Date women from United States / Arkansas / Oakland, 39 year old

Date a woman from United States. nutshell version:IРІР‚в„ўm a creative, open-minded, easy-going, nature and city-loving individual.
long version w/ quirks details: I can be serious but silly, a little shy in big groups, but then open-up more in one-on-one situations, adventurous curious, but also appreciative content w/ simple everyday pleasures. I like learning new things and challenging myself to keep growing as a person. I try to be true to myself, not follow all trends and the masses and pause to make my own informed choices. I like trying new things, enjoy anything that will keep me outdoors, is fun or gives me a little adrenaline rush...and by no means am I an extreme outdoors person, I'm just someone who enjoys the beauty of the great outdoors in the Bay area and beyond...
I tried out the east coast for grad school, but moved back home to the bay area after graduation. The last several years have been about balancing the demands of my profession with a constant pursuit and enjoyment of everything the area has to offer as well as continuing my love for travel. A random sampling of recent favorite local activities: Alameda flea market, Tilden park, Crissy Field , Berkeley Marina or Tennessee Valley, Oakland art murmurs, evening visits to the MOMA or DeYoung, dancing to infectious electronic dance music beats with friends. More everyday activities that I enjoy: trying new restaurants and repeat visits to my favorite hole-in-the-wall restaurants, lectures, live music, street fairs, sitting on a beach or at a park w/a good book and good food, going for hikes, home cooked cozy meals with a glass of wine, urban walks or my favorite random weekend activity- backing a bag w/a camera and a jacket and some snacks and picking a random road to travel. I always like a little bit of everything in my life and try to keep my life balanced and varied ...and remember to stop and smell the roses along the way:)
IРІР‚в„ўm looking for someone who complements me well with similarities and differences. Specifics may not be critical, most important may be similar values, attitude in life and future goals in life. Though anyone with a creative side is a plus. Someone who is independent and has things they are passionate about, yet realizes some experiences in life are better shared with the right partner. No real must haves, beyond that undefinable thing called chemistry.... which you can't quite describe it, but you recognize it in a heartbeat. I come from a great family and hope to find the right someone who wants to have a family of their own someday soon and share that amazing adventure with me.
IРІР‚в„ўm looking for another curious and genuine individual that can appreciate and ponder everything from the wonder of Yosemite; to a sculpture by Henry Moore, Richard Serra or Brancusi; warm sunshine and a summer breeze on your face; ancient ruins or strolling the streets of Paris or NYC; and the need for the occasional sidesplitting laughter, thought provoking conversation or activity , or simple tranquil silence... all the ordinary and the extraordinary moments of life
Curious? send me an email hello and we can go from there:)

Meet someone special from United States. I am a woman who has had a lot of interesting life experiences that have made me the kindhearted, caring, generous and intelligent person I am today. I'm from a big Irish family and I truly value my family and friends. I have a variety of talents and skills, but I'm always striving to improve both professionally and personally. At this point in my life, I feel I am definitely ready to settle down and start a family of my own, so I am looking for someone who is at a similar point in his life. I admire men who are strong in both stature and character. I am looking for someone who shares similar interests and hobbies, but enjoys his independence as well.
I can't stand arrogance in anyone and would like a man who is patient and kind towards others and has a great sense of humor. He doesn't have to be wealthy, but is financially responsible. I prefer someone who is down-to-earth and outdoorsy, but can also enjoy dressing up for a special evening out on the town. I am attracted to men who like to eat well and enjoy exercise but are not rigid about either. My ideal date has a passion for what they do, and can be spontaneous when the opportunity arises. As the eternaI optimist, I must be with someone who always sees the glass half full, not half empty. Most of all, I am looking for a man who will stand by my side, be my best friend and be excited about sharing new adventures with me.

Date a soulmate from United States. My friends say I am warm-hearted, genuine, hardworking, intelligent, quirky and a little "feisty"... I love to dance and am passionate about the arts. I'm very physically active and enjoy riding my bike, practicing yoga, hiking, horseback riding, camping and pretty much anything outdoors. My work is very gratifying, but I try to keep clear boundaries between it and my life outside. My friends are extremely important to me and I try to be available for them when they need me. I also love kids and play a pretty active role as an "Auntie" to my friend's 8 year-old daughter who spends the weekend with me about 1-2x/month. I value open and honest communication
I appreciate a man who speaks and acts with integrity, who is confident but not self-absorbed, someone who takes care of his body but doesn't make that his "life's work", someone who is quick witted but uses his wit sparingly and appropriately. I appreciate chivalry, someone who isn't afraid to cry and has a way with kids. Intelligence is also super sexy.

