Date women from United States / California / Temecula, 34 year old

Date a woman from United States. Single mom looking for fun and love without worry. Ultimately looking for her best friend to take care of each other. My kids are 13 and 9 so Young but now old enough to be independent with out me. I find myself alone or by myself when they are busy. So time to branch out and see who can enjoy it with me. I am a homebody, love to read, watch a movie or tv, go to a park to relax. I am a lean cut professional type, I'm not a materialistic girl, things don't matter to me as long as the basics are covered. However I do want to be spoiled with attention and surprises. Well ok and getaways are super fun too.
I am looking for a white or mexican clean cut tatted man between 35-50 who is stable and makes good decisions for us, good sense of humor, fit, has a positive out look, honest, faithfull, loves to cuddle, public effection and knows how to spoil thier women with love. I want a man to kiss me like they mean it.
Truly looking for something serious if your not please move on. Please be within 15 miles of Temecula.
FYI
my kids are of mixed race so if that bothers you your not for me

Meet someone special from United States. I was born and raised a Colorado ski-town girl, but have lived all over the US and spent lots of time abroad. I have lived in Hawaii, Virginia, and now California (I also attended undergraduate school here in Cali). I have backpacked through Europe for 3 months by myself (I am still telling stories from my adventure) and spent a semester abroud in Austria. I have also spent time in Mexico. Traveling is a passion for me and I am always dreaming about my next trip, even if that is a day trip in the car to a new local spot I haven't explored!
I love the sunshine and beautiful climate and beaches that Cali has to offer, but I am a mountain girl at heart and love to get my feet in a pair of skiis whenever I can!
My friends say that I am loyal, funny, kind, laid-back, happy, and grounded. I can be super "girlie" and love getting dolled up and going somewhere fancy, but I also love to pack up the tent and camping for a couple days in the dirt or sand. I am not afraid to get dirty and love to be outside as much as possible. I like to be productive and active, but that doesn't mean I cannot spend a lazy Sunday on the couch watching golf or football (those are my sports, but if you are a basketball or NASCAR fan, I am sure we can find some compromise). I like to think I have found that balance in my life. I love to bake (I make killer cupcakes) and am learning how to cook without setting off a fire alarm. I am always looking for new food/restaurants/farmers markets, adventure, fashion, kitchen gadgets, antiques and more...
I do have a five and a half year old daughter who is the best, most easy-going kid I know. She is so good and sweet and pure...I love seeing the world through her eyes. She is definitely not "baggage", but rather the icing on the cake in my life ;-)
I know exactly who I am and what I want in a partner...
Seriously and most importantly, mutual respect and admiration for each other. Having independant interests and activities, but knowing at the end of the day that the idea that being together is the best part and giving each other the encouragement to dream big and live bigger!
I am looking for someone who stands up for their own self and who can also stand up for me when I need it. I want to be with someone who is independent, educated, funny (witty, not who has read 100 knock knock jokes) and adventurous, but who can also come home, turn on a stupid movie and just enjoy each other's company.
If you are someone who wants to take a leap of faith and see where it gets us, I would love to chat!