Date men from United States / Arizona / Mesa, 41 year old - page 3

Date single man from Arizona, United States. Life is beautiful. I was asked in an interview to describe myself with one word... and "compassionate" rolled off my tongue. I'm passionate about life especially my daughters and those who are close and I'm compassionate towards all human beings and creatures... big and small. As Paramhansa Yogananda stated, "I could not think of being unkind, even to a mortal enemy. It would hurt me. I see so much unkindness in the world, and there is no excuse for me to add to it. When you love God, and when you see God in every soul, you cannot be mean. If someone behaves hurtfully toward you, think of the best ways to behave lovingly toward them."
I try to keep life simple and enjoy every moment. I love the outdoors and all of God's creation... the mountains for skiing and sled riding in the winter and camping in the summer and the ocean and beaches during the summer. A simple barbeque and relaxing by the pool in the summer is always enjoyable.
I'm seeking a woman who is genuine, real and honest. Someone who is not just physically fit but spiritually and mentally healthy as well. She must be family-oriented and love children and animals... especially dogs.... someone who has a sense of humor and can laugh at herself and can be goofy, is open-minded and enjoys life in the ups as well as the downs. A college education is a plus... it says something about your character... you can set your mind to something and finish what you start.
Please no history of mental illness especially bipolar, depression, schizophrenia, anger, lying or cheating. Life is too short so there's no time for drama.
Peace. :-)

Meet a soulmate from Arizona, United States. I am just me... and I am no ones "2nd choice" ... I'm either 1st or none.
If you get this following "Boys vs Men" comparison, then you might understand me.
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The Difference between a Boy and a Man:
Boys are students: Men are teachers
Boys are consumers: Men are producers
Boys play with toys: Men work with tools
Boys break things: Men make things
Boys ask questions: Men give answers
Boys are disruptive: Men bring order
Boys run in gangs: Men organize teams
Boys play house: Men build homes
Boys shack up: Men get married
Boys make babies: Men raise children
A boy won’t raise his own children: A man will raise his and somebody else’s
Boys invent excuses for failure: Men produce strategies for success
Boys look for somebody to take care of them: Men look for somebody to take care of
Boys are present-centered; Men are time-balanced, having knowledge of the past and understanding of the present and a vision for the future
Boys seek popularity: Men demand respect
Boys are up on the latest: Men are down with the GREATEST
~Clarence L. James
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YOU:
Between 4'10 and 5'6
Likes all kinds of music, but not too much country (a little is OK)
If loving, caring, sweet, chill, happy, describe you... Yea!
If sad, angry, lazy, no energy, boring describe you ... Nay!

Date a man from Arizona, United States. Good shape,smart is sexy.A woman that i am glad to call my other half and best friend.Some one who will appreciate all the little things i love to do for my lady.A good sense of humor,a little shy.But with a wild streak,so if this sounds like you.Get at me