Meet a woman from Oakland, United States. Love, true love has seemed to change so much since the days of our grandparents. Being raised by my grandma, I do still have some old fashion qualities but with a twist*wink*. If I could find that one man, he would have to be my good friend. I have his back and he has mine. When times call for us to be apart, we still have that connection where we know we love, trust, and cant wait to see each other. Its not a perfect world so when there are disagreements, we give space and again look forward to the soon to be happy times again. Family is very important so him being family oriented is a must. Love love love sports so ESPN and I are very close. :-)
I will admit I have been hurt, but don't consider myself to be the old bitter girl. I love to love and think loving brings out the best in me. I know this is sorta my downfall, but I love to text lol OK now you know my secrets..

Date someone special from Oakland, United States. They say timinig is everything and this is a great time in my life to start a new adventure. I am about living life to the fullest and appreciating all it has to offer. Time has taught me not to dwell on the small things, but to focus on what's important, family, friends and my faith. I am hoping to find a good person with whom I can spend quality time. I have a lot to offer the right person, as I am
1) Supportive (nagging is not an option we're both grown)
2) Drama free
3) Loyal
4) Family oriented
5) Non-judgmental
I am looking for someone that is a good person at their core, trustworthy, honest and responsible. I'm not looking for the perfect person, just the person that's right for me.

Meet a soulmate from Oakland, United States. My closest friends would describe me as a passionate, dedicated, and loving person. I have a passion, dedication and love for a lot of my friends and family and activities I do. I've been called "Sarge" because I like order and mean what I say.
I think I have a great sense of humor. I can find humor in a lot of things. If I'm tired enough, I'm down right silly.
I do try to travel somewhere at least once a year. "Somewhere" can be anywhere within the states or another country.
I'm hoping to attract a like minded individual who is driven. Wants a real relationship, not just dating. A well rounded, mentally mature person who still likes to have a good time. Someone who can be comfortable in silence and in crowds with unfamiliar people. Someone who likes to eat good food. Someone that does not get intimidated easily. I have a lot of successful friends and family, a man that feels he "cannot compete", need not apply.

Date a woman from Arkansas, United States. I am independent and very cute woman with a great sense of humor. I am a workaholic and love what I am doing for my living. I think it is very important that I do and make me happy in my life.I remembered one of my friend told me I work hard to creat my luck. I am very appreciated what I have such as my health, my lovely family and friends and my co workers. I grew up in China and came here over a decate. Enjoying outdoor activity such as running or hiking in the park, Reading book for self improvement, dinning out with my friends or my family in different restaurant, or just cooking at home with family and friends come by.
Time flies by too quickly when you are too busy in your life. I love to share a part of my life with a amazing, respected man to share our life. Life is not fun without someone to share with.

Meet someone special from Arkansas, United States. I am someone who is comfortable in her own skin; has opinions and isn't afraid to say them; enjoys a wide variety of things and would love to be introduced to something new that I've never tried before. I am smart and can take care of myself. I like it when a man offers to carry my bag if its heavy, but I don't get along well with men who think that women need to be taken care of or are fragile. I am looking for someone who is independent and likes that I am independent; someone who is sassy and won't let people walk all over him; who doesn't like the current state of the world and the people in charge of it (or at least some of them); who is intelligent and enjoys intelligent conversation. You don't have to be a mega athlete, but I'm not into couch potatoes. I don't care what you do for a living or how much money you make, as long as you are happy with your life.
FYI, I am often on my iPad and Apple and Adobe flashplayer don't mix. So, please don't think I'm rude or necessarily ignoring you if you send an IM and I don't respond.

Date a soulmate from Arkansas, United States. I am fairly smart, mostly funny, and very caring, with a passion for good conversations, outdoor fun activities and family & friends. I have outgrown the clubs, the raves and parties and enjoy a nice lounge, a beautiful cafe or a nice picnic spot at the beach or in the mountains. I am looking for real friendship and a connection first in the hope that it turns into something wonderful. I like the idea of growing old together, with an emphasis on growth (because I know I am not perfect).
The man I am looking for is a good person, loves himself and his family, and strives for self-improvement. He can laugh at himself, loves life and connects well with people. He enjoys good conversations and seeks that special connection.

. I moved to the East Bay over a year ago and really enjoy it. It is so beautiful here and there is so much to do. I've been truly blessed with a number of friendships already but of course I'm looking for a great guy to share my life with. I like being outside exploring the area walking and hiking. During the winter, I love to downhill ski. Last year I went to Tahoe for the first time and absolutely loved it. My favorite part was skiing down Squaw Valley's Mountain Run at night. I was told it was about 3 miles of straight skiing. It was heaven.
Probably my main hobby is working out. I really like to work out - run on the treadmill, bike, do the elliptical machine and lift weights. Of course it helps to stay trim but I also like how it makes me feel. I get energized! I just started working out early in the morning because it just seems easier.. so I guess I'm a former night owl now.
I'd like to start reading more (New Year's resolution). My father was a big reader and he was so disappointed that I didn't share that passion. But to be honest, at night after work sometimes I just want to veg out and watch some TV. My guilty pleasures are reality TV shows and celebrity news :) Can't help it! Love those shows - that's what my girlfriends and I love to gossip about.
So that being said - you could call me a "girlie" girl (with a touch of "tom boy"). I enjoy shopping and love fashion. Of course, my budget keeps everything in check but I like looking my best. Pink is one of my favorite colors.
As far as a relationship, I'm a big believer that in the beginning it should be light-hearted and fun - nothing heavy. I like spending some time getting to know a man that I'm dating. I have a really big heart and love making the guy I'm with feel very special. I want to know all about him and what makes him happy. I think it's very important that he feels strong and secure with me.
I really appreciate a man who is a gentleman...someone who is kind and considerate. Chivalry is a must. And of course, I am looking for a guy who is ready to commit to a relationship. One more thing- I don't meet a guy unless I've talked to him on the phone first. It's so much better to have an actual conversation!
I want the guy in my life to be my best friend. Could this be you?

. I’m realizing more and more that I am not your typical black woman (or should I say what some folks would stereotypically classify as typical). I grew up with a very diverse group of friends and have had a lot of great and unconventional experiences, which I have appreciated and enjoyed. That being said I am really open to all cultures, lifestyles and I like to try new things and I would love to meet someone who feels the same or is at least open to new experiences. When I asked friends to describe some qualities about me they said the following: funny, smart (think they wanted something , kind-hearted, flexible, and a person that knows a lot of random weird factoids (maybe they are trying to tell me I’m a bit of a nerd- I do like to watch the Discovery channel) but I also have my guilty pleasures like Hardcore Pawn.- what don’t judge me, I did say I was not your typical black woman…
Life can be challenging so I try to laugh as often as I can and to enjoy whatever IРІР‚в„ўm doing from walking around beautiful Lake Merritt, hiking in the redwoods, hanging out with my god babies, dancing the night away with friends, or just kickin it at home watching a movie and cooking something good and healthy. I love all types of music and I enjoy going to concerts or seeing live music, going to museums, and going to movies. I think itРІР‚в„ўs important to be passionate about something, so for me that means volunteering in the community and enjoying the beautiful scenery that the Bay affords.
IРІР‚в„ўm looking for a grown-up man meaning you know who you are, what you want, and have played out all of your drama, youРІР‚в„ўre positive and you are looking ahead toward your future. Would be nice to meet a man who is a gentlemen, understands the art of wooing, is honest, kind, open-minded, has a great sense of humor, and above all is willing to take the time to explore the possibilities without any expectations. I also believe that relationships are reciprocal so I am not stingy about lending a supportive hand, ear or kind word, just know that its just as important to give as to receive.

. Ah, dating. Why does it have to be so complicated? You bring your authentic self, I bring mine. If there is a connection, we continue. If not, we move on and feel ok. I think it is worthwhile to embrace any awkwardness in this process. Vulnerability is necessary, as I believe you have to stretch yourself sometimes to grow and find happiness. As I navigate through life, I see that there are many strategies for getting my needs met. I can entertain myself pretty well, and I have friends and family that I cherish. I am not necessarily looking for my 'everything'. Curiosity and optimism have brought me here for the opportunity to get to know someone in a way that is missing from my daily interactions. Some of the qualities I appreciate in people are honesty, a curiosity for life and enough of a sense of humor that you can laugh at yourself.
To describe myself a little further, I would say I am athletic and creative. My weeks are usually spent cooking, doing random food related projects at home (i.e. acorn processing and olive curing), doing active things such as playing ice hockey and engaging in creative pursuits. Lately I have been making lamps. I consider myself introverted and silly. I think tacos and bicycles are amazing inventions. I also think the world is a pretty magical place, and I hope we can keep it that way.
Thanks for reading. Shall we give this thing a try?