Date men and women from United States / Arizona / Tucson, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from Tucson, United States. I truly revel in this life and try to make the most out of every single day. I absolutely love to travel and explore everything, if there is excitement or adventure in it, I am probably down to check it out!
I have two amazing kids that are absolutely the greatest joy of my life. I have a good career and a new "side gig" that is looking very promising! I look at life as an amazing challenge, but I always take time to notice the beauty of even the most simple things, and think about how they tie into me/us. I want to meet a great lady that thinks along those lines as well, and definitely is a hater of the "D" word, as in "drama". Especially comfortable around people that are laid back and happy, and I want someone who focuses on being happy as well. Life is just too damn short for that stuff! I am a believer in the secret and you get what you put out as far as far as energy....it makes sense, and damn if it isn't true! Conversation can be about anything...I love to hear different viewpoints, it makes it fun.
I would love to meet someone attractive, funny, sexy, interesting, and with a spirit of adventure. Really just someone who is all around cool and that can handle me, I am not a shy "type A" person, I speak just as easily to total strangers as I do to long-term friends. Please love to be active and adventurous, as I am not a couch potato by any stretch. I figured I would give this a try to see who is out there....since I have alot going on already, it makes more sense than to meet someone this way than by some chance, random encounter...at least I think it does anyway...I guess we will see. Don't be shy, let me know what's on your mind. Being funny and loving to laugh are huge pluses!

Meet men and women from Tucson, United States. I'm just your avearage Joe looking for an average Joan. I am recently divorced but have been single for two years now. I have two boys that are the world to me. I lost 60 lbs last year but have gained some back...not all...so if round (ish) is a shape, then I'm in shape! This year's goal is to get my butt back on the tredmill. So I guess I need to describe the woman that I am looking for...well...if you are self centered...not good, Narcissistic...ummm, nope, able to accept people for who they are...ding ding ding!!! What do you have for her johnny?!? Wow...really went off the deep-end on that one. But really, one aspect of a woman that I am NOT looking for is a woman that thinks "the woman is always right". I know there are comedians out there that say this type of thing, and it is funny to laugh at, but relationships are not a one-way street. It takes two people to be right and wrong in order for a relationship to work. One thing that I am attracted to in a woman is her "...ness". I can appreciate a woman that takes pride in her looks (even though I have fallen off the diet wagon) but arm-candy does not impress me. Jeans and a t-shirt is just as sexy as a nice dress. A woman's true beauty comes from the inside and not just the outside.
I open doors and pull out chairs because it is the right thing for a man to do for a woman...because chivarly is not dead. I would have to say that I am pretty good and foot and shoulder massages too. If I am off and you are working, I will most likely either bring you lunch or take you somewhere. I am not a general contractor, but I am very handy around the house. I take pride in what I do, and will spend the extra time to do things right...the first time. I wish I had more to write here but I will say that my kids come first, however I put as much energy as I can into treating a woman like a women should be treated! I am a man that has made my share of mistakes in my life, but I have learned from them and do not wish to repeat those mistakes...just trying to be honest.
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Date a man from Tucson, United States. Not really sure what to say about myself. I can be shy at first around people I do not know, but I will open up once I start to feel more comfortable with someone. I have one daughter that is the number one priority in my life. Between work and my daughter I do not have a lot of spare time on my hands, but I can find the time to start a new friendship. I like to get out on road trips at least a couple of times a year to see the great cities and National Parks of the western states. I also enjoy going to UA Wildcat games and going up to Phoenix for Cardinal and D-back games. I also occasionally go to Phoenix for concerts as well as catching local shows. I like to cook and can hold my own in the kitchen. I have lived in Tucson for over half of my life now, but I have lived in three other states: California, Texas, and Florida.
Right now I am not looking to jump into anything serious, but if the right lady came along, I could change my tune. But to start, I am just looking for someone to start a friendship with. A strong, independent, and self-sufficient person is someone that I would be attracted to. Someone that would want to spend time with me for who I am and not think that they need to change me.
If you want to know more about me please just ask.

