Date men and women from United States / California / Salinas, 36 year old

Date someone special from Salinas, United States. I’m a kid at heart who loves to laugh and have fun, but when you get to know me you’ll know I’m very passionate about life. I enjoy a great night out in the city, but I’m a simple guy who likes to snuggle up on the couch and watch a movie.
My friends would call me “dependable”; my family would call me “lovable” (I think it’s a rule families have to say that); and my teenage daughter would call me…well, a dork. I would describe myself as a person who basically loves to give. I like to travel (comes with the job) and I’ve been fortunate to have visited countries around the world….but it doesn’t compare to jumping in the car and just getting lost with the person I enjoy being with. I’m no gourmet cook either, but I tend to stretch my abilities in the kitchen when I’m cooking for someone (occasionally the fire alarm goes off, but that’s what it’s there for…along with take out).
I guess you can say I play well with others, but looking for someone who’s willing to share the same compassion. My ideal partner would need to be someone who enjoys life and is able to laugh at herself. Be independent and goal oriented, but able to open up and depend on me when she needs help.
I’m somewhat new to the Monterey Bay area and looking for someone to take in the sites. Send me a wink if you’re wanting to have fun!

Meet people from Salinas, United States. My close friends and family would describe me as a good guy and I'm very family oriented. I am also very active in running, basketball, softball, training for a triathlon, and now cross fit. I'm also active in the community I live in. I work and I'm active most of the time but I'll be happy to drop everything for a good woman.
I would like a woman who is independent and decisive in what they want out of life. A woman who eats healthy and likes to stay actively fit. She must have intelligence with a great sense of humor. A woman with a good personality that I can communicate with will be a big plus because I believe if I can have a conversation with her in 20 years from now and still laugh, then that will be the most beautiful thing. I'm grateful for the small stuff in life. Which means if I catch her doing something silly, its something that will always appreciate and put a smile on my face. I would also want a woman that is affectionate and who is passionate about life in general. Trust and honesty would also be a big factor. If she likes to go to church on Sundays that would great too.
Right now I'm looking for a friendship first. I've been told that a relationship can't really be determined until after the 10th date.