Date men from United States / California / La Selva Beach, 49 year old

Date single man from United States. I am ambitious and driven in my work but passionate and playful in my personal life.
I am not a serial dater and I am not looking for a one night stand. It doesn't interest me. I am looking for depth, substance, passion, intelligence and playfulness. I am drama free, honest, funny (no matter what, keep things light). I have been told I'm very intelligent but don't hold that against me. I wrote a book for a PhD course but didn't want to spend the time and money to get my PhD. I'm just working on another book.
I have been through a lot in my life including helping my youngest son (in my picture) heal his battle with leukemia. It was a transforming event for me. He is great now and I treasure each day of life. I value being healthy in body, mind and spirit. Even though I travel I always carry my running shoes and try to hit the local Bikram Yoga studio.
I am looking for a partner - someone I can bring happiness, joy and share my life with. I would love to find a caring, loving drama free, independent, sexy, playful, intelligent connected woman comfortable in her own skin. Well...okay. I'll take four of those. Thats just my ideal list :-) If you are using this site for serial dating, then I'm probably not a good match for you. But if you are really looking for a partner I'd love to talk to you. I love complexity, richness, and depth in my partner. So don't think you have too much going on :-)
If there is interest then lets talk on the phone and see if there is a connection.
You could live anywhere as geography should not be an impediment to a great relationship. I commute between NYC and San Francisco regularly. Even though I'm in the Santa Cruz area my work takes me around the country.
I am a foodie as my hobby is to find great food in different cities. Nothing better than a great meal and a nice bottle of wine followed by great conversation.
I enjoy the pleasure of really getting to know someone and creating a life together. I am a total romantic with the right person, and I've been waiting to turn that on again.

Meet a soulmate from United States. Hi.. I feel very blessed that my life is full of good and positive things. My two daughters are great little girls and really want their dad to find a patner. I do too, so here I am and hope that this will lead to something special.
We live in La Sela Beach between Monterey and Santa Cruz where I work from my home office. My girls are with me almost 50% of the time. Their mom lives close so it has been very easy to co-parent and make it the best for them for the situation. We ride horses on our ranch, ride dirt bikes, boating on the bay and all the team sports that my girls are involved in. Since I work from home it gives me much flexibilty to spend time with my family and also travel the west coast for business.
About you: Passionate about life, love chidren, outdoors, good food, open minded and try something at least once (unless you are completely terrified of it!).

Date someone special from United States. Hi, I’m Thomas. I am a genuine, fun, romantic entrepreneur splitting my time between my homes in Henderson NV (Las Vegas), Silicon Valley (Cupertino) and my primary residence in La Selva Beach (Next to Aptos) on Monterey Bay.
I love to travel and spend time with family and friends. I recently helped move my parents into my Cupertino home. Big project but finally all complete. I visit them often. They have been married for over 50 years!
I enjoy traveling, gliding on my Segways, watching movies, Lake Tahoe, photography, snowmobiling, romantic dinners, sunsets and exploring new places. I highly value a great relationship and would love to have the right woman in my life!
I am looking for a dependable, honest, caring, fun and sexy woman that is also looking for a life-long relationship. Someone who understands the importance of good communication and knows how to have a healthy relationship. Someone who enjoys holding hands, pillow talk, close intimacy and trying new things.
Someone who also enjoys the beach, The Bay Area and Las Vegas and who can ultimately spend time together at all of our homes along with traveling and exploring new places in the world.
THE FINE PRINT: Please do not contact me unless you are serious about a LTR and live in the Bay Area or Las Vegas and/or travel to both frequently. Lets plan to speak on the phone sooner then later. Two or three emails max. It is important that you are honest to yourself and others, emotionally available and not have any sexual problems or hang ups. No Games except in bed (ha), STD free, No drugs, No smoking, No major emotional baggage and No drama. I am just a real, romantic, sweet and fun guy that is looking for the right woman to build a life together. Are you the one?

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