Date women from United States / Arizona / Cave Creek, 34 year old

Date a soulmate from Arizona, United States. I moved to Arizona in 1996 from Southern California to go to ASU. I have 2 boys who both play hockey. Needless to say I'm a huge hockey fan. In my free time I enjoy painting, cooking, going for hikes around the valley or up north. I am a very active person, so sitting in a movie theater isn't really my thing. I love to play tennis, 1 on 1 volleyball or play catch, etc. My sense of humor is pretty sarcastic so a guy who understands that is a plus. I like to explore antique shops or visit hole in the wall eateries. I'm looking for a man who can relax and have fun, but then also is able to get serious when needed (and also go out for a nice evening once in a while). Someone who doesn't have a problem getting his hands dirty or helping out in the kitchen. I have not traveled much just yet, but I do have a list of places that I plan on visiting. So a man who enjoys traveling would be ideal. In case it was not previously inferred, he must have a passion for sports and if he does not like hockey, well....he better learn ;-) Honestly though I am just looking for a good hearted guy who likes to learn about new things, explore new places and challenge me on many different levels.
Update: Not that it should matter, but apparently it does, my boys are 14 and 9. They are not babies and do not require the work that little ones do.

Meet a woman from Arizona, United States. Are you FULL of life and ready for your next adventure? So cliche... but keep reading, I promise it gets better!
Are you at a point in your life to make a true connection with someone who wants a REAL relationship and doesnРІР‚в„ўt PLAY games? Then keep reading...
Widow? YES, I am. So I shall be upfront about it. I was truly blessed to find my 1st love and best friend but God had other plans. We ALL have a past and I have dealt with mine. Just like you IРІР‚в„ўm looking for the right connection or we wouldnРІР‚в„ўt be on this dating website. I am looking for someone who truly cherishes life and lives it! IРІР‚в„ўm not in a rush to settle down but at the same time IРІР‚в„ўm looking forward to this next chapter in my life! I have some high standards, so in an effort not to waste each otherРІР‚в„ўs time I did my best to describe what I value most in a relationship.
FAMILY:
Is family important to you? I was raised in a military family with strong moral and family values. My family and extended family means everything to me but so are my relationships when I make the right connection. I’m a people person with a lot of amazing and diverse friends… including some VERY close male friends. When I’m committed in a relationship I’m loyal and can’t stand it when assumptions are made so if you are the jealous, overly possessive type or have TRUST issues you might want to steer clear from this gal.
EDUCATION:
Are you goal oriented, driven and value education? I’m the queen of goals (setting and meeting them) and very determined once I have my mindset. I have multiple degrees and consider myself a lifelong learner. I completed both of my degrees at the University of Oklahoma and YES I’m a diehard Sooner fan and watch all of the games. I can also cut loose, relax and have a good time! I do have a mellow side and am seeking this in a relationship. Life it too short for stress and drama! I’m a lover…not a fighter but can be opinionated and enjoy a great debate. I’m NOT seeking someone who agrees with me on everything, “boring,” since I enjoy new ideas and concepts so I want someone who has opinions (an open mind) but is respectful to those opinions not his own.
PETS:
Are you a dog person? I love animals and share my home with two rescues and on many levels I think they rescued me! : ) They are loving and a little crazy. Now they DO have TRUST issues… but given time and of course a few yummy treats they will warm-up and then demand your attention ALL of the time.
ACTIVITIES:
Game for almost anything… in fact for my birthday I will be skydiving with a group of friends for the first time! I enjoy swimming, walking my dogs, board games, hiking, painting, traveling, dancing, cooking (I’ve got some skills in the kitchen and prefer organic foods), target shooting (not a hunter) or just hanging out at home enjoying a nice glass of wine with a great home cooked meal!
LIFE in GENERAL:
I moved to AZ 5 years ago and love it so I don’t plan on moving anytime soon. I’m ready to establish some roots in this great state. GIVING back is a big part of my life and I spend a lot of time with adolescents… YES those crazy hormonal teens that need great role models! I’m settled, happy, love my job, my new home and ready to start this next chapter in my life but haven't found Mr. Right. If you answered my questions correctly and like what you see then take the chance… maybe it shall be.
Winks are sweet but if youРІР‚в„ўre truly interested and want me to view your profile drop me a line.