Date single man from Mesa, United States. I am looking for a person that wants to be
with someone to have a good time plus
share there feelings spend the time together
having fun and some quite timr also be a non
committed relationship
Meet a soulmate from Mesa, United States. I am a strong believer in earning trust and respect being important so humans can feel secure in relating to one another. I've been a car nut my whole life and love being creative. Humor also plays a role in life but without belittling others. Curiosity about spirituality and answers to living life constructively do occupy my mind a lot. Decent communication is important as I've been in Toastmasters for public speaking at one time. I'm more into solid friendships then relationships.
So I came in. looked around and questioned my own motives about this. I was married for 21 years and 23 years after divorce my ex wrote it was time to make amends because she was dying from lung cancer. The saying it takes a woman to make a man sure is true as my ex and I brought 2 daughters into this world. Our youngest became suicidal after being bullied at age twelve and killed herself at age 19. Seven years of attempting to encourage another human being to want to live is an experience not many people get to go through. Plus I heard her mother cry which was a wake up call about how ignorant I was concerning choosing who to get involved with and how to honestly establish solid relationships. For me I had to accept my role as a male and the responsibility that goes along with serving that role in life.
I actually got mentally burned out with sex because in all those I've been involved with that seemed to be the only thing we were together with. With my daughter I intentionally set out to earn her trust and respect whereas my relationship with her mother didn't include earning each others trust and respect. My daughter left everything in writing where she states that I was the only one who kept her going by keeping her focused on going for her dreams where others could only see her as a problem to fix.
I write this because I've been single for over 30 years and am at a point where I look at the responsibility and accountability that goes with relationships. Making amends before my ex died left me with a mindset of not wanting to get involved with anybody again where I have to make amends to them when I get on my death bed.
I look around at photos and have to admit I'm not a class act. My home is a pig pen. I've already marched people out of the house because I'd tell them my mess is bothering you to much. It doesn't bother me though. Another thing I've lived my whole life below the poverty level. I appreciate living this way. I know drug dealers, prostitutes, Outlaw bikers and yet most of my work was for wealthy people. To me we're all made of the same stuff. My life has been richer with these people and I am thankful for it being that way.
I write this now because even though I joined this site I did not like marriage or relationships so I apologize if I mislead anybody. I like my own life now and if anything I only let in friendships. I am not interested in relationships so I hope I am being clear about that.
Date someone special from Mesa, United States. I am told by others that I look younger and have the energy of a person much less than my actual age.
I am an easy person to get along with and I treat others the way I would like to be treated.
I am a caring romantic with a great sense of humor,guaranteed to make you laugh.
I have an adventurous spirit and love to take weekend trips to Rocky Point, Mexico, San Diego or the mountain towns of Arizona.
I can feel comfortable on the beach in Mexico, having fun at Disneyland or just relaxing at home.
Contrary to most men, I enjoy shopping and have the patience to wait outside a dressing room :-)
I like sports, but I am not a TV sports Junkie.
I go to the gym 3 days a week to keep in shape.
My best assets are my love of people, a caring heart, truthfulness, excellent health and a dedicated spiritual nature that is not overbearing.
I believe in Chemistry between two people and know one of the best ways to find someone you are truly attracted to is a Face to Face meeting. One picture might be worth a thousand words, but I am a true believer that one meeting is worth more than a thousand pictures.
Have Fun will Travel.......give me a try.
Meet a man from Mesa, United States. I'm a real animal lover. I always own 2 because they can keep each other company when I'm not there to attend to them.
I'm hoping to attract a female that also enjoys life.
I need some one who doesn't mind my instant decision to do something or go somewhere. I will let her make her comments on the subject.
Date single man from United States. I'm a happy person 98% of the time, widowed 5 yrs in Aug. Wt 205 not bad looking, not lazy,always help around the house,fair Handyman. Drove Truck for 30yrs ,worked on Aircraft for 16 yrs at Sky Harbor. Have Family in the Midwest and W.end of VA and E end of Tenn, AZ, Wash,Mich.,OH
N and S Carolina. IND and KY. Raised 3 kids in a Luth Chr and School. gone to many diff Churches in my life.But have my beliefs and don't argue it. AND I COME HOME AT NITE.. I I really don't want to leave Mesa AZ. I have decent house in a Retirement comm.but I will never say Never,but I have a Sister 2 blocks from here that needs me to be near for now
I'm honest and if I say I will do something I do my very best to do it .I like cards, as long as it is not everynite golf, basketball,and most sports and do Stained Glass and would like her to enjoy some of it with me THANKS FOR LISTENING
Would like a women that appreciates a man that will help her ,one that loevs to travel now and then,loves to Cruise,likes the MTNS, Deserts, and STREAMS,but loves to be at HOME also Not a lot that I need but love to hold hands and cuddle,and have lap to lay my head in and talk and relax if she likes that also. I want to be Happy and my Partner to be Happy also, don't think either shoud have to deal with things that unjust. I have always said to my poor wife that passed away that if we disagree just do it my way and I will be Happy......JUST KIDDING LADYS JUST KIDDING>
I HAVE HAD MANY LOOKS AT MY SITE AND I'M THANKFUL BUT I'M SO BUSY THAT IF I DON'T ANSWER RIGHT AWAY ITS NOT THAT I'M IGNORING ANYONE I JUST VERY BUSY AND NOT A LOT OF FREE TIME NOW. HOPE IT WILL GET BETTER SOON. WATCHING HOUSES AND DOING HANDYMAN WORK THANKS JIM
Meet a soulmate from United States. Excellent Being, Good food, friends, my friend Chuck and historical events coupled w/ science. Raising 3 kids as a single parents. Life pleasures, A mirrored image, Needs work, Ridiculous moments, A long term partner,Aviation
Date someone special from United States. I'M A GUY THAT LIKES TO LAUGH AND SMILE. I'M EASY GOING LAID BACK AND LOVE TO HAVE FUN. NOT LOOKING FOR ANYTHING SERIOUS. JUST LOOKING FOR SOMEONE THAT LIKES TO MAKE LOVE AND HAVE FUN.
MY DATE SHOULD TAKE ME LIKE I AM AND NOT TRY O CHANGE ME. I'LL DO THE SAME. I ENJOY GOOD CONVERSATION AND APPRESIATE SOMEONE THAT CAN CARY A CONVERSATION.
Meet a man from United States. I'm a big old lovable teddy bear who loves to laugh and make others laugh. I have a positive outlook on life and all its joys and opportunities. Finding a perfect match is an absurdity since we all have dents and bruises. A GOOD match will like some of the things I like and I will like at least some of the things she likes. The important thing will be that we like each other.