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Date people from Modesto, United States. You will have to jump in here and see what the water is like. Email for a picture, description of personality, promises, politcal statement, credit report, list of sexually transmitted diseases, list of children, and mental disorders.

Meet someone special from Modesto, United States. Born and raised in the Chicago area from a hard working blue collar family molded who I am today. We were taught to go to school, work, and do something with our lives so I'm thankful for that. My story is somewhat different from the rest of my family because even at a young age I knew I was going to leave home and do something more than the usual. All my family still lives there but I'm happy with the path I took.
Being the first in my family to graduate from college with a Bachelor's Degree opened the door for great opportunity. My first professional job landed me in Southern California where I lived at the beach for five years. Had a great time and made many friends but I needed a change of pace. A job change with a new company relocated me to North Dakota for a few years until I earned a promotion and ended up in Northern California where I have been the last five years.
I spent many years working hard and focusing on my career. Now I feel that I'm at a comfortable place in life where things are dialed in. I have a nice balance of work and play with the means to do so. My job is typical Monday to Friday with occasional travel but I work from my home and make my own hours. My weekends are free to do one of my fun activities or relax around my house. I love cooking and BBQ'ing so much that I would rather eat my own food than a restaurant (unless it's a really good one). I'm a pretty clean cut and organized person and it shows in my appearance, my house, my cars, my bikes, etc. I'm versatile in that I wear a tie during the week but play in the dirt, snow, or water on the weekends.
Living in suburban Modesto is okay but does pose some dating challenges, especially since I'm not from the area. I made a rule not to date anyone from work, the gym, or my inner circles so Match seems to be a logical choice. If someone asked me what I'm looking for I would have to say a woman that is on a similar page in life. A job/career that is established or on it's way, content living circumstances, and clear direction on what is ahead. I'm attracted to kindness, confidence, wit, intelligence, fitness, and a dry sense of humor with a little bit of dorky mixed in. Having some things in common is important but I don't feel it's necessary to date someone that has all the same interests. I already have friends to do all my fun activities with so meeting someone that I have chemistry, respect, and mutual attraction with is most important. Ultimately meeting someone that compliments me and brings out the best would be a great beginning to a potential long term relationship.

Date a soulmate from Modesto, United States. Hi,
First and foremost, I’d describe myself as ambitious, loyal, and fun-loving. I enjoy life and try not to take things too seriously. I definitely have a sarcastic streak, but it’s never mean-spirited and keeps me sane. I have two gorgeous little girls and love being a dad.
I’m very driven and care deeply for the people and things in my life.. I was raised with good values and morals and think it's important to find someone who shares this. I’d like to meet a match who is also driven and has goals.
As far as what I’m looking for in a match, well—initially a beautiful smile and long hair will turn my head, but someone who is genuine, funny, and confident will get my attention and keep it.
Ultimately, I’m looking for a woman who is a lady, honest, and loyal—she’ll receive the same from me in return.
If you think we may be a good match, then message me and let’s get to know each other better.
Update:
Taking sexy pics with your child in the background is disturbing. = /
It's ok to have group pics. But when that's all you have...its like a twisted game show of "Deal or no deal".
I find it hilarious when girls complain about men being pigs. Yet...they have nothing but pics of them looking like strippers. :)
And please, no fatties. I work out 4 times a week. I'm not really into tatted up women either.
Fake confidence is transparent. Just be yourself and relax. This isn't a job interview.
Lastly, if I don't respond then most likely I don't feel we are a match. If I message YOU then it's because I'm deffinitely interested in you. I prefer to be the Hunter and not the Huntee.

Meet single man from Modesto, United States. ok first of all the only way to describe myself is to let you do it for me.im awesome,funny,if your looking to be taken out of that grumpy mood all you have to do is say the words and ill come running to your rescue.i need a real lady.positive in all areas especially when it comes to her self.not a weak minded girl.you have to be able to handle life for what it is.

