Date men and women from United States / Alabama / Dothan, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. About me: Hmm. Just retired from the military and moved to Dothan for my job. I'll be moving again soon, for the airlines.
I have 2 boys - 11 and 16 and love being a dad, for the most part. I keed, I keed! My older son lives with me but recently went to his mothers for this transition. My other son lives with his mother. They are my boys and I love them.
I'm Down to earth but enjoy getting all classy-like when appropriate. T-shirt and jeans using a sledge hammer while you watch through the window sipping a glass of wine ;-) Then coming in, getting dressed up for a drive into the city to a quiet dinner followed by a jazz club and a bit of dancing. THEN..., pass out on the way home (you know, the sledge hammer from earlier). Obviously just kidding but you get my point: I don't like falling into only one category all the time (unless that category in your eye's is 'sexy', or even 'idiot' -- but only if you roll your eyes when you say the 'idiot' option). It's important to be diverse.
I want to sweep a girl off her feet. I'm not throwing that out there as some 'line' (I hate that, though some are funny) but I've always been that way since I can remember. If you meet someone and start falling in love you have to 'need them' as if you can't stand it. Sure we're all grown up now but those 'butterflies' need to be there in full effect. Hopeless romantic - absolutely.
I would like a woman who can take care of herself - having said that I will still open her door, send her flowers at work, and write her a love letter. I will always value those things.
I enjoy doing projects around the house (a real handyman ya see - mmmerrrr!). I guess you'd say that one of my favorite things is to laugh, and make people laugh but am plenty serious at other times. My first passion in activities was cycling, then I went on to motorcycles - riding and racing. But now, I'm considering cycling again, just not as much as before and not as 'skinny'.
I also like drawing and painting when time permits. I can't leave out another passion in my life: flying.
Music: LOVE it. Hey, what do you expect? I'm originally from Detroit!
I'm looking for someone who's got her feet planted on the ground but can be classy when necessary. Goals? I've got them, and so should she.
It's important to be a good friend.
Affectionate - a must. All aspects apply: couch, rainy day, just got home and 'need' to hug, etc. And is it so wrong to want to kiss? A lot?? A little touch as you walk by each other in the house or at the store goes a long way.
Bad girl - um, sure ;-) It's good to have a bit of the wild side in you so long as that slice of the pie isn't the 'Fat Albert' piece.
I would like someone I can share conversation with that is deeper than some of the shallow subjects we see everyday. If you get that then you probably feel the same way and know exactly what I mean.
I like balance and have concluded that staying at home, chilling, enjoying your lady, cooking, mowing the lawn, having a good dinner, and talking are just as important as having a drink, getting all gussied up, DANCING, music, and kissing like you're a teen-ager. Chill at home - and go out for some fun. BOTH is great, too much of either isn't.

Meet people from Alabama, United States. i am a shy guy at first but once youget to know me i loosen up i like to play and have fun i like to be sweet and want someone who is sweet im loyal and like to flirt but need a lot of attention hoping for something long term

Date men and women from Alabama, United States. I'm a divorced dad of 3 girls. I enjoy the outdoors. I like most types of music. I'm from N.Y. But I have been in the south for about 20 years. I want to get to know a good woman that has her priorities in order. I'm not perfect but I try to do good and be a friend to all I meet. I don't hang out at the bars.

Meet single man from Alabama, United States. Well im just your average hard working All American guy,looking to meet someone that is sensual, spritiual,open minded, someone who loves life and is down to earth. Im an honest, nice looking guy, down to heart,spontaeous,DRAMA FREE,yet knows have to have a good time. Im 6'2 220ilbs stocky to average build.I love meeting people and hanging out, Im still searching for that one person to captivate my inner soul and hopefully wisk me away:). I love cooking, outdoors,golf,hunting,the simple things in life. Ive done the club thing, seen it all, same stuff ,never changes ,no not really a club or bar guy. I am a person that will always be upfront and honest with you.Honesty and faithfullness is important to me.

Date a man from Alabama, United States. My true friends and brothers would say that i am a very kind, outgoing and level headed person. I have always valued my friendships. Because I believe that true friends have to be earned. I will always be truly greatful for my children my friends and my succes in life. I love to laugh and have a good time! I don't do drama at all. A few things that I would like to have in a relationship are honesty, equality and a woman who believes in herslef. Everything else should come with time in my opinion.

Meet someone special from Alabama, United States. i am a funny guy that likes to have fun i own my own company i am grateful for my 17 year old son i have been married for 21 years and i like to make woman happy i am looking for some one who likes to go to baseball games and alabama football games

Date a soulmate from United States. I am looking for a woman to share life's fun and exciting times with. Nothing too serious up front, but with time comes opportunity for the both of us. People sometimes rush to quickly into a serious relationship, why not just have fun and se where that takes us?

Meet people from United States. i'm the guy ....but not over the top in himself. i'm the family man, the priest of household , the friend, the social man the spiritual leader and the provider.. but wants to be treated as a king.i want happiness .. i want trust, loyal, love , friendship and longivity in relationship that is deep rooted in God, love, communication, enrichment of family and the values that builds stable unity

Date men and women from United States. Is there ever really a way to describe yourself that lets people know what they are truly getting? You never add the bad things... only the things you think others wanna hear. I "think" I am hard working, even-tempered, funny, quick-witted, and decently balanced(Mentally). But the trait I have learned others see the most is optimism... but honestly I don't think I am an optimist, just someone who understands perspective and the power it has over the person looking through it at any given time. Life is what you make of it, not what is dealt to you.
I am a very outgoing and fun person to be around. I am always making people laugh. I usually wear a smile on my face, or its not hard to bring out. I am 38, so my taste in things have changed over the years... I look at the news and more informative stuff... ok dancing with the stars too! lol but I am gravitated towards the more intellectual stuff. But I still love to listen to my hip hop and R&B !!! lol I stay listening to hot97 on-line(Thats the home of hip-hop... NY baby!). I love my football... Oakland Raiders fan since 81' and I am a new found Auburn Tiger fan! Before they won the National Championship though, so I didn't just jump on the band wagon. They just knew what they had to do... now that they had me as a fan! lol
I would love to find a woman that is faithful, smart, secure(financially and mentally), independent, and a philanthropist. But I will settle for someone with a strong mind and body that enjoys life and all the other stuff we have no control over. Oh! if you play video games... your stock triples :) I don't judge intelligence by how many degrees you have, but you have to be a woman with common sense and intelligence.
Oh! I just noticed on the news that there are predators in the house... I am not one of them! :) I am definitely the guy you can take home to meet mom and dad/ the kids... as long as they don't mind dreads :) Even if they don't like them, if they are open-minded they should be cool with me!

Meet single man from United States. i think that the key to a relationship is 1 thing and that is communication,to me you have to have that weather you are woman/woman;man/man;man/women in a friendship or a relationship;or just a friend with benifits relationship just what the friendship maybe i truely dont think it ever gets to it's full potential if you dont have communication. I hate playing what i call the (wheel of fortune of life) with people and what i mean is dont you hate it when people try to let you fill in the blanks when there telling you something, thats when i always get the deer in the headlight look [when i ask them if i can buy a VOWEL

Date a man from United States. 6'0",#185. I've never had any trouble getting pretty ladies, but wouldn't mind meeting new friends. If you wet your pants from laughing don't blame me(it has happened before). I love to joke all the time. I take myself seriously but not too seriously. I love trying different things just haven't had the opportunity lately. I'm very easy going and you can't hardly suprise or shock me. I'm from the country, but not redneck. Intelligence is important to me. All the beauty in the world with no brains is useless. I'm not looking for a hunting buddy. I'd rather have a lady that looks nice but wouldn't mind outdoor things from time to time. I like having "debates" on almost any topic, and can take either side. I like lying in bed in dim light, having deep discussions on whatever comes to mind. I have been told i have A.D.D., but I don't believe that. P.S. Being a blonde is not an excuse to act dumb, any more than being a redhead is a reason to be a bitch. No offense. : )

Meet someone special from United States. WELL IM A VERY OUT GOING PERSON ONCE I OPEN UP. I AM A LITTLE SHY AT FIRST BUT AFTER THE DATE I AM MORE COMFORTABLE. I AM LOOKING FOR A GIRL THAT IS NOT SHY (Hee Hee), AND IS VERY OUT GOING. IT WOULD BE NICE IS SHE LIKES CARS, BIKES, AND NICE SKY VIEWS. MAYBE INTO SKY DIVING AND ALSO LIKES DANCING ONCE IN A WHILE. JUST HAVE A REAL GREAT TIME WITH EACH OTHER. I DON'T LIKE PEOPLE WHO JUDGE OTHER PEOPLE BY JUST LOOKING AT THEM. WHAT IS IN A PERSONS HEART IS MORE IMPORTANT BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT MAKES A LADY REALLY BEAUTIFUL. ;