Meet someone special from Tucson, United States. I'm not big into harping on my self if you are interested drop me a line. I work a lot and have a good job. Not a deadbeat......lol I have several pics if you are interested in chatting with me somemore. I have no kids, because I never wanted to bring a child into a worlk that didn't have both parents around to raise them

Date people from Tucson, United States. I've had many different experiences in life; I've written, painted, made music. I've run for office (State Senate, District 11, 2004), been on the Board of a major civil rights organization, and lobbied the Legislature. I've lived on a self sufficient commune while I was "writing a novel." I've been an athlete (hockey and tennis), and I've worked in the financial industry. Some experiences have been fulfilling, others not so much. For the past 14 years, I worked in the investment business. But a little less than a year ago, I left to return to school to get a law degree to take my passion for fighting for social justice to a professional (rather than volunteer) level.
I suppose all of that can be looked at in one of two ways; either I have a major issue with commitment (thus the variance of endeavors I've undertaken), or I've lived enough to know what I want in settling down. I believe it's the latter, though I imagine you will have to be the judge, ultimately :).
As for what type of person I am, I tend to be extremely passionate, yet at the same time, I am not overly emotional. I am very even tempered, and am an outstanding communicator.
Humor wise, I suppose sarcastic witticism would best encapsulate me, which I suppose is a genetic thing (I grew up in a large, NY area Jewish family that loves to argue about politics even though we all agree on most issues). However, I'm not entirely immune to the occasional episode of more base humor (I've been known to chuckle at flatulence, and I'm not ashamed to admit it).
Oh, and I should mention one thing related to my appearance. I've included a couple of pictures. At present, I have grown out my hair (this was originally intended to be a pre-emptive strike against possible mid life crisis; however, since I wound up quitting my job and going back to school, I suppose it didn't work very well). As such, I included a current picture, as well as an older one when my hair was short. I'm debating whether to cut it short again, notwithstanding the William Kunstler fantasy of being a civil rights lawyer. Feel free to tell me your views on which direction you think I should take...keep the long hair or cut it.
I should leave something to the imagination, so on to what I am looking for in a woman. Number one, far and a away, is intelligence. I like a woman who can challenge me intellectually and call me out if I say something that deserves to be called out. Certainly, compassion is important as well, as one might guess from my non-profit and canine interests. Finally, I am not at all a controlling person (I'm not a pushover, either, for that matter); strangely, I find that a lot of women seem unaccustomed to a man who is not looking to control them and are unsure how to handle it (chalk it up to traditional gender roles?). I prefer an equally balanced partnership with a strrong, confident woman.
I suppose that'll do for now...when I write, I can go on forever, so I'll exercise a modicum of control and cut myself off. Since I am reticent to insert something overly sappy as a grand conclusion, just insert your own feel-good sentiment here. And thanks for reading!

Meet single man from Tucson, United States. I am a pretty simple person and I am not out to impress anyone. Mostly I seek someone who simply loves life, loves to laugh, and loves to have fun. Perfection is not needed, humble and thankful is preferred. Race or national origin is not as important as who you are as a person. Good attitude, honest, loving, caring, respectful, compassionate and passionate.
I also love to laugh. Life provides a comedy without a script. I like someone who appreciates an odd, but humorous perspective of everyday life and isn't offended by a different point of view.
By the way, I am not bald I just like the brush cut. LOL
Make it a good day!!!

Date a soulmate from United States. I am good-hearted guy that has a lot to bring to the table. I’m sweet, and honest. I am very adventurous, and a bit of a child at heart but I am always up for a challenge or a new adventure. I am always down to do anything new, fun, and spontaneous. I grew up on a sailboat on the east coast, Bahama's and Bermuda. I have had allot of adventures over seas, Costa Rica, Canada and relief work in Haiti. I still have a strong desire to travel more and find new adventures in country's I haven't been to.
I am outgoing, but still can be a little reserve in the beginning. I have a lot of ambitions and goals, and strive everyday to get closer to accomplishing them. I believe it's all what you make of it. I believe in making the most of life and taking nothing for granted.
I enjoy keeping my mind active as well as staying physically active. I'm not into playing games at this point in my life. I am open and honest and straightforward but defiantly I can be sarcastic at times but it’s all in fun. I will be the first one to laugh or poke fun at myself.
I like to spoil, not always with things, with time and attention. Affection is very important to me. I think with the daily routine of life, a intimate touch or a kiss makes you feel wanted and needed.
I'm not big on drinking. I do enjoy a glass of wine or a beer every now and then but its rare. I enjoy going out for nice dinners and having great conversations and being out doors.
I am looking for Self-motivated, goal driven girl. Someone who is fun, intellectual, easy going, and enjoys life, makes me laugh, positive attitude and is honest. I would like to find somebody that has some similar interests, but that I can also learn some new things from and teach some new things to.
I would like to find someone focuses on the good and see’s even the positive in the bad, one who doesn’t dwell on the negative. A girl who when they hit a roadblock in life doesn’t give up but looks for the solution.

