United States. I'm very outgoing. Usually the comedian in the group. I love to laugh & am very laid back. Not too many thing get me upset. I like hanging out with friends, going to movies, love sushi, & watching my boys play football.

Meet a woman from Benton, United States. I have not been in the dating game in over 12 years. I'm not looking for a one night stand, I am looking for someone to hang out with, maybe catch a movie or just start with be friends and see where it goes from there. I like to sit or lay around and talk about nothing... :-) I am very independent and love to have fun being with someone who wants to have a good time. I'm very laid back and easy going pretty low maintenance.
I want someone who will love me for me, cause I'm going to b honest, I'm funny, caring, loving and very giving. I am a real girl, not a large girl and not a Barbie. I have meat on the bones and am not embarrassed by it, well trying not to b, cause men sure do judge by what a girl looks like instead
Of what is inside. So if you are that type of person, thank you for reading but don't bother replying, cause it won't do you any good to try. If you are a real guy then message me and let's get to know each other.

Date a soulmate from United States. I have been told I am always such a happy, fun, outgoing person who always has a smile on her face. I do love to smile...I think smiles are contagious and make people feel better even if they think they don't want to. I am the proud mother of 3 wonderful children....A girl and 2 boys. They make each and every day special for me. I like to get together with friends for dinner, movies or just to hang out. I don't enjoy the bar scene anymore. I like to cook and have people over and entertain when I can. I like to joke with people and enjoy being joked back. I am looking for a man that is sweet, caring and gentle. A person who cares about others and doesn't mind lending a helping hand if it's ever needed. Someone who wants to laugh and have fun daily. Life is too short and goes by too quickly not to enjoy things.

Meet someone special from United States. I am a fun loving anything goes type of lady. A little country with a city twist. =).
My closest friends would describe me as a very good listener, always there when they need me, and a bit too generous at times.
What puts a smile on my face? Watching an elderly couple holding hands. Kids playing in the park, without a care in the world.
I am grateful for the Lord loving me, giving me two wonderful children, a great family and lots of friends.
My latest and greatest accomplishment: Buying my own home ALL BY MYSELF!!!!!
First of all, I am looking for an everyday kind of person. The kind of person who enjoys traditional, old fashioned romantic dating but who can cut loose and have some fun. I would say I am looking for someone "normal," but what is normal anyway. We're all a little quirky, but I would like someone on the more normal-side who can be drama free and a gentleman.
I want to find a true love that will last through the ups and downs of life. I am searching for someone who is all about family. Someone who can communicate. Someone who knows when to fight for something better and when to accept the glass half full. Someone who wants to be loved, pampered, and passionately desired. Someone who wants to be given as much as he receives.
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Date a woman from United States. The most important quality I am looking for is unconditional love... someone that will take me for who I am! Accept my children, my job, and me. I have been a single mom for the past eleven yrs. I have 2 great kids, I have a job anyone would love to have and for the most part, I am happy. All of my hard-work is finally paying off and I am finally settled. I thought I'd wait until my kids were grown to find a companion.. I was wrong, I do feel like something is missing. For me to say this means I am really ready to meet Mr. Right and I know there is one out there for me.
10 Random things:
1. My first car was a 71 Chevelle, I loved that car!
2 .When I was 16 I wrecked my first car 7 times in one yr from racing.
3. I have tattoos, so if you are not into tattoos... need not apply. :-)
4. I have parents guilt everyday.
5. My kids are my life and I am embarrassed to say that sometimes I fight with them like I'm their age.
6. If I see you throw trash out the window I will plot a horrific death for you.
7. I'm almost always late for everything.
8. I have worked since I was 15.
9. I will succeed.
10. I love the Dallas Cowboys and miss Jimmy Johnson.

. Am a very independent lady that works alot of hours and has missed out on alot in life. I want to find someone that can show me what it means to live, laugh and love. I have forgotten how to do those things.
I remember a day when I used to love to go on roller coasters and haunted houses, I still love them but want to ride them with someone that loves them as much as i do.
I want a man that will give as much to me as I will to him....Friendship, loyalty, love, comfort, honesty...and all that a great life with someone has.
I have lived up north where it snows and down here in the south where it is sticky humid in summer time. I love the summer the most cause you can be outside enjoying what surrounds you instead of couped up in a house under an electric blanket trying to stay warm. I love the beach with the sand between his toes and the salt in the air.
I am a BBW that is okay with who I am, I know I am no beauty queen or movie star but I do know what I like and what I want. I don't think that ppl should just settle for what society says they should have or want. I like a tall man that is of average to physically fit body type. The fact that he takes such pride in himself and his body is such a turn on....and I know that sounds hypocritical being that I am over weight but I am not that way because I am just a lazy slob. I work about 50-60 hours a week and deal with stress by eating. I do like to exercise but need someone to push me and guide me. That is something that we could do together as we get to know each other.
I live with my 5 little dogs(see pics) and I joke and call myself the spinster dog lady but when I come home at night they are there with tails wagging full of unconditional love and they depend on me and me alone. I want to give that to my partner and get it in return. My teenage daughter has left me (as all kids should) after 18yrs of sacrifice and dedication, to live her life and make her way...but upon her departure I am left alone. I have been on many dating sites and found most men my age want a younger hottie or just sex....I am past those things. I want to retire one day and travel with my best friend to Europe and take crusies to Alaska and Bahamas. I want to sky dive, bunggie and bring back stories to one day tell my grandchildren.
I have never been married and not sure if siging a paper is as important to me as spending my life with the one I love. Besides divorce is to expensive these days. But if we (he and I) decide together to take that step then so be it. BUT am not in any rush to take that step....just want to take it slow and enjoy the ride.
Am a very open and honest person. No question is to much or to personal. I curse like a sailor but know when to be a lady or as close as I can get to one! I have no problems making conversation with strangers and enjoying a good party or just sitting at home watchin a movie or maybe working in the yard.I haven't been a high school girl for many years now so am not about playing silly games.

. Looking for someome who is loving,friendly,listens well,and who enjoys life.I hope that whoever responds to me and my profile will be innocent,not just saying whatever because this is done in private,so to speak. So the best way to have a successful start we all need to go into it being honest.

. Im a city girl who loves the outdoors! I live downtown and love the adventure that surrounds me there! I also love looking out over the busy city spending a quiet evening at home or planing my next trip to kayak a river or find a new waterfall! I am looking for someone who honestly wants to settle down with me but not settle down in life! I want to live each day to the fullest and I want to share my adventure of what tomorrow brings with someone who knows what Live, LOVE Laugh really means !