Date women from United States / Arkansas, 39 year old

Date someone special from Arkansas, United States. Smiling and enthusiastic person that is very optimistic. I love to laugh... Life is too short to have it any other way. I am looking to meet new people and make new friends. If it develops into something more, great! If it doesn't, then it will be OK too.

Meet a soulmate from Arkansas, United States. I'm going into grad school soon, so I'm just a busy student right now. I'm also a single mom to my 11 yr old daughter. I'm tired of men that don't get my sense of humor. I'm dry and witty, and a bit of a smart ass. It comes from being in the military, and a background in law enforcement. I'm a sweet person, who cares a lot for people, so don't wipe your feet on me. I'm not a rug. I'm not looking to be your mama either. I'm not a hearts and flowers kinda girl, but surprises are nice. Just relax, go with the flow, and we'll see what happens.
I'm mentioning the above things because it's things that I don't want in a guy. I really am a laid back, easy going person that gets along with everyone
. I'm pretty witty too lol. I really hate drama, so anyone with ex-drama need not apply.
One more thing...Guys, it's really confusing when you put a picture of how you looked 10 years ago, and then a recent pic. I'm wondering, who the heck is this guy? Just recent pics are great. And, if you don't have a profile pic I'm not going to respond. Sorry, but I can only imagine bad things with no picture. If you're on here then I'd think you'd like to be looked at like the rest of us.
Did I mention I tend to say it like it is?? :)

Date a woman from Arkansas, United States. If you could describe yourself using only one word - what would that word be?
My honesty is unexpected and I think, in written form, it comes across in a way that does not depict as much of my charming personality as it does my strong character. :) I do have children but I won't be promoting them in my personal dating profile. I did post one photo as they are obviously an important part of my life. They're great kids and the right guy will know all about them in the future if it gets passed a wink or an email.
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My brief autobiography: I am a very passionate, confident and modest individual. I enjoy being drama free. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I'm an honest, good-hearted, genuine woman who grew up in Kansas City. I'm a little bit city and a little bit country; I appreciate the benefits of both lifestyles. I like to travel, but there's no place like home and home for me is not necessarily a geographical location. I have lived in a few different states and also outside the U.S. I'm definitely not your typical local girl. I'm happy and I live in the present; focus on the future. I am confident with who I am and where I am at this point in my life and still I have many goals yet to achieve.

I respond to all of my emails sent to me through this site, even if I feel we are not a good match - because I'm a nice person and very considerate of others and their feelings. I don't take it personal if you do not respond to an email from me, because the worst - as well as the least - you could tell me is no thanks, you're not interested.
Who I'm looking for? Someone to spend time with and enjoy each other's company no matter where we are or what we are doing. Someone who complements me in a way that implements our daily lives. Honesty and integrity are the most important, followed by an ability to communicate. Outgoing, fun-loving, intelligent, charming, witty and family-oriented. If I have left out any other significant traits then the rest is up to you - how genuine are you? Life does not evolve solely around me so be yourself and lets see what happens.
If you have something you would like to ask me I will be more than happy to respond. If you are not confident, honest and cannot at least post a few current photos of yourself, then I thank you for viewing my profile but please do not message me. Anyone can appear attractive and interesting in writing but that plays only a small part in the laws of attraction. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so allow me a chance to see who I am talking with as I have allowed for an equal opportunity.

Meet someone special from United States. I'm kind of new to the dating world again. I never thought I would EVER be on a dating website. I am looking for someone to go out and have a good time with. I would like to find someone who enjoys having fun and can be comfortable in a variety of settings. I believe in keeping up my appearance. You will never find me going out without makeup and hair done unless I am on the verge of death. I admit to having a spa habit and am addicted to tanning beds and nail salons. Not much of a chick flick fan and enjoy a good scary movie. My perfect mate would be someone who dresses nice and is concientous about how he looks. Someone who is comfortable in both casual and formal social situations and can put up with my high maintenance beauty regimen. I love my son...he is the center of my universe. I also play clarinet in Heartland Winds and Percussion in Cape Girardeau,MO. I've been playing since I was 8 yrs old. My son is an active boy scout and plays trumpet in band so I'm really big on camping and football Friday night. My job as a nurse takes up alot of my time and guarantees that schedule is never the same-no Mon-Fri for me LOL. I work nights though so it allows me to be active in Caleb's school. If you want to know more about me just email and ask :-)

Date a soulmate from United States. I'm shy at first but warm up fast...I work a lot which makes it hard to meet people...when I'm not at work I'm.with my family....Family is number one to me...I'm a single mom of three girls who are my world....im not looking for someone to pay my way or raise my children,,,,I can do that myself...I'm looking for someone that is honest, faithful, and trusting man who is just as excited about coming home to me as I am to him....I'm not looking for a booty call...I'm looking for forever....so if a booty call is all your after then keep going....

