Date women from United States / California / Ridgecrest, 34 year old

Date someone special from Ridgecrest, United States. I am a loving mother of three who has a new outlook on life after a surprise divorce. I am looking forward to meeting new people and experiencing new things. I always tell my kids that they should learn something new everyday and I live my life that way too. The constants in my life are God, family, and friends (I value them highly). With my custody arrangements and commitments relocation is not an option so I am not pursuing any relationships that would require that. I am painfully honest and I don't have time to mess around with playing games. I am looking for someone who feels that way too. My kids are the main focus in my life right now but I do like to have fun without them too. I have been exposed to many types of music, movies, literature, and sports in my life so I do have a large range that I enjoy. I'm not ashamed to say that I've been known to watch Pride & Prejudice and True Grit on the same day. I know how to swing a hammer and an ax but I do prefer to leave that for someone else to do. I am a strong woman physically and emotionally but I would like a man who could handle my strength but isn't afraid to take charge every once and awhile. I guess I'm just a bundle of contradictions but that's just me and that's who I'll always be.