Date someone special from Ojai, United States. I have been a widow for several years and am looking for someone to share my ideas and thoughts with. I am a mother of four children and a grandmother of ten. Two of my sons and my daughter live near by. I enjoy spending time with all of them, especially going to their sports activities and musical recitals. My husband and I traveled a great deal so my change in lifestyle is something I feel I need to work on. Overall I miss the activities that we shared.