Date men and women from United States / California / Santee, 49 year old

Date men and women from California, United States. Im a man who's laid back loves to laugh and make others laugh. It takes a lot to get me upset. I believe it's very important to be honest and I put it very high on my list of things I look for in a relationship.
I like living healthy and try to stay fit and excersise often. I'm a good cook but I hat cleaning up the mess. I hate long walks on the beach...... Just kidding that would have eliminated all the women on this site.
I love walking on the beach........... as a matter of fact as many women on this sight that like walking on the beach I should just go to the beach , your all there walking at some point and time.
I love music all kinds even some rap if its m &m and some country. I like talking about deep things but also about nothing. Like what super hero would you be ? or if you had a magic wand what would you do with it ? I know that sounds dumb but it usually turns into other playful things so don't knock it.
I would really like to just get to know the women I meet first with out all the forced expectations this type of venue creates.
Someone to talk to. That's what I think most everyone hate's about this way of meeting, it feels forced and unnatural, we all would like some interesting story to tell when someone ask how did you two meet, and this is probably not the story we would write if we were writing one of those love story books...but it could be a really good book if its me you pick so keep that in mind. So friendship is a great beginning
Neither one of us want to feel like Lloyd Christmas on Dumb & Dumber and say "what was all that one in a million talk"
I do believe that there is such thing as that once in a life time love between a man and a woman, when two people just fit together so well that it creates a passion that most never have the privilege of experiencing, when a man loves a woman like that her emotional needs are fulfilled without her ever needing to ask, she lights up the room when she walks in it, she's the most beautiful woman in the world to him and he lives for her and would easily die for her. It rare but it does exist I've seen it....It's like that Bruno Mars song "girl your amazing just the way you are"
I must say you women are amazing, intricate, beautiful, feminine, and so different then us men...It's wonderful...so sometimes when I'm trying to understand it all it does get a little frightening......but I understand you better then most I have know doubt of that.
As far as the what do I like to do question, honestly reading some of the things some women say they like to do on this site sounds a little exhausting ..... hiking, fishing, skying, snowboarding, traveling the world, jumping out of planes..(walking on the beach).....spinning, running, walking, playing football...don't get me wrong I like doing just about all that or would like to try most of it, but if I look over my past the things that gave me the most joy where pretty simple, the sound of my kids in the house, watching them play sports, jokes, drinks, good conversations with friends the tiny common place of the mundane, my 18 year old was over the other night and hearing him snoring in the middle of the night was heaven....... thank God for tiny pleasures. So maybe I'm to boring for some but thats how I see life maybe thats why I'm pretty happy most the time......
I do believe in God and the golden rule and only wish to live my life in a way that would honer others, and I can't say I do a great job but it is my desire, to treat others as I would myself. And let me clarify, I believe in God and in truth not religion....

Meet someone special from California, United States. I'm am very simple to figure out...I don't have so many rules that I can't make an exception for adventure. I try everything with a positive attitude and I am committed when I do. I listen more than I speak because I think its a positive virtue. I don;t like to be around negative people, they drain my healthy energy and drag me down. There are those that think they are ALIVE, but they aren't really taking advantage of the tough stuff life dishes out to you. LIVING isn't just being alive, its being courageous, loving, ambitious and truthful. Its letting your heart be exposed and trusting that it will all turn out ok. I'm a magnet for people who have mistaken my generosity and kindness for weakness, but I have learned to accept them for who they are and move on...with contentment....without them!
I'm looking for a friendship that can't help itself but to turn into a partnership for life, a natural companion that I can share exciting news with, and who can deal with bad news with an equal amount of grace. I truly appreciate people who have my back (and not just my butt, lol). I appreciate the guy who has the courage to expose his feelings without the worry that he'll be judged for his sensitivities. I'm interested in someone who encourages and lifts people up, it's interesting and sexy. It says that you are confident, appreciative, and compassionate about others, even in spite of his own flaws. I'm ready for someone who can keep up with me physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Its going to be a fun ride!

Date men and women from California, United States. Hi, thank you for viewing my profile. I am passionate about so many things. First and foremost, my family and friends. Laughing and having fun are very important to me. I am strong, independent, and stand on my own feet, but want someone to enjoy life with. I have a serious love of travel, mostly becuase of the adventure, the food, the people, and the culture. My passion for travel has driven me to start a home based business as a travel agent as a hobby. Cruise travel I believe is one of the best ways of experiencing the world.
I am in a leadership position in technology. What I love about my job are the people - helping them be successful. The technical aspects of my job challenge me which I enjoy!
I am very lucky to live in San Diego and have most of my life. I work out most days of the week and you can usually find me hiking three of them. I love camping and in fact have my own trailer.
I am seeking someone who has faith, always positive, and who enjoys life like I do. I believe the foundation of any relationship is trust - of which I give wholeheartedly until disappointed.

Meet a woman from California, United States. I’m a professional woman who loves to laugh and have a good time. I’ve lived in this area for the past ten years and recently bought a home. I feel blessed to live in such a great city. I’m looking for a man who is interested in a long term relationship that will end in marriage. The art of conversation is not lost on me—love an engaging conversation with a great listener. I’m independent and successful. One of my passions is singing and I’ve been doing that for the past twenty five years. I’m trained in Reiki and live a spiritual, holistic lifestyle. A man who is likes to laugh, dance, dine out and watch movies is a good match for me.
IРІР‚в„ўm interested in a man who is emotionally available and in this relationship for the long haul. He is adventurous, educated, musical and spiritual. Faithfulness and honesty are high on his list and heРІР‚в„ўll treat me with respect. I donРІР‚в„ўt mind an assertive man if heРІР‚в„ўs interested in me. A gentleman who dresses well and accessorizes with a smile stands out most. His sense of humor, sincerity and attentiveness keep me hanging around for more. If you think we share similar interests and lifestyles IРІР‚в„ўd love to hear from you. Are you the one IРІР‚в„ўve been waiting for? I hope so!

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