Date men and women from United States / Alabama / Fairhope, 39 year old

Date people from Fairhope, United States. I would consider myself to be a pretty simple person who does not need a lot to make me happy. I love to laugh but I have a pretty dry sense of humor. I like to spend time outdoors whether playing golf or just watching a game of some kind. I like music and really like the blues. There is something about what the blues stand for that connects with me.
I love the outdoors and like spending time doing outdoor activities. There is something about sunlight that cleanses the soul. I love the water which I guess is part of the reason I have settled in this area. I love the still waters of the bay as well as the waves of the gulf.
I am looking someone who is fun loving and enjoys life. I love confident people who are willing to take charge and make things happen. I also am looking for someone who is kind and caring who can solve problems not create them. I am not looking for someone who is into drama and games. Life is too short for that.
I have two little boys who are the light of my life. I love spending time with them and watching them play sports. I spend a good bit of time being a dad and that takes much of my time so I do have limited time for dating but I look to enjoy the time I have when available.
I am a very honest, loyal and caring and am looking for the same.

Meet a man from Fairhope, United States. I'm 39 but I behave a lot younger. Work hard, but looking for a reason to kick back and relax. I've traveled all over Europe and a large part of the USA but somehow managed to land in Alabama. And I love it here.
I don't exactly know what I'm looking for, I really have the "let's see what happens" approach here. But I'm definitely looking for a woman, one who is nice, smart, likes to have fun, has a sense of humor, anyway, you get the idea.

Date a soulmate from Fairhope, United States. am a person who is positive about every aspect of life. There are many things I like to do, to see, and to experience. I like to read, I like to write; I like to think, I like to dream; I like to talk, I like to listen. I like to see the sunrise in the morning, I like to see the moonlight at night; I like to feel the music flowing on my face, I like to smell the wind coming from the ocean. I like to look at the clouds in the sky with a blank mind, I like to do thought experiment when I cannot sleep in the middle of the night. I like flowers in spring, rain in summer, winter, I like to get up late; I like to be alone, I like to be surrounded by people. I like country’s peace, I like metropolis’ noise; I like the beautiful west lake in Hangzhou, I like the flat cornfield in Champaign. I like delicious food and comfortable shoes; I like good books and romantic movies. I like the land and the nature, I like people. And, I like to laugh.

Meet someone special from Fairhope, United States. I’d much rather listen than talk about myself but here goes my info-mercial…
I'm a young professional that enjoys life and tries to balance work and play. I believe in work hard/play hard. I love to laugh, it is truly the best medicine. I cut up with my friends constantly and sometimes we don't act our age but who cares, you only live once. My spare time is spent doing fun things with my friends and loved ones, although sometimes it is like herding cats. I’ll do just about anything once so I have a lot of good stories (and my friends could probably tell you some I don’t remember :-) I really enjoy traveling, especially new places. This past summer I visited England, Wales, France and Ireland. I really loved Ireland, the countryside was gorgeous and the people were great. I would also like to go out west to see some of the great American treasures like Alaska, the Grand Canyon and Yosemite. I'm a social chameleon, I am equally at home in a biker bar, MENSA meeting or wine tasting.
I am looking for an attractive, interesting woman who is at a similar place in her life, enjoys being adventurous and can bring something fresh to the scene. And most of all, drama-free! I like for a woman to be affectionate and enjoy one-on-one time as well as hanging out with friends. Ideally we would share some common interests but I think its healthy for you to have your own interests also. Once I feel close to someone I will trust them and expect the same in return. I have a little rugged invidualism aspect to my personality so I need my space every now and then to recharge. Thats probably why I love riding motorcycles.
I know this is short, but if you want to know more about me just ask, I'll tell you...

