Date men from United States / Alabama / Pelham, 51 year old

Date someone special from Pelham, United States. My friends would say I am thoughtful and considerate in a relationship. My coworkers would say I am reliable and dependable. I have been told that I have a good sense of humor. I love to make someone laugh. By nature I am willing to compromise. If someone says "this is the way its going to be", then I'll confront them. However, if they say "what do you think?", then I will ask that same question back.
I am somone who prefers a few close friends rather than a "bunch of partying friends". Everyone wants some independence and their own space and I am no exception. With that said, I would like my partner to be my friend and ideally my best friend.
Going out for dinner and drinks is always fun, but I also enjoy staying at home and relaxing with someone special.
I have kept a newspaper clipping that was reviewing a book about finding true love and it listed 8 items that should be met if a relationship is to lead to true love. " They are mutual respect, honesty and trust, a balance of dependence and independence, physical attraction and sexual compatibility, shared goals, a cooperative approach to solving problems, a shared life and realistic expectations."
I am not looking for Ms. perfect because I am not either. But as the counselor said in the movie "GOOD WILL HUNTING" the question is'nt whether you two are perfect, but whether or not you're perfect for each other!

Meet a soulmate from Pelham, United States. I'm a kind hearted guy who is still friends with every woman I've ever dated, so I must not be a complete jerk. My friends think I'm both loyal and generous to a fault. I have a good IT-related job, but get the most enjoyment from playing sax in my band or taking my dog for a walk. Work isn't my central focus at this stage of my life.
I'd much rather be spending my energy enjoying the little things in life with someone that matters to me.
I wasted a lot of time pursuing relationships that were never going to work, and now I'm just looking for a woman who is interested in spending some drama free time together and who can be friends as well. I can't imagine a significant other who is not also my best friend.
In fact, if all I end with from here are some new friends then that's fine too.
I love animals (specifically dogs) and I don't really get people who have no affinity for them. How you treat an animal says alot about how you would treat people if nobody was watching.
I could go to the movies every day, if time allowed. Love most any kind of film, and I can even enjoy a really bad one if I'm feeling goofy enough. Grew up watching way too much TV, and love Justified, House, NCIS, Game Of Thrones and any well written dramas. Could also watch Seinfeld on a continuous loop. I also really love to cook, but don't enjoy cooking for one that much.
I love music (listening to it and playing it) and enjoy catching live bands whenever possible. I can appreciate most any style except rap.
Due to past experiences, honesty is probably number one on my list of desired traits these days. If you think an undiscovered lie is the same as telling the truth, then we're not compatible.

Date single man from Pelham, United States. I enjoy the simple things in life. I enjoy being with family and going to the lake. I enjoy spending time with my son. We go to the pool and park. I coached little league football for eight years. Looking for someone who enjoys life to the fullest . Looking for someone ready for a serious relationship. NO GAMES!

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