Date men and women from United States / California / Merced, 71 year old

Date someone special from California, United States. I don't have a clue what people think about me! I know I have a lot of friends. Some of which I feel closer to then others! People are always telling me to call them! I really enjoy getting phone calls but I'm not very good at making calls myself! No real reason other then there's only 24 hours in a day and after getting a few calls, and living life it seems like there's no time! I would like to find someone who is active and isn't an on going couch potato. I've been married twice and out lived them both! I've never really known what it's like to be single so to speak. Got married fresh out of high school and had 4 babies one after another. A real live bare foot and pregnant situation. We finally figured out what was causing it so babies came to a quick halt! That marriage lasted 18 years and ended in divorce. I married to number two a year later and we were together 33 years until his passing away 7/2010. He was ill many years and was 17 years my senior. My self and my daughters took care of him till the end. I will always miss him but am ready for the last chapter of my life, and thought I would see what dating would be like as a senior. I'm definately not looking for some one to take care of, or to take care of me. Just someone male to go some places with or out to eat maybe. I don't know for sure myself!