Date men and women from Fairhope, United States. I have meet some good friends on here but I am amazed at some of the things I read and run into. So here is a little comic relief, the "You might be full of it of dating"
-If you say you love the beach but when we get there all you do is complain its too hot and you don't like the feel of salt water on your skin...
-If you have been married 3 times and have 4 kids by 5 different men...
-If you complain men are only after one thing but the on our first date we end up at a dive you chose and all the men there know you....
-If you say your ex is a butt and our first date ends us up at a place he frequents and as he is trying to duck out the back door you corner him to introduce us and the first thing he does is gives me a high five and says "good luck brother!"...
-Secret shopper and clipping coupons is fun and cool but if you think it makes you an entrepreneurial genius...
-You blame all of your kids behavioral problems on your ex but then turn around and tell me he only sees them once or twice a year...
-You say your not a gold digger but the house you live in was a perk of the divorce and your car and all your furniture was purchased by ex boyfriends...
-You claim you never introduce your kids after only one date but the first time they meet me they call me "flavor". Flavor of the week...
-You say you have a great sense of humor but have made it this far and think I'm a jerk...
Ok, if you have made it this far you probably have a funny bone :) For the rest of the story here is the short version
I am divorced with kids. If you expect anything else from a decent guy in his late 30's good luck.
I work hard but love to have fun and most weekends you can find me at the beach ,on the river, or on the boat with my kids and their friends.
I love most any type of music, any type of food (except tofu), and never meet a stranger no mater where I go.
I don't judge people and don't like to be judged, life is too short to waste time pointing our other peoples problems.
I have been all over the world and am looking for a friend who is open to enjoying life.
I'm not looking for a "hook up" it's a waste of time. So if you would like to talk, check out a movie, dinner, fishing , boating, live music, or anything else that is fun lets go! If it turns out we are right for each other, sweet, if not it's still good to make a new friend and talk.
Ok, here is the serious side. I have a patent on a product that I have successfully created, manufactured and marketed.
My definition of an Entrepreneur. A person who is willing to walk a tight rope made of barbed wire bare foot over a 10,000 foot gully with 10 people on his back that want to go along for the ride.
I am not a workaholic. I just have a lot of people who depend on me. So if you can't understand this don't think I am going to take you seriously.
I am looking for a woman who is easy going but responsible and driven, someone who knows how to not sweat the small stuff, someone with a good sense of humor, someone who is comfortable dressed up or in jeans and a t-shirt, someone who when upset does not turn her anger toward the ones who are supposed to be there to comfort her.
If any of this sounds good to you I would love to hear from you.

Meet single man from Fairhope, United States. Just here to see what come up. Not much to say for myself. Easy to get along with. Have seen alot of the world, not alot to see out there that is not here in the States. I do not like big crowds, like small settings.

Date people from United States. I am looking for someone that can be friends first and foremost. He must be loyal and caring. He must be adventurous and be willing to try new things. I want someone that loves the beach, loves to fish, and likes all kinds of outdoor activities. He must be independent and wants to spoil me even though I am very independent.

Meet men and women from United States. One week I am "mommy"and the next week single girl trying to find my way. My two sons are 11 and 12. Their dad and I parent them jointly. I was married for 10 years and have been divorced for 6.. I am usually outside working in the yard and inside reading books. I like the look of men in jeans, ts, and boots or flip flops. I am pretty simple girl, who usually finds life far more complicated than it needs to be.
What kind of person am I looking for? The honest answer is I don't know. I have not had a lot of luck in that department, hence here I am.
I want someone I find attractive and can make me laugh. I don't think I want to get married again. I am not sure I want to live with a man again. I want someone to flirt and be silly with. Maybe talk, maybe just look at. LOL... And YES, even though this could get me in trouble on here (with lots of unwelcome offers) have GREAT sex. Don't think I am offering it up to just anyone! I am NOT! But it is an important part of what I want. I want a commited (ie I am the ONLY one having sex with you) boyfriend.
I want an honest, loyal, silly, sexy man. Just one.
Finding single people has proven more difficult than I would have thought. I am not into the bar scene. I am an introvert and don't know how to meet new people comfortably.
I am not very good at this.... probably have to work on it some more. I do not like to have to get to know someone to know if I want to get to know them. But I have not found a way around it. I love spending time and getting to know "better" the people in my life. I just don't like having to find new people (person) that I want to do that with. UGH! wana help? let me know

Date a woman from United States. I love to be the center of the crowd. I am a compassionate smart ass who loves to make people smile. I am looking for my soul mate who blurs the lines between friends and lovers. I like to stay out late, and I like going to bed early. I love men and miss being in a relationship but I have not met the right guy on the right day. I don't like cheaters!!!! My ideal match will be upfront about his past and positive about his future.

Meet a soulmate from United States. Someone that is funny, easy going and laid back. Cannot deal with drama or tempers. Someone as hard working as I am that like to travel and expierence new oppurtunities. Loves to spend time with family and friends.