Date women from United States / California / Healdsburg, 31 year old

Date someone special from Healdsburg, United States. Disclaimer: The following text is subject to change. Also, while I am currently located in Northern California, I have joined this site in an attempt to meet people in the Seattle area, as I am attempting to move there in the near future.
First, about me. I'm goofy and nerdy and I don't bother hiding it. I'm also often funny and ridiculous. I love good beer, volleyball, my family, and video games. I also love my job and I am damn good at it. I'm tall and sometimes very clumsy. Right now I am really into going places and doing things alone, you meet a lot of new people that way! I play bass, I kayak, I speak some Japanese, and I do my own manicures. I live in jeans but I love dressing up and going out, and yes I WILL wear the heels, why? Because I can, dammit. I've seen some of the world but not enough, I don't think I will ever see enough of it. I am eternally grateful for my awesome life. I have my own philosophy on life, people, and the world, but I'll tell you about it when the time comes. I adore the rain, the west coast, things what are British in nature, Japan, my bed, David Bowie, and any dish made from potatoes. I am affectionate, I love kissing, touching, and being close, but I also really enjoy my space, if you understand. Sometimes I am firey and passionate, because I am a redhead, or so I'm told. Some people don't buy into astrology, and I don't really know if I do either, but I'm a Gemini and I really do seem to be... I am very much a responsible woman who takes care of business, knows the system, and can be political and diplomatic. But my other half is this silly little girl who is afraid of spiders, likes to play, and blushes easily!
Ok now for you. You are self-sufficient and intelligent. It would be awesome if you were some sort of engineer, I think that's super hot. You are confident but not cocky (this is really important). The first sign of you being full of yourself and I'm out. That doesn't mean that you don't know that you are hot or that you don't know when to take charge. You like to go out, show me off on your arm, take me to new places, teach me what you know. You have the wit needed to keep up with me. You know the good places to go dancing, to go for a bite, to get the good coffee, to have a great drink, to meet new people. You might be intimidated by my height but you won't show it or let it stop you. You have a solid job (Yup, said the "J" word) because you are independent and responsible. Also, being a nerd about something is awesome. You have sensible taste in most things but aren't ashamed of your guilty pleasures. You aren't afraid to get your hands dirty, nor are you afraid of awkwardness. I don't need you to take care of me, but I also don't need you to need me to take care of you. You like to go out with your friends without me sometimes, and you don't mind when I do the same.