Date women from United States / California / Irvine, 73 year old

Date someone special from Irvine, United States. I am a fairly intelligent woman, moderatly attractive and enjoyassociating with the same type of people. People who are both comfortable with who they are and realisticly aware of what is going on in the world around them. I enjoy someone who can tell and be appreciative of a good joke. I'm looking for someone I can respect (for his intelligence and compassionate understanding ways) One who enjoys intimate dinners and social gatherings equally and who commands a prescence when entering a room. I do not want or enjoy a wallflower to life or particular gathering. I want him to know whom he is and to enjoy life and people in general. He should share in my interests,not afraid to learn new ones and to share and teach his interest when they might differ. He should never be closed to new and different ideas and willing to compromise whenever it may be called for. Stubbornesss and jealousy are not in my vocabulary and they should neither be in his. I enjoy good music (classical, jazz, country, Rand B,etc) definitely not Rap, Acid Rock or anything in that vein. An intimate dinner can be as enjoyable as a social gathering just as seeing a movie together would be as enjoyable as attending a concert. Attending and/or viewing sports events is also a favorite passtime. I enjoy coffee shops and cocktail lounges a walk on the beach or attending museums and art gallaries. I have been active in charities and would appreciate someone who is active in the community (as a doer). In other words I am looking for someone who is alive and enjoys it and all its aspects. I want to enjoy life now but it's not fun doing it alone.