Date men and women from Modesto, United States. Well it's difficult to put myself into words because I've been told that I'm different than most guys. I'm a hard worker, very honest but my good friends would say I'm brutally honest and that's what they respect, lol. I like to smile and want others to smile around me, so I'm always joking around when the time is right. Im very talkative if I know you and am shy if I don't. I like to hang with friends, have some laughs and just have fun. I've been focusing on my career for some time now, but want to start going out, meeting people, and taking it from there. I'm looking for someone that likes to go out to have fun and still can stay in and relax. Someone that is honest and can handle my work schedule. Also someone who enjoys laughing because that's what I'll try to do by making them laugh. ;) I was in Martial Arts for 10 years and the last 5 years I owned my own school. It was a real big part of my life, which I want to bring back by working out again. Focusing on my education and career took me away from it, but I want to go back to living a healthier and fit life again. During the summer or nice winter days I enjoy taking my motorcycle for just a spin or for a longer ride (hopefully you'll want to join me). Also hanging by the pool side with good friends just laughing and having a good BBQ time. I'm new to this online dating, so hopefully my profile gave you a ball park idea about the man that I am and maybe make you want to learn more. I'm more of a verbal kind of guy and I hope I can show you that there's more to me than the words on this site.

Meet a man from Modesto, United States. Hi there! I tried this site a while back and met some really nice women but didn't find anyone that I really "clicked" with, so I thought I would give it a go again.
I'm a nice, easy-going guy with a variety of interests. I enjoy reading, playing music, working out to stay healthy, hanging with friends, finding cool new restaurants,visiting museums, comedy clubs, and learning new things every day! I currently teach music, play in a number of bands, and own a small recording studio. I work with persons of all ages and enjoy the variety of individuals that I meet through my musical endeavors. Although I often play in bars/clubs with one of my bands or as a solo artist, I am not into the "club" scene. I do, however, enjoy the people watching opportunities that bars offer. :)
I am one of those unusual people that really enjoys school. I have B.A.'s in History and Psychology, was briefly enrolled in an M.A. program for History and am currently finishing an M.S. in Psychology with a concentration in Counseling. When I finish my current graduate degree, I plan to enroll in a graduate program for English and then re-enroll in and finish my M.A. in History before (hopefully) continuing on to a Ph.D. program.
Humor is essential to life! Although I am serious when the situation calls for it, I prefer to keep things light and humorous. Nothing feels as great as a good belly-laugh. :P
I am hoping to find someone whose friends would describe as "sweet;" nice girls are the best. I prefer someone with strong values who is also open-minded, flexible, and respectful of others' beliefs. The world is a diverse place and there is no one "right" way to be or believe. I am usually attracted to intelligent women who are driven to succeed in their chosen vocation (irrespective of the actual job) but that understand that loved-ones are priority number one. A good sense of humor and enjoyment of intellectual activities are a must! I am not interested in playing games or casually dating scores of different people and am looking for the same in my partner. Marriage is definitely in my future once I find the right woman.
Whew! If you would like to learn more, please don't hesitate to shoot me an e-mail (or a wink if you're shy) and ask anything. I look forward to hearing from you!
*A quick addendum regarding my methodology here on Match - I usually "wink" first. Not because I am shy, not because I am not a talkative person, and not because I am uninterested or lazy, but because it seems a bit more polite to me. A wink says, "hi - I'm definitely interested in talking to you but wanted to give you a chance to check me out first." That way there is no pressure. I'm a no-pressure guy and manners are important to me. :)

Date people from California, United States. I am a giver, a pleaser but not one to be taken advantage of. I love to laugh love to love and love to enjoy the simple things in life as well as new. I'm very well rounded as far as interests and open to most anything that I may have never tried. IE-I went to my first play last year and loved it. My acct ran out so I apologize if I haven't responded to messages. I'm a gmale! Add my name and we can chat.

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