Meet someone special from Arizona, United States. I just switched careers and now hold the reins to my own destiny!! It feels good to know that the more I put into something, the more I will get in return. 6 years of executive corporate life has taught me a lot and it was time for a change!
I exercise when I can to stay in shape and blow off steam. (At least 3 times a week if I can) I'm very easy going and laid back but know how to be serious when I have to.
I would like a partner with an opinion even if it doesn't match mine. It is ok to disagree. I like to get out on my days off but I don't mind a relaxing weekend at home doing abosolutely nothing as well. Looking for someone who can be spontanous and also lazy on those days you just want to do nothing. I have a very sarcastic and open sense of humor so my partner needs to be on their toes and playful. I love to play around and keep it light but also know how to be romantic and treat a woman like a woman. I am far from prefect but I am a very honest person and look for the same in return. (sometimes the truth hurts but its better than a lie) I do like a "good" glass of wine with a nice dinner from time to time.
I did change careers and with that came huge potential but the down side is the extra attention and dedication to the job. I will need someone with patients and understanding of what it takes to manage and grow a successful business. It will be worth the effort!
I am a man who also likes working in the garage on my free time. I build things. Custom cars, trucks, sand rails. I like dirt bikes and motorcycles. I enjoy getting dirty and adding my own personal touch to vehicles because stock sucks! :) I love racing and going to the sand dunes. At the end of the day, I know how to put on a tie and go to the finest restauraunt. Being an Account Executive for a Fine Wine and Spirits distributor gave me the opportunity to travel around wine country and feel comfortable in many different situations. (From high end restaurants to dive bars. I can adapt to any situation) I've spent 20 years in the corporate world and 6 as an account executive but get grease under my finger nails on the weekend. I am confident with out being cocky... I have nothing to prove and dont need to act like someone I am not. I'm looking for someone that is independent and secure in a career with the drive and motivation to take chances and try new things. I am not possesive and controling in a relationship. An independent person can be a very positive attribute to a relationship when both individulas are secure with them selves. Trust is an absolute must with me.
I like to go with the flow but with the right person, I also like to stray off the beaten path and make our own trails. I do my best to stay in shape and eat healthy but sometimes junk foods fills the craving. I'm looking for someone who wants to have fun and see where this whole online thing goes. (I have never done this before) If it is meant to be, it will happen. I like trying new things and hope this opens the door to new people and friendships with the possibility of something more.
If I send you an email or wink at you and I do not fit what you are looking for, Please feel free to hit the "Say, No Thanks" button. I am a big boy and you will not hurt my feelings.. :) In return, Please dont take it personal if you email or wink at me and I send back no thanks.

Date single man from Mesa, United States. Im very easy going,can be a little shy but not insecure...honest,hard working,i have a good heart and treat others as i would want to be treated.i was enjoying being single and it doesnt seem easy to meet a good person but i would like to find someone to start sharing some fun times with.

Meet a soulmate from Mesa, United States. My Father, who is in Heaven, praise you for all of the wonderful creativity you have created and displayed for us here on Earth. Thank you so much for your grace and forgiveness for the sins I have committed. Please continue to forgive me as I will never be perfect. Father, as you know, I deeply desire to meet my wife. However, should Your plans for me not include such a privilage, may Your will be done. If You do have someone set aside for me, please give me the strength and wisdom to lead us honorably in Your will. Please Lord, have mercy on us.

Date a man from Mesa, United States. I want her to be nice to me and I don't like to argue about anything because it makes no sense to argue with the person that you love we should only argue about who loves the other the most, and for her to make me laugh,and let me spend all of my time with her to love her forever...

Meet someone special from Mesa, United States. My perfect match for me is someone that doesnt cheat somone that doesnt run away from a problem a woman that does not like to argue everyday about something I want me a woman that I can come home to and be happy with a woman that can be my backbone a woman that will except me for me are you her??????

Date single man from United States. Midwest guy, with midwest values. Moved to Arizona via work transfer about 7yrs ago and I really like it.
I love my work and I love my career and the opportunities they have afforded me, but I'm now looking for balance between my professional and personal life.
I am a easy going,confident,and goal oriented person and not very much gets me down. I am very positive and will usually find the good in any situation.
I work in the Insurance and I love my work. I consider myself to be very blessed and fortunate to do what I do and at the level the level of success I've been able to achieve...
I follow politics and world events and like to keep myself well informed but at the sametime I do not force my views upon anyone as I appreciate the same.I like to engage in casual non confrontational debate as I most of the time find it stimulating and rewarding..
I do like sports but Im not a junky, Im more so a casual fan. Im not the kind that watchs Sports Center daily but I do somehow keep up with whats going on.
When I am involved in a committed relationship I am a one woman man. You most definately will not find me to be possessive of jealous, but more so carefree and sponteoneous.
I would like to spend time with a woman that is fun, talkative, and opinated, a women that is strong, caring, motivating, encourging, and supportive.
Some Things I Like:
Sleeping In
Crab Legs
News
Volunteeriing
Helping others
Garlic Toast
German Chocolate Cake
Mens Health Magazine
Barnes & Noble
Smelling Good
Laughing
Smiling
Fresh Haircut
Achieving goals
Travel
Fitness
SOME DISLIKES:
Pretentious People
Prejudging
Washing my car
Cleaning the Shower Glass
Vegetables
Getting up early ( although I have to)
Baiting my own fishing hook
Wasted time
Moving
Packing
Im sure I could go on and on but Im just trying to fill up this thing and give you some idea..

