Date women from United States / California / Elk Grove, 50 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Hi and thanks for checking out my profile. I am a very down to earth simple women yet with alot of depth and dimension. I'd say I'm a good mix of many qualities: calm and reserved yet playful and fun. confident, yet humble. I have a great sense of humor but can hold a serious conversation. I am very hard working but like to un-wind and relax. I am shy but also have a bit of a wild side at times too. I will speak my mind, but with compassion and respect. I enjoy quiet evenings in but can handle myself well at a crowded party. I am very easy going, balanced and well rounded ( in more ways than one, lol.) I am tolerant, open-minded, deeply caring and always improving.
I work hard to care for my kids and myself. I have 3 kids ( 2 adults, 1 teenager ) with only one left at home. I live pretty simply but am comfortable, content and for the most part happy. I beleive life's greatest gifts are the non-material ones.
It would be hard to describe my perfect,ideal match because I dont beleive in perfect, and besides perfect is overrated and boring. I am looking to date a nice, normal, down to earth, yet interesting man. a sense of humor is a must! I like a man who is smart and confident but never pretentious. Looking to relax and have fun and build trust slowly. Not looking to move too fast, but definantly not looking for just a surface relationship. want real and genuine! Good communication skills are essential! Shallow men need not apply.
side note: I am very tall. 5'11" barefoot and not afraid to wear heels! lol I am open minded, however I generally date men at least 6ft or taller so please do not lie about your height.