Date men and women from United States / California / Del Mar, 35 year old

Date men and women from United States. I know my strengths and weaknesses and am comfortable with them. I have a big heart which is mistaken for being naive often times. I want my man to recognize the difference between the two and admire me for being me. I'm very caring. I do border with smothering my loved ones! My religion is my conscious.I have a strong instinct to help those in need. I am looking for an honest and loving man who respects me for who I am. Having a positive attitude is a must. I admire those who always find something good in everything. I have a lot to give and a big empty space in my heart that needs to be filled. I am a very self sufficient woman. I don't need a man to help me out in my life, rather a man that fuels me with love so that I can do everything I do with more enthusiasm. I changed my own flat tire in the parking lot of my college when I was 18 and everyone was staring at me. But that doesn't mean I don't like to be treated like a lady. I have a soft spot for little manly gestures. As for activities, who doesn't love the ocean and water activities? I love dancing and concerts of any sort. I do not like to play games. I never did, not even when I was 18, let alone now. If I miss you, I'll call you. I'm not into waiting to see who calls first or who texts more. But if I do initiate, it does not mean that I do not have self respect and I'm way too excited. It's just who I am. I don't believe in holding back feelings. You can't tell what a perfume smells like unless you open the cap. I'm a tom boy during the weekdays, mostly in jeans, but I could dress up as if I'm going to the Oscars and turn heads or I could do somewhere in between for a Saturday night. Ask me any questions you have and I'lll give you the honest answer.