Meet a soulmate from United States. I move to the valley 5 years ago. I have dated, but have not found a true match. I sometimes feel like I dont know where to begin to look. I'm older now and dont want to live the night life anymore. I enjoy a latenight out at times, but it gets old. I never been married, but been engaged. When I relocated from Ohio, that ended the relationship. I had a girlfriend for a short time when I first moved here and been on a few dates. Overall I have not dated or met my match. I would like to meet an established women, who knows what they like and shows companionship. I just recently bought a home in E. Mesa, so I'm still getting to know there area. I have to admit I'm shy at first, but I have a lot to give. I have always worked in banking, and spend time in the Army after high school. Yes, I am a neat person, and I do make my bed and keep my clothes and clutter in place. Let's chat , and maybe I'll be the one for you!

Date a man from United States. I grew up in Monrovia, CA (LA suburb) and I loved it there. I've also lived in Manhattan - loved it too!
Music, Art and Theater are a big part of who I am, so I hope you're into these as well. I love to sing, I especially love to harmonize with friends.
I am a part-time student, still chipping away at that Bachelor's degree. I hope to land myself a better job sometime soon. I want work to be more fun.
I am looking to meet some new people and have some fun. I am new to the dating scene, and have never done this kind of thing, really. It's actually pretty exciting.
One thing - LOCALS ONLY. I just got what was at least my second correspondence from someone in another country, who asked right away for me to correspond off site. That is a red flag and I am not interested if you have a problem using Match.com. I pay for it, I'm using it.
Having just gotten divorced, I'm not looking for my future ex-wife yet. But ultimately, someday, I do want to find that perfect partner in crime! What I mean is, I cherish traditional values, but sometimes, I break them. My partner in crime has to be on board with this. Example: I do not believe in stealing, but would I sneak into a unoccupied train stateroom for a tryst with a lover? You bet. I'm the guy who sneaks booze into church camp. I do like me a little mischief!
That said, for the moment, I am interested in casual dating. Yes, I'll change my mind very quickly if: I see you across a crowded room, you take my breath away (cue violins and slo-mo) ... we run toward each other with the wind blowing through our hair ...
If THAT happens, we'll take off to Vegas and hit the Elvis chapel. Until then, casual dating.
Clearly you will have to have a compatible sense of humor with me!
Perhaps this would sound better in Dobly.

Meet someone special from United States. I am a very God orientated person. Religion=religion....Following the God of Israel= Staying in line with the Commandments, love, kindness, compassion, and a drive to better all around one.....I will not do what is contrary to staying in line with the second.....Sin of any form will not be partaken of. So no pre-marital sex. This would be causing one to sin and no love is involved with that. If you are looking for some one with compassion, wisdom, wits, intelligence, a good heart, and would never hurt my partner, then I am here. I love kids, animals, the outdoors, quiet times, and neat places to visit.
I really very rarely watch TV. Once in a blue moon a decent movie. Otherwise the small things in life is what matters most. Skyscraperers not need be built in order to make a diffrence in anothers life.
Love conquers all things and is more valueable then all treasures on earth.
I can cook a bit but am pretty bad and my first grilled cheese sandwhich smoked out the house......
I have lived an extrodinary life with wild happenings and a job as a sheriff for 17 years, so I have seen it all.
If you are not stuck on self and are caring, kind, Godly, full of love and compassion, maybe a match is here.
I would prefer a person who is non-religious, as religion to me is a effort in futility producing nothingness.
Godliness is however a whole diffrent matter!
I was on the wide road too long, now I am wise enough to have skipped on over to the narrow one.
I am not weird but am certainly diffrent.
Instead of striving to live a life in making a super comfy position to die in, I have concluded it is better to die broke and have helped many along the way.
Not many can handle such a person as me, but someone must be out there somewhere!