Date men from United States / Alabama / Killen, 51 year old

Date single man from United States. Update(I am in the process of moving to Nashville, TN. Hopefully it will all be over soon!) I've always enjoyed meeting people and making friends but it would be nice to find that "permanent partner". Been sick and tired of the dating scene for a long time now. I guess one reason being, I live in a small community where there is nothing to do and very few places to meet others.
Even though I live in the south, I'm very open minded and not prejudice at all. I love to work hard and play hard also, as longs as there's laughter in both places. I also like to relax, relaxing to me means-kicking back-not taking control. I don't want to control others and don't want to be controlled. I know what the word compromise means.
There's nothing more pleasing than being able to put a smile on another persons face...that is total satisfaction.
I don't believe in "labels". To me, if you think that because of a certain color, political party or denomination that it makes you better than anyone else...well...lets just say we disagree.
Here are some things that are not only important in my life but it is "who" I am and how I'm built....honest, loving, caring, passionate, laughter, compromise and communication and a pack of M&M's.
I have know family where I live so the idea of moving is not out of the question. In fact, its down right appealing.
There has to be friendship first. It would be nice to find a friend/ companion/ lover/ spouse...someone to call my everything but if we become "just friends" that's fine...its one of the greatest pleasures of life.
My ideal match. hahaha As far as age goes I would say between the ages of 39 and 59. The only time that numbers matter is in the Powerball drawing!
I'm not one who likes a certain color of hair or a certain weight and surely not a certain size bra! Its about the chemistry! Personalities! What's between the ears? Can you hold a conversation? Are you a "real" person? I've had the gold digger and the addict so all of those who fit that criteria...take your mouse and click to the next profile!
If you have kids...that's great because I don't have any. If you don't, that's fine to. Good luck to everyone who's searching for that special someone. Jon