Date men from United States / California / Arcata, 49 year old

Date a soulmate from Arcata, United States. late-bloomer, attending college to be a counselor, addiction studies program. to be part of the solution, not the problem. seek a good partner for better days ahead, growing into a better man, but can only get so far without a good woman to inspire my prospective talents and gifts. energy must mix well, or we cannot get off the ground. i am slow to warm sometimes, but get very creative once aroused.outdoor activities are especially desireable, including dancing...earth connections bring out my best. i am a musician of 30-plus years, rock, blues, celtic acoustic. i like to study my celtic heritage and explore mythology. i work as a gardener-helper, learning about nature. so-cal born, connecticut-raised, have lived in orick,arcata, blue lake, now in humboldt hill. i am seeking someone playful enough to have fun, but steady enough to be down to earth. compatible interests are cruicial, so we don't waste time struggling to make a good fit...i am getting too old for that. while i still have some life left in me, i'd like to enjoy some good company with a good lady. i am old-fashioned and ethical usually, now that i am being a good boy. i am an absolute freak for garlic!!! polite gentlemen never give their recipes away... unless coaxed out of them! i have a very good sense of humor, so be prepared to laugh!!! i have good social skills, but prefer peace and quiet mostly. i am a very giving and generous person, but i need reciprocatoin and balance in the "give-and-take" department. clean and meticulous, i can be very intense...can you handle me? let's find out, shall we? i am not yet into my new life and career, as the bad-boy i used to be had no time for responsible living. now, that's all i want to do for some quality years remaining. Smooch! affectionate redwood seeks gardener beauty so i can grow.

Meet someone special from Arcata, United States. I am a easy going fun person. I am looking for someone that wants to better themselves and help others. I am very well traveled and know how to take care of myself. I am interested in finding someone that appreciates a good man and wont try to take advantage of my generosity. I like women that are polite and respectful of others. I am attracted to pretty women who smile all the time and never frown even when they are down. It would be nice to meet someone who is educated and happy with themselves at this stage in life.

Date a man from Arcata, United States. I want somebody who wants to be loved and love back and when things are tough we deal with it together be friends first and find out if we like each other as friends first and enjoy doing things together and just hanging out wants to be with my friends and I want to be with her friends

Meet single man from Arcata, United States. I am a genuinely nice person who gets satisfaction from helping others. I am a good listener and know how to be supportive and comforting even while providing opposing perspectives.
I especially love outdoor activities and am willing to try most anything. I can't stop smiling when I'm out on my bike, skiing down a mountain, swimming in the ocean, rafting down the river, hiking in the forest, or playing sports. I find open-minded conversations about most topics to be stimulating and intriguing. I grew up in the city but love the country and mountains. I definitely need cultural input; especially living behind "the redwood curtain".
I'm focused on finding happiness, fun, and fullness of life. I don't need a faster car or a bigger house, but I do need the right equipment to explore what life has to offer. I'm looking for excitement that can only come from adventure and the unknown. I'm looking for a partner to share it with. I've raised children and have a great love of family. I enjoy my profession and am challenged by my work daily. I am sensitive, passionate, strong, and composed. I require an intimate, physical, and emotional connection to my partner. I don't need a relationship to continue my exploration, but know the wonders of life are best when shared. I'm looking for a woman who pursues adventure, is strong and independent, loves touching, cuddling, and sharing, and likes to work and play hard. I need passion, intimacy, and caring from my partner, without losing one's self. I find humor is life's best medicine and appreciate when we can laugh at ourselves.
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