Date women from United States / California / Bixby Knolls, 31 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am new to this site, but thought it would be useful for finding remote friends. A bit about me, Im very down to earth...and openminded, willing to try new and exciting things. Im that girl that will open Pandora's box. :o)
Im looking for a mate that is just exciting..but not too over the top wild; one that can match my energetic personality. Im all about having fun, and not getting too serious.
I really dont like to put exactly what Im looking for in a mate on here, because I feel like then a person could mold themselves to my description and I end up meeting their representative and month later, end up meeting the real them and turned off completely.
So, friendship is the first step. I feel with that first, atleast we can build a foundation and build from there.