Date someone special from Pleasant Hill, United States. I have no clue how to describe myself. All I know is that I am an easy going person that enjoys spending time with family and friends. I enjoy doing a lot of things and have a lot of interest. I try not to sweat the small thing, but I do have teen and a preteen. If you have children you know what I mean. I really think they learned how to press my buttons and enjoy doing it. And I fall for it everytime. There is so much more to tell you, but I think I will save it for when we meet.
Who am I looking for. I am looking for someone that will enjoy doing some of the things I enjoy doing. I don't expect you to like everything I like. I don't ask for much, so let's have a cup of coffee or a glass of wine and get to know each other.
Meet single man from Pleasant Hill, United States. 3078 Characters,,,humm . Ok Here it goes..Im no work out fanatic, But do drive by the gym everyday. :) As well as doing many physical activities,softball walking the Dogs or a bike ride every once in a while.. im laid back, and open , honest, reasonable and very reliable ,I come home from work and seem to have a lot of left-overs,I have one Daughter who still lives with me and --we all know what that means, Dad, i already eat ,...urgg,Im screwed ,Waste a big dinner or fast foods.It would be nice to have someone to come home everyday to Im comfortable with my life right now and would like to share it with someone. Im just looking for a partner who can also be my best friend,,. I only want one more first date ...With that said..I'd like to meet a down to earth woman who is humble yet has a quiet confidence, is easy going yet passionate, and is comfortable with who she is as a woman. Someone who: likes going out to the movies and dining out at new places, enjoys renting movies at home with a nice meal.I don't want a women who still goes to bars every weekend,if that's you :NO Thanks" So far I find it humorous with some of the profiles i have read...Come on be honest with yourself please, your not going to find Brad/geogre and i don't think Pheifer/jolie are on here...I mean what are you doing now? yes reading some profile ..lol Or watching your unrealistic reality tv show.. ... I wish you all well in your search ......P.S.... I think online dating, tends to carry a sort of energy that can sometimes be draining and ultimately counterproductive. To my friends I call it the ?shinier object syndrome.? I think that we often become so overwhelmed with the volume of people available that we don?t take the time to really get to know any ONE person. We can enjoy a great first date with someone where there is chemistry and connection, and then we jump right back online to ensure were not missing anything shinier?? While making sure were not missing anyone else, I think we may be missing what is right in front of us, what. I want is to make my next relationship the ?shinier object.? Developing a real relationship with someone takes time, energy and commitment. I feel that if I put energy into creating relationships with others instead of into ?looking for the next best thing? I will ultimately be happier and more fulfilled. So, if you are currently caught up in this energy or consider yourself to be a ?serial dater,? please don?t email (and please don?t return any emails I may send to you.) I respect where you are in this process, but its not where I am. And, I hope that you can respect that as well.......Have a great Day ..Derek