Date men from United States / California / Beaumont, 71 year old

Date someone special from Beaumont, United States. I'm a widower, 71, living in a 55 gated community in Beaumont, CA. We have a clubhouse with a gym and many activities. These activities are most of what I do outside my home, other than visiting family or family visiting me. My favorite activities are the billiards club, ping pong club, and gym workouts. There is also a singles group I go to that meets once a month to socialize and plan day trips to interesting places. I also like to do many things on the computer such as shop, pay bills, blog at various sites and regularly play international chess matches.
I'm open for a casual (at first) mingling with women of similar match to me, but doesn't have to be a perfect one. She should be slender, and have a sense of humor, affectionate not too clinging or demanding. I would of course offer the same in kind I hope. I also like honesty and openness with discretion of course. I'm not the sort of adventurer who wants to explore, travel and be on the go that much. My 07 Camry has barely 30,000 miles on it.
I'm probably considered humorous but very capable of being deep or intense. I like affection. If you don't want to touch or be touched then I'm not your man.
I like movies, dining out and occasional one day excursions. And for a man, I like shopping and browsing interesting places with interesting products. I consider myself spiritual and Christian but not intensely religious and rare attend church. Non-denominational churches are OK. I like emails and texting and video chatting as well as casual dating.
They don't seem to limit distance so I guess I should suggest that I would prefer someone withing 50 miles from me, in Beaumont, CA.

Meet single man from Beaumont, United States. Most people I know describe me as a good man!
I am new at this so called dating game and my kids are getting a big laugh at my experiences and stories. Not that I tell them everything or seek their approval, but rather to keep them involved in my life. I have three wonderful and very supportive children. I have been blessed!
Looking back at some of my accomplishments, I would say that giving my children and the employees who I had the privileged to have worked with the opportunity to succeed in life and in their work careers.
I believe if you can make good decisions, good things will happen. I also believe hard work, patiences, staying focus, accountability and responsibility and most important of all, is believing in your self will help you achieve your goals in life.
I hope to meet someone who is graceful, charming, trustful, honest, sincere, passion for life and has a good balance in her life.
I enjoy golfing, going to the gym and staying healthy, reading, walking/hikes, dancing, music, movies, theatre and traveling.