Date men from United States / California / Santee, 49 year old

Date single man from Santee, United States. Im a man who's laid back loves to laugh and make others laugh. It takes a lot to get me upset. I believe it's very important to be honest and I put it very high on my list of things I look for in a relationship.
I like living healthy and try to stay fit and excersise often. I'm a good cook but I hat cleaning up the mess. I hate long walks on the beach...... Just kidding that would have eliminated all the women on this site.
I love walking on the beach........... as a matter of fact as many women on this sight that like walking on the beach I should just go to the beach , your all there walking at some point and time.
I love music all kinds even some rap if its m &m and some country. I like talking about deep things but also about nothing. Like what super hero would you be ? or if you had a magic wand what would you do with it ? I know that sounds dumb but it usually turns into other playful things so don't knock it.
I would really like to just get to know the women I meet first with out all the forced expectations this type of venue creates.
Someone to talk to. That's what I think most everyone hate's about this way of meeting, it feels forced and unnatural, we all would like some interesting story to tell when someone ask how did you two meet, and this is probably not the story we would write if we were writing one of those love story books...but it could be a really good book if its me you pick so keep that in mind. So friendship is a great beginning
Neither one of us want to feel like Lloyd Christmas on Dumb & Dumber and say "what was all that one in a million talk"
I do believe that there is such thing as that once in a life time love between a man and a woman, when two people just fit together so well that it creates a passion that most never have the privilege of experiencing, when a man loves a woman like that her emotional needs are fulfilled without her ever needing to ask, she lights up the room when she walks in it, she's the most beautiful woman in the world to him and he lives for her and would easily die for her. It rare but it does exist I've seen it....It's like that Bruno Mars song "girl your amazing just the way you are"
I must say you women are amazing, intricate, beautiful, feminine, and so different then us men...It's wonderful...so sometimes when I'm trying to understand it all it does get a little frightening......but I understand you better then most I have know doubt of that.
As far as the what do I like to do question, honestly reading some of the things some women say they like to do on this site sounds a little exhausting ..... hiking, fishing, skying, snowboarding, traveling the world, jumping out of planes..(walking on the beach).....spinning, running, walking, playing football...don't get me wrong I like doing just about all that or would like to try most of it, but if I look over my past the things that gave me the most joy where pretty simple, the sound of my kids in the house, watching them play sports, jokes, drinks, good conversations with friends the tiny common place of the mundane, my 18 year old was over the other night and hearing him snoring in the middle of the night was heaven....... thank God for tiny pleasures. So maybe I'm to boring for some but thats how I see life maybe thats why I'm pretty happy most the time......
I do believe in God and the golden rule and only wish to live my life in a way that would honer others, and I can't say I do a great job but it is my desire, to treat others as I would myself. And let me clarify, I believe in God and in truth not religion....