Meet men and women from United States. Quiet shy guy with a strange sense of humor describes me fairly well. A little weird too and not afraid to admit that. The shyness fades quickly once I get to know someone, especially if they decide to share a bit about themselves first.
I like cooking and trying new foods. That goes with the rest of my adventurous side. Visited 36 states so far. I will make it to all 50 one day, along with riding in a hot air balloon. I like cats, or maybe they just like me. Haven't been able to figure that one out yet. I can bowl pretty well, recite the lyrics to any classic rock song, and I've seen every Jimmy Stewart movie multiple times. If you'd like to know anything more, ypu only need to ask.
Looking for someone to have a life long adventure with. If you enjoy seeing where a road leads just because it's there and like getting some roses on a random Tuesday, that someone may be you.

Date a man from United States. I'm an honest and out-going guy that is tired of playing "Games." I tend to start off kinda quietly, but most that know me probably do not consider me shy. Pretty much the typical introverted-extrovert. I am a bit of a night owl, but always up for hiking and other daytime stuff. I travel whenever possible... Some favorite past adventures: Running with the bulls in Pamplona, Bastille in Paris and diving in Fiji... Hopefully Italy soon :) I love museums, though not necessarily an "art-buff." I am a social person that likes to be around others out and about... although usually not worried about being part of the attraction.. BBQ'ing, Concerts, Theater, Restaurants, etc... I am ready to slow down a bit and get serious with the right one, although that doesn't mean I am ready for boredom. The "Sunday Kind of Love" is awesome if it means laying in bed after an interesting Saturday night! Essentially, If anything, I am looking for the proverbial partner in crime. Also, I am definitely a sucker for a good bottle of red, late night conversations, and a pretty smile...
IDEAL WOMAN??? That's a tough one... I am looking for a woman who is sweet, sincere, intelligent, and honest... who can also be a bit twisted and sarcastic when the situation calls for it. She should be able to stand up for what she believes in and can enjoy the occasional intellectual debate.. emphasis on the intellectual ;)
A love of traveling is a must ! ! I definitely go for the type of girl that can hit a dive bar one night, and the theater the next... So in other words, Netflix nights are great... but not every night :) Anyways, give it a try and please have a photo... Ciao, Ralph

Meet someone special from United States. I enjoy what I do and i'm working to open my own restaurant. I'm looking for someone who can understand this. I want someone who is able to have fun no matter what we are doing.Someone who can make me laugh

Date people from United States. I recently experienced an epiphany about women. My cousin's six year-old commanded me to play "King and Queen". She informed me that "the Queen is more royal than the King...so you have to do what I say". She then told me, "You never do anything right, except sometimes." She also decided we would play Monopoly, then kept changing the rules until she had all of the money and property.
It was then I realized that women have pretty much figured out relationships by the time they are six.
Unfortunately, I am not quite that clever.
I am looking for someone who revels in witty conversation.
I know that sounds pretty simple; but, what I most enjoy is finding someone that makes both of us "light up" when we are together. I don't have preconceived standards that a woman must meet. Basically, the only real thing that I look for is interpersonal "chemistry".
If we have that; where we go and what we do are almost irrelevent. We will have fun just by being together. Generally, who you are with is much more important than where you are or what you do.
The only way to discover if you and I have that chemistry, however, is to contact me and find out.
Email me! I don't bite.

Meet single man from United States. Well, here goes nuthin'. Just moved to this lovely state and don't know anyone here, so why not, right? I'm an extremely laid back person who is as comfortable lost in the wilderness as he is dressed up and on the town. I'm always seeking adventure and new experiences and I'm especially psyched about exploring the Southwest as I've never spent much time here before. I'm brutally honest, almost to a fault. These things happen when you're raised by Chicago Italians and spend most of your adult life in New York. So if you're looking for the bashful, shoe-gazer, I'd look elsewhere.
What I'm looking for? A wicked sense of humor, or at least one that can keep up. Spontaneity. Simplicity. One who believes that the glass is half full (except when it's not). One with a quick wit. Someone who can correct my spelling and puts in 100%.