Date men from United States / California / Santa Ana, 71 year old

Date a soulmate from Santa Ana, United States. I came to California in 1970 as a VP Finance and spent weekends racing motorcycles. I was married for 14 years, no children & divorced for 6 years. Married again for 18 years 1 step-daughter and 1 son (now 30 & 25, in Indiana) and divorced for 12 years. I had 3 boys thru Big Brothers. I love being spontanous and doing things - 'just because'... I have several cars & motorcycles and I got my a pilot's license in 1980. - I'm looking for someone who is financially secure and is self-motivated. I was raised to open doors and pamper a woman but she must also be able to do it herself. I don't want to pick EVERY restaurant, movie and vacation spot (been there - done that - hate it). Opinions and mutual decisions are not bad things. I ALWAYS have music playing (Oldies &/or Country but RAP is not MUSIC). With no family in California I place a premium on time with friends and long lasting friendships. Time spent at the cabin in Big Bear or camping in the desert or at the beach is time well spent.