Date women from United States / California / Sonoma, 50 year old

Date a woman from United States. Ten random things about me:
I love to cook with my partner (and share in the clean-up!), I am an only child and like a little alone time, I enjoy a good glass of Zinfandel, wish I could figure out my creative side, I don't like to "weed", a bit too sentimental (hard for me to get rid of some things...), that I don't know what I want to be when I grow up!, my favorite dinner is good bread, cheese, fruit and a nice glass of wine and chocolate for dessert, my hardest job has been being a parent and that I really miss my Mom (she passed away in Nov '08).
Who I am looking for:
I'm looking for someone looking for me! I would like a partner in crime, someone who will challenge me, praise me, support me, slap me down (not literally of course!), befriend me, be loyal to me and in return, accept all those wonderful things from me.
A man who can laugh at life; a strong man with whom I feel comfortable yet stimulated, who is optimistic and encourages me to be at my best~a man who is not afraid, and is at ease with being himself~
Mutual love and attraction on as many levels as possible, emotional, mental, physical and spiritual;
A man whose quirkiness is comaptible with my quirkiness;
A man who can love my accessories and doggy bag~
"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love."
— Dr. Seuss