Meet a woman from United States. I believe kindness and respect are key ingredients for any relationship, be it friendship or romance. I LOVE travel-the outdoors, another city, state or country- there's nothing quite like it. I am close to my family and am lucky enough to have some great true friends. I am intensely loyal and have a somewhat sarcastic, sense of humor- or so I am told.
I want someone who can bring out the best in me and I want to do the same for him. I like to be challenged. I might fight it initially, but ultimately the friends I most appreciate are those who are willing to be honest with me and help me "step up". The outdoors, good friends, good food and good wine put a smile on my face. I have lived in Colorado and Montana. I also lived in Madrid, Spain for a bit . I am ashamed to say that my Spanish still stinks, but I can get by.
I don't have a list of specifics that I'm looking for in my match... I hope to find a Christian with some overlapping interest. I would love for my mate to have a deep appreciation of travel and the outdoors. Someone who isn't materialistic, who is able to appreciate the simple things...more Subaru than sports car, so to speak.
I have been pretty skeptical about on-line dating sites, but it is a way to extend my community beyond my geographical borders. I do not want to rush into anything, but I am looking for something long term, someone I would consider marrying, not just a way to kill time.
other interest:
I like NPR.
music:Beck, Bjork, Cat Power, Avett Brothers, Mumford and Sons, Coldplay, White Stripes, Neko Case, The Shins, Lucinda Williams, Iron and Wine, Sufjan Stevens, Norah Jones,Ryan Adams, Bebel Gilberto, Bob Marley, Be Good Tanyas, Bob Dylan, Radiohead, Al Green, Arcade Fire, Elliot Smith, Jonny Cash, U2, Band of Horses, and on and on...
movies: City of God, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Office Space, Princess Bride, Say Anything, Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels, Dumb and Dumber, Little Miss Sunshine, and on and on...

. Im funny, caring, considerate and have 3 young adult children. I am working in retail. I try to do all I can for others and try to always do what is right. I don't always succeed but what's important is I try. Looking for man who is stable and honerable.

. I am a very real person. meaning that what you see is what you get. I want a companion who I can be completely honest with.Also someone who can spend time with me and my 3 yr old son. I am a health care professiopnal and would like to meet someone with whom I have something in common.Looks are not important but I want someone who takes pride in their appearance and who is healthy and tries to maintain a healthy lifestyle.I want to pursue my full potential and try to maintain a stable home life.

. I am looking for a guy that I can have fun with and hopefully call my best friend! I want to travel and see the world as well as fall in love and grow together! I want to eventually settle down and start a family. I want someone that I can completely be myself around and not worry about being judged. I want someone that is outgoing and fun and loves life.

. I am a divorced mother of two that I have with me 90 percent of the time, scared yet? I am a very open, honest, straight forward person. I don't play games and if you do keep going please. I am looking for someone that is like me not perfect by any means but alot of fun to hang out with and laugh with. I am not looking for someone to take care of me and my children i am doing that just fine, i am looking for someone who wants to be a friend, companion and maybe more as time goes by. Im not looking to get married tomorrow but if it comes up i wouldnt run from it either. If you can't take complete and total honesty or give it to me then you might want to move on also. Yes i am blunt but i am not cruel. I love hanging out with someone just as much as i love going out with them i am low maintenance. I hope that this hasn't run you off but if it has i wish you the best in your search.

. Everyone thinks that I'm a sweet and kindheart person. I have a nice personality easy goin and laid back person. i would like to meet a down to earth drama free and someone to spoil and to spoil me. I like to go out to eat and the movies, music concerts and plays, and travel in enjoy life. Someone to love and mayb share my life with and a open minded person and like to or enjoy cooking as i do. Someone who enjoy goin to church.

. I'm looking to have a friend.. Someone I can trust, I must trust. I'm very active in my life I work full time and I'm a mom and I do well for myself . If I can trust you and I'm interested I will invite you In my life