Date men and women from United States / California / Costa Mesa, 35 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Let me clarify something, I am actually 39, most people say I look 32 so I decided to use 35. If that is a problem for you, oh well, I guess I will not hear from you. I decided to change my age online because I was receiving lots of messages from guys much older than me ( I am adding a new dimension to match's search engine). Honesty is a must, that is why I am being upfront about it right away.
I am a warm, affectionate girl, I am Brazilian, and we tend to be that way. My family and my son are extremely important to me and anyone that would make part of my life in a meaningful way would have to understand that. I am sensitive and honest on a Latin spicy package. I enjoy the simple and the fine things in life. More interested in experiences than stuff. A romantic for sure, flowers and a card, just because....
It has been over 3 years that I am no longer married but still good friends with my ex. and I have not actually finalized my divorce. My ex is a great Dad, very involved and has my son 50% of the time.
Strong moral values but a firm believer that rules are made to be broken, occasionally! I will try almost anything once. I am very spontaneous, easy going; hopefully you will be able to find that out! I love to dance!
My photos are recent, quite a few taken this month.
I am not a heavy drinker, do not smoke or do drugs and expect the same of my partner.. Let's go to High Tea instead.
Yes, I am a party girl who loves to entertain and dance but I am on a different phase now. I am looking forward to when we can just relax and cuddle at the couch eating popcorn while watching a romantic movie (OK, I will watch you action movie too)... FYI: We will have to have a few amazing dates before we can get to this stage.
Seeking more balance in my life, which would include.......I will let you know if we decide to communicate! Take care and make this day count as a special one!
I will give you an important hint, if you want to possibly hear from me, write me an email (does not have to be a two page letter). I often do not have the time to look at winks or interests with no email.
We are busy people, I do not want to waste your time: profiles that do not fit my age and distance requirements are sent to my filtered box and will probably never be read since my time is limited. I appreciate your interest if that is the case with you but we are probably not a match.