Date men and women from United States / California / Redlands, 35 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I'm cute, I'm nice, and interested in finding someone with a job and a sense of humor, isn't too mean and has half a brain. That's not too much to ask for, right? I'm scared to put a picture until I figure it out but I'm not hideous or severely disfigured. just camera shy! maybe i will update it later. right now i am just browsing to see if you are nice. let me know if you are.