Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. I am typically a happy go-lucky person. I like to go out, or stay at home. I like casual relationships with friends/neighbors, but would love a companion to share things with. I like to travel, but do quite a bit of that with my job. Work free travel is nice. My children are a very important part of my life. I have been divorced since 2004 and have learned to enjoy being by myself. There is life out there, and it is what you make of it. Life is a blessing, each and every day of it. I would really just like someone to sit back and enjoy it with. They will bring theirs and I will bring mine, and the joining of the two can be a great thing. It just offers that much more in the end. There is no reason for competition or challenge as two become one, but teamwork. I have called the shots for a long time, and would love to be able to simply "go with the flow". It might take a little getting used to, but would be a welcome change. I never mind making a decision, but would love the opportunity to simply follow the lead. Sharing is much more important than controlling, trusting is much better than doubting, and loving is way better than being alone. Time has passed, and the time has come to open myself again to a life out there. Would you like to join me in this adventure of the future? I really want to find someone that would like to grow old together with me. We can be simple, and have an exciting life, all at the same time. We together can do anything!