Date a woman from Eclectic, United States. Im looking for a professional man who appreciates a woman with a "southern" upbringing. A man who is willing to defend my honor and place me on a pedastal. you always get back what you give:) The most important characteristic of a man is his intelligence. I find this VERY ATTRACTIVE!!! I prefer someone in the medical field, as I am, because the conversation is absolutely stimulating! I find myself attracted to men that make me laugh.....even by saying some of the silliest things. My friends would describe me as a "push-over" because i always go for the underdog. I was told when I started in the operating room (if you dont know, OR nurses are KNOWN for their "personalities") that I was too nice and I wouldn"t last a year. Ive been there for over 6 now and LOVE that i proved them all wrong. I have a soft heart that most of the time is misunderstood for weakness.....but i stand behind